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LadyPact -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:16:00 PM)
To the OP. It really does sound like she isn't interested in you as a sub, or to assist in teaching you. It sounds like she enjoys chatting with you. It's not a mixed message. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Now for this: quote: ORIGINAL: azjojoba quote: ORIGINAL: DemonKia Welcome to the message boards, OP. These threads might be helpful starter reading: For men: how to find a woman here Lessons you have learned. The same 10 questions always asked I have learned plenty on this website. Like for instance, I learned that a man's chance of meeting a woman here is about like a snowball's chance in hell. Do us all a favor and put a sock in it. When you do, realize that the sock is full of male bovine fecal matter. (God, I miss DarchChylde around these boards.) I have met literally hundreds of people who are on CM. Hundreds. Do you know why I've met so many? Because I got up off of My ass, and went out the door to meet them. Even when My husband had no interest in kink. No, I didn't play with all of them, but that didn't stop us from meeting them. I'm going back to My house cleaning now. I suggest that you clean yours.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:22:50 PM)
I met a person that I only knew through CM just last week---we had a great time catching up! I've made lifetime friends on this site, and had my heart broken, too. Be HONEST, and leave the freakin house!

LadyConstanze -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:22:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Do us all a favor and put a sock in it. When you do, realize that the sock is full of male bovine fecal matter. (God, I miss DarchChylde around these boards.) I have met literally hundreds of people who are on CM. Hundreds. Do you know why I've met so many? Because I got up off of My ass, and went out the door to meet them. Even when My husband had no interest in kink. No, I didn't play with all of them, but that didn't stop us from meeting them. I'm going back to My house cleaning now. I suggest that you clean yours. Ahhh but you see this is the crux of the matter, you were willing to meet people just to meet them, you didn't expect instant kink fulfillment and then saying "Thanks, that was great, see you again when I'm horny" and got dressed to go home to your husband... Also you possibly didn't approach them complaining how hard it is to meet a woman, or declare that all the ones under 30 are fakes or pros....

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:25:03 PM)
I am over 40 and I am ARTIFICIAL! Should I put that in my sig? [;)]

LaTigresse -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:27:50 PM)
I am getting closer to 50 than 40 and am far too real for most....[:D]

BoiJen -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:39:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix So, what you're saying is that when I tell someone to go to Hell, he actually has a reasonably decent chance of arriving there. sort of, so long as they have a passport or enough gas money to drive to Michigan. Hell, Michigan is just over an hour outside of Detroit's city limits. boi Future ruler of the Universe serving MsKitty Silently plotting the revenge of the swine

LadyConstanze -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:39:55 PM)
LOL, the thread where azjojoba declared (almost) every woman under 30 as fake or pro got a few laughs, I think it was roughly a year ago or so... Ahh there is something to be said about the reek of desperation in the air, sometimes you even catch a whiff of it online... LadyHibiscus, I don't want the tiara, but can I borrow those cute, fake, strappy sandals? OMG, fake sandals... Could they be boots, Prada? I think I just came....

BoiJen -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 12:41:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: azjojoba I have learned plenty on this website. Like for instance, I learned that a man's chance of meeting a woman here is about like a snowball's chance in hell. Do us all a favor and put a sock in it. When you do, realize that the sock is full of male bovine fecal matter. (God, I miss DarchChylde around these boards.) I have met literally hundreds of people who are on CM. Hundreds. Do you know why I've met so many? Because I got up off of My ass, and went out the door to meet them. Even when My husband had no interest in kink. No, I didn't play with all of them, but that didn't stop us from meeting them. I'm going back to My house cleaning now. I suggest that you clean yours. I'm just trying to figure out exactly how he is "willing to relocate" but needing to keep it discrete. boi Future ruler of the Universe serving MsKitty silently plotting the revenge of the swine...if you don't believe me I have a group on Fl as well....join!

aidan -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 1:25:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I am over 40 and I am ARTIFICIAL! Should I put that in my sig? [;)] Oh shit, did you just confess to being a Replicant Hib? Can you get me Rutger Hauer's autograph?

Bella1965 -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 2:49:41 PM)
G'afternoon all: quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Do us all a favor and put a sock in it. When you do, realize that the sock is full of male bovine fecal matter. I'm going back to My house cleaning now. I suggest that you clean yours. It's moments like this that require advance notice to readers. Thank you LP for causing me to wipe the screen clean of Diet Pepsi Max. Warn a gal, could you? To the OP; pardon the hijack. To your query. Chat rooms are just that. It's entertainment. Take it with a grain of salt and enjoy the conversations. If you wish to learn something specific? I suggest creating a post that addresses a particular issue and then weigh the responses you receive. Most of the time, you will receive good advice. Then again, you could just get a sarcastic wench like me that'll spin it. Welcome to the boards. Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others... [:D] Bella

masmiss -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 2:50:57 PM)
I have learned plenty on this website. Like for instance, I learned that a man's chance of meeting a woman here is about like a snowball's chance in hell. [/quote] I can sure see why you've been unsuccessful. A negative attitude like that would repel just about anybody who might have otherwise been interested in you. I found my boy after we'd both been on CM less than two weeks. In another two weeks, we were together. Positive attitudes attract. I found my boy a couple months after joining CM

Lockit -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 2:58:04 PM)
ROFL to you all! And to those still drinking and eating while reading... you will learn! The hard way of course... just like I did! Damn crackers and laughter do not mix! Kinda hurt too!

LadyPact -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 3:03:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Do us all a favor and put a sock in it. When you do, realize that the sock is full of male bovine fecal matter. (God, I miss DarchChylde around these boards.) I have met literally hundreds of people who are on CM. Hundreds. Do you know why I've met so many? Because I got up off of My ass, and went out the door to meet them. Even when My husband had no interest in kink. No, I didn't play with all of them, but that didn't stop us from meeting them. I'm going back to My house cleaning now. I suggest that you clean yours. Ahhh but you see this is the crux of the matter, you were willing to meet people just to meet them, you didn't expect instant kink fulfillment and then saying "Thanks, that was great, see you again when I'm horny" and got dressed to go home to your husband... Also you possibly didn't approach them complaining how hard it is to meet a woman, or declare that all the ones under 30 are fakes or pros.... My Dear, LadyC. I made My comments with such thoughts in mind. I have met hundreds while not hoping for either play or sex. Should that have been My goal, I could have met thousands. My best to you and yours.

gentlemanprince -> RE: Dommes (5/5/2009 3:18:43 PM)
azjojoba, you say that "a man's chance of meeting a woman here is about like a snowball's chance in hell." I disagree. I spend a lot of time in the chatrooms and have gotten to meet quite a few wonderful women. I am friends with a number of them. In fact, I am exploring a deeper relationship with one of them; she may become a life partner. From several years in the chatrooms, I've come to the conclusion that men who are single-mindedly focused on finding a partner tend to turn off women. Relax. Get to know them as people. You may just find the woman with whom you click. gp

ChampagneMojito -> RE: Dommes (5/6/2009 12:13:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLou I guess snowballs must be rolling in hell right now, as I met my male sub on this very site also. We met 3 years ago this July. Lets go build a snowman on lucifers front lawn! [;)] [sm=biggrin.gif] I'm all for it! I think we should bring our boys along though. Then, if Lucifer gets a bit mad, we'll have some warm bodies to throw to him while we retire to the pub for a warming toddy of some sort - preferably an Irish coffee. [sm=buddies.gif]

KoolnSassy -> RE: Dommes (5/6/2009 2:33:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sub4u101 I am new to this and I have been chatting with a Domme for a week or so on collarme videochat room. I asked her if she would teach me and she told me not to ask. She then told me she wasn't needing a sub now. Then she saw me asking another Domme and she told me not to be bothering others. She also told me she never wanted to see me wanking in the chat room. When she is on we chat a lot. I am not sure what to make of this. Is she testing me to see how serious I am? Please let me know. I really like her but not sure how this works. Well, having been on the other end of the crop, this woman sounds extremely confusing to me. She's telling you what you can and can't do, but hasn't made any clear commitment. That's up to you to decide if you can handle a Dominant like that. It would make me nuts. The best thing you can do though, is ask her.

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