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darkclouds -> Argh!! (5/6/2009 2:54:19 PM)

This is basically a rant, so I will apologize now. But I promise to keep it short.

If you have never even kissed a member of the same sex, you are not bisexual, you are straight. I know that your Domly type may LOVE the idea that he has found a bi girl of his very own, but dont represent yourself as someone you CLEARLY are not. I am sick of all the profiles searching for a third cause the sub has suddenly decided she is Bi, and yet she has no experience with another woman.

For the love of god, make it stop please!!!

Thank you for listening, I feel slightly better now.



IronBear -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:00:08 PM)

I for one would like as some sites do have a box to tick showing Bi Curious as an option. It may solve a few issues.



littlewonder -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:10:49 PM)

Come now..you know being bi is the new fad!

Just watch for the Girls Gone Wild commercials. If you're not doing girl on girl you're just not kewl!



beargonewild -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:12:37 PM)

As one bear to another I do have to agree, having a "bi-curious" option would solve a few dilemmas. Either that or maybe these people could state in their profile they haven't explored their bisexual leanings though are interested.



LovingMistress45 -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:23:05 PM)

If you have never kissed someone of the same sex you are not bi?  I don't know that is true.  I do agree that too many people say they are bi, when they are really only curious.  However, I will say I knew I was bi long before I kissed my first woman.  You can know which genders you are attracted too sexual prior to having contact.  Yes, a bi-curious option would be nice. As, would an option for bottom and top for those that are not really sub or dom.



LadyPact -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:26:09 PM)

Add another vote for the bi-curious option, but that's as far as My agreement holds with the OP.  By that line of thinking, a person doesn't have any sexual orientation until they've engaged in acts with other people.  I'm not quite sure it works that way.



DesFIP -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:26:31 PM)

I knew I was straight before I kissed a boy. Or by the op's logic does that mean I was lesbian because I had had no experience with men? It doesn't to me.



AngelGeena -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:26:33 PM)

I think it may be alot are suddenly bi because their dude wants another chick involved.  And of course, being a good girl, she is going to go along with it.



LadyPact -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:28:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AngelGeena

I think it may be alot are suddenly bi because their dude wants another chick involved.  And of course, being a good girl, she is going to go along with it.


Any chance the female subs can help to convince the male subs that this is a workable option?

(Sorry, folks.  Couldn't resist the stab at comedy.)



DomImus -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:30:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: darkclouds
I am sick of all the profiles searching for a third cause the sub has suddenly decided she is Bi, and yet she has no experience with another woman.


I clearly declared myself heterosexual before I had any experience with a woman (or girl - as the case may be). Most of us were aware of our sexuality or sexual orientation before we became sexually active. Please feel free to explain the difference to me.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:31:58 PM)

Well while more options would be nice, it is as simple as saying first thing first in your profile that you're what ever sexual orientation and kinky orientation that you are.  There for it's stated even if there's no profile option.
quote:

ORIGINAL: LovingMistress45

If you have never kissed someone of the same sex you are not bi?  I don't know that is true.  I do agree that too many people say they are bi, when they are really only curious.  However, I will say I knew I was bi long before I kissed my first woman.  You can know which genders you are attracted too sexual prior to having contact.  Yes, a bi-curious option would be nice. As, would an option for bottom and top for those that are not really sub or dom.



CatdeMedici -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:37:21 PM)

Wow, congrats, you managed to hit a new topic for a rant! I had to look to see if this wasn't from My adult UM, lol---yep, I'm with you on this one! Welcome to the boards!



heartfeltsub -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 3:40:08 PM)

i prefer the term bi-willing. i am past my bi-curious phase, i've done bi, i wouldn't do it on my own, but i am willing to do it in response to a command. So i would really like a bi-willing checkbox.



missturbation -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 4:52:24 PM)

'I kissed a girl and i liked it, the taste of her cherry chap stick'............but i'm not bi [:D]



breatheasone -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 4:58:44 PM)

i think a "bi-curious" option would be nice as well. i have entertained the idea every since i was a teen, only dabbled VERY little. i do feel that anyone i got together with should definitely be told that up front, and i would of course.



camille65 -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 5:43:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: darkclouds

This is basically a rant, so I will apologize now. But I promise to keep it short.

If you have never even kissed a member of the same sex, you are not bisexual, you are straight. I know that your Domly type may LOVE the idea that he has found a bi girl of his very own, but dont represent yourself as someone you CLEARLY are not. I am sick of all the profiles searching for a third cause the sub has suddenly decided she is Bi, and yet she has no experience with another woman.

For the love of god, make it stop please!!!

Thank you for listening, I feel slightly better now.


Sorry but I disagree.
A woman doesn't have to have sex with a man to believe she is het does she? People are born virgins.

Some people just haven't had the opportunity to have sex with *fill in the blank* but still know that they want to.

If I never had sex again I'd still be the sexual orientation I am today.

Sigh. I don't feel like I explained that at all clearly.



Joseff -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 7:54:11 PM)

To quote a submissive I know: "I was once bi-curious, now I am neither." I suspect that in most cases, its not the sub who has suddenly discovered she's bi, its her Dom that has suddenly discovered she's bi.



Arpig -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 9:16:03 PM)

quote:

I am sick of all the profiles searching for a third cause the sub has suddenly decided she is Bi, and yet she has no experience with another woman.
 
And this bothers you why?



FukinTroll -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 9:26:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: darkclouds

I am sick of all the profiles searching for a third cause the sub has suddenly decided she is Bi, and yet she has no experience with another woman.



Hmmm... where, exactly, are they born with such experiences?

Methinks Gene Roddenberry has created a new dimension where he is king perv.



Jeptha -> RE: Argh!! (5/6/2009 9:34:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

quote:

I am sick of all the profiles searching for a third cause the sub has suddenly decided she is Bi, and yet she has no experience with another woman.

And this bothers you why?

Hmmm, yeah. I'm not sure I understand the problem, exactly.

Add that it's hard for me to empathize with you, OP, because you would seem to be in the driver's seat as far as searching for and meeting couples goes, being a bi-female searching for a couple.

Perhaps my impression is wrong there, though?

I think with a little perspicacity and perseverance you should be ok. So hang in there. That's how the pilgrims did it.



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