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amoryblane -> What is always humiliating to you? (5/4/2009 4:43:13 PM)
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Some forms of humiliation become less, well, humiliating, as one grows accustomed to them. Others really never lose their sting. Over the course of 15 years or so, these are some of the things whose psychological bite has really never dulled:
Feet in my face--I know a lot of subs pretty much live for foot worship. For me, anything involving somebody else having their feet in my face is absolutely mortifying. People make fun of me because sometimes when it's happening I blush radioactively.
Nose pushed into floor, wall, etc-- The same as above, except I don't know anyone who specifically likes this. Pushing my nose into the carpet always makes me think "Oh man, I hope they deep steam cleaned this very recently...."
Being naked while the Woman is clothed--Self-explanatory, and pretty standard. I think this is one of those things most people eventually get used to, but for me it tends to drain the bluster right out of me.
Subtle public humiliation--I'm not talking about something that makes a spectacle of me. The ironic thing about being a spectacle is that people develop a kind of weird, snickering, appreciation for you. It's like when I was pledging my frat and had to get on a table in the lunchroom and sing. If you're really flamboyant, people will play along. And I...well there's no good way to put this other than "I'm kind of an attention whore to start with". But there are few things more embarrassing than having just two or three people behind me in line see me having my face casually slapped, or a few strangers sitting nearby at a bar hearing me called "slut".
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