leadership527
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact Thanks for responding the.dark. (As always, My regards to Darcy.) No, the rules of the event aren't rigid. We have monogamous, non play couples come along, too. We have one M/s couple who basically come for the reasons given above. He likes to play poker, she only serves him. Still, it gives him a chance at cards and she socializes with the other house servants in the early evening. He tends to give his play money away during the auction part. (He does sit in on the auction, to watch the bidding and help others trying to make certain purchases.) They do stay through the play portion, even if it's just to talk with others. Jeff, it's good to see you posting again. (My regards to Carol.) What? Married people can't like blackjack? *smiles* thanks LadyPact. So with that clarification, I guess it would depend on how I felt about the people. It's still pretty true that Carol & I don't exactly "fit in" in a typical BDSM setting. That being said, it's also delightful to be able to do WIITWD in front of others when those others would be both accepting and otherwise socially a match. A card evening sounds like fun and in truth, I wouldn't have issues having Carol serve another d-type. Such a thing would probably be fun for all involved and if he was even remotely compatible with her, who knows what new ideas she might come back to me with? It probably goes without saying that I'd have some pretty strict limits set for a dom I didn't know.
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~Jeff I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael
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