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how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/9/2009 6:08:35 AM   
kitteneedsmate


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Status: offline 		   i have heard that men either love or hate having their prostrate massaged. i would be most interested in learning exactly how to do this as  i would like to surprise my Dom with a  specially pleasurable sensation.   thanks  ~ kitten
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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/9/2009 11:18:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		first, you should make sure he is comfortable with it. Some men detest the idea of anything going up their ass. If he wants to go through it. It's pretty simple. Have him lay on his back like you are giving him head. Suck on one of your fingers to lube it up, then slowly press it into his anus. Once it is inside, move it back and forth in a "come here" type motion with the your finger. This allows you to rub the upper wall of his rectum, which is where the male G-spot is. I recommend doing this to him while you suck him off, I've been blessed to have a few women give me this treatment and the orgasms are incredible! The key is to be very receptive to him and how he breathes, this way you can tell whether to go harder, to use more lube or to use another finger. I usually find one finger to be plenty but some men may be different. Good luck

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/9/2009 11:57:30 AM   
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Scroll down the page to movie #4 and you can see their suggestion.  While plezzure suggested one method you can also have the man on his hands and knees and milk the prostate by using a downward motion with your finger, or rubbing back and forth over the spot.  Do whatever feels the most comfortable and/or exciting for both of you.  It takes time but many feel it is worth it.  According to the Sex if Fun team, who made the video, this gives an orgasm without ejaculation so the penis will stay erect.  That gives the chance for additional pleasure for both parties.


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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/9/2009 5:20:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh my ! thank you both  sounds like we are in for some FUN!!      kitten

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/9/2009 7:18:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		When you are giving him head, scoot down so his legs are crooked over your shoulders, make sure your hands are well lubed, as you massage his balls, slip a nicely shaped middle finger slowly in his ass, let him breathe, take it, enjoy the fullness, then massage toward the top of his rectum while giving him head--but be prepared to have your mouth raped and him to shoot the moon.
 
 
<what? hey I'm damn good at that stuff...   >


edited to add to the OP--PROSTRATE is lying completely flat on something, PROSTATE is what men have.

< Message edited by CatdeMedici -- 5/9/2009 7:41:28 PM >

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/9/2009 7:40:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		i've done that on a Man before while blowing Him, and you can also feel the prostate....it's relatively round and firm, and after massaging it for a bit it makes for Him having a mind-blowing orgasm.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/9/2009 11:28:07 PM   
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Like sweetsub said, you should be able to feel it once you're in there :) It's about the size of a walnut, but a lot softer.

Some guys are WAY crazy, though, and will get really angry if you go near them with that. WARN HIM. ASK HIM. Etc.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 4:27:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		love prostate massages  my lady my mistress knows my ass and prostate well i must say  with a bbj and a prostate massage i usually cum alot more and it is very intense indeed  have fun mal

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 7:39:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

 
edited to add to the OP--PROSTRATE is lying completely flat on something, PROSTATE is what men have.



You'd be surprise at the number of men who come in to have "prostrate" surgery.   Just how did they know who we are going to position them????????????????

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 7:40:51 AM   
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I can't ever seem to find the damn thing. :-/


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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 9:19:31 AM   
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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 10:16:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		almost as hard trying to find as the womans g spot ehh Ms Lynnxz?   once you find it you got your man right where you want him  you can milk him and theres nothing he can do to stop you  amazing seeing you drip out cum and no one is touching your cock ...just her magical fingers that are inside you ..have fun ..mal

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 10:34:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		7 posts before you found this thread, Mal? You're slipping! 

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 11:04:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

*sigh*

I can't ever seem to find the damn thing. :-/



i've heard others say that too.  You have to really get in there.  i have nice long fingers. 

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 11:58:08 AM   
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  very informative  Thanks !!!!

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 2:51:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have found reaching the prostrate of some men almost impossible, whilst others its been very easy. We should be aware that its not something that should be done too regularly as research says that continual vigorous massage of the prostrate can higher your chances of prostrate cancer and for certain conditions it can cause gangrene.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 5:20:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		the easiest way to find it is having him lean over a table or bed and with a well lubed finger pressing down you should feel a walnut sized shape with a grove down the middle. once you find it it will make it easier to identify next time. it really does feel good to the male (personal experience). they do make a prostate massager if it makes it easier.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 5:21:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		my mistress plays with my prostate on a weekly basis when she fists me  and i just love that feeling shes been fisting me now for over 4 plus years and im still standing   no problems with me ..if she allows me to cum inside of her then when she fists me she trys to get out as much cum from me that i have left in me   usually her fingers are never denied   she knows my prostate well  have fun mal

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 6:00:13 PM   
aravain


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Status: offline 		How long are you fingers? How big is the guy (and his booty)?

It's all variable... about 2 inches of insertable length should be enough for *most* guys... but for especially tall guys, it may be back further and with a big booty blocking your way it can be hard to get your finger in there far enough. I'm one of those types of guys, myself, where it's just easier to use an insertable, instead of fingers, thanks to being both tall... AND having a big bottom.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 6:27:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		i don't know about Lynnxz's, but my fingers are between 3.5 and 4 inches long, and i can reach pretty much any i've tried to.  ~grins~

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