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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 6:34:27 PM

mystickoolaid

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Whomever said that you can orgasm without ejaculating was dead wrong...

Actually the opposite is true... you can make a man ejaculate this way without an erection.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 7:37:43 PM

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the easiest way to find it is having him lean over a table or bed and with a well lubed finger pressing down you should feel a walnut sized shape with a grove down the middle. once you find it it will make it easier to identify next time. it really does feel good to the male (personal experience). they do make a prostate massager if it makes it easier.

I can't image where that personal experience came from. Nope. Just don't have a clue. I wonder who you could be talking about.

Truth be told, I have very short fingers. In the interest of science, I measured. My longest finger only comes up to be about 3". I'm still able to reach. I've not had the experience where I either couldn't find it or wasn't able to get to it.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/10/2009 10:16:48 PM

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Whomever said that you can orgasm without ejaculating was dead wrong...

Actually the opposite is true... you can make a man ejaculate this way without an erection.

Men can ABSOLUTELY orgasm without ejaculating. Not all learn it, but it can be done. There's a book called something like "The Multi Orgasmic Male" that talks all about it. The boyfriend can do it if he's laying down on his back. I assume he picked up this little trick as a teenager when he didn't want to clean up a mess in his bed ;-)

It's not as intense of an orgasm, but it keeps him hard for an immediate round 2 which usually can have him lasting MUCH longer.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/11/2009 12:48:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid
Whomever said that you can orgasm without ejaculating was dead wrong...
Actually the opposite is true... you can make a man ejaculate this way without an erection.

I find if you gently rub the prostate too gently to cause them to cum, then men have an involuntary erection. If you're into humiliating straight tight-assed men, then tell them beforehand you're just "testing them for gayness" and they "should just imagine your finger is an erect penis". If they become hard then they're homosexual, if they argue push until they cum with your "penis in their bum" onto your hand, then rub their faces in their cum.

Don't untie them for an hour or two, as homophobes tend to cry and confess stuff. They get over it, but your rape risk is through the roof immediately afterwards, as they want to prove they're not gay.

The prostate's roughly where the G-spot in a women is. So you can use the same curved strapons, the same way as you would with another woman. though be more gentle. Vagina's are more strongly built against idiocy, men's rectums are more delicate since girls aren't dumb

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/11/2009 1:01:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid

Whomever said that you can orgasm without ejaculating was dead wrong...

Actually the opposite is true... you can make a man ejaculate this way without an erection.

I am not quite sure what your trying to say here.

You can make a man ejaculate without an erection is true.... its called milking and most men don't get the feeling of an orgasm.
Men can most certainly orgasm without ejaculating. Try reading up on tantra massage and internal orgasm. Once a man has learnt to do this he can multi orgasm, often for hours without ever ejaculating and the orgasms can be just as strong and just as pleasurable as the ejaculating one.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/11/2009 12:30:10 PM

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hey ladys ..if your fingers are too short to find his prostate ...you can always try fisting him

once you slid in everything should then be in reach

not only will he love his prostate being massaged

he will love the fresh feeling of being fisted by a woman for the first time

after that the skys the limit and you got him right where you want him

great way of submitting to a woman i must say ...have fun mal

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/11/2009 5:06:27 PM

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i would be most interested in learning exactly how to do this as i would like to surprise my Dom with a specially pleasurable sensation. thanks ~ kitten

That's probably not the sort of thing one should surprise a guy with, especially one in a position to punish you.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/11/2009 5:48:25 PM

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The biological goal of Tantra is orgasm retention.{Not multiple orgasm} For many people in the west Tantra has become a buzzword, a quick identification icon that signifys an interest in and practice of, any sexual expression.

By practicing tantra one consequentially learns to avoid the contractions that initiate the emission of semen. {Notably: in the typical orgasm both female and male there are 8 - 25 muscular contractions}

Orgasm is neither the goal of a Prostate or Lingam/penis massage - The goal is to massage the penis, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (the equivalent to the female G-spot), awhich allows the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. If it appears that he is going to ejaculate, back off, allowing the penis to soften a little before resuming the massage. Do this several times, coming close to ejaculation, and then backing off. The goal again is not orgasm.

Men can learn the art of "ejaculatory control" by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation; an edging technique. Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate. Eventually "ejaculatory control" will allow the man to become multi-orgasmic without ever losing a drop of semen!

Also a non-religious spiritual form of sexuality is Karezza . Karezza is largely the same process or body control found amiss Tantrikas but it utilizes pranic energy with orgasm in mind:

The process occurs when, after an extended period of tantric lovemaking or auto-eroticism it becomes impossible to distinguish pre-orgasm from orgasm -- one achieves a sort of "flowing" state of continual orgasm which lasts; often for hours without ever ejaculating.

Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that one can learn to seperate.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/11/2009 6:35:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: mystickoolaid

Whomever said that you can orgasm without ejaculating was dead wrong...

False. I can.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/12/2009 7:01:46 AM

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Madam X and all others thank you for you knowledge. i am learning so much and know it will be appreciated by Sir!!

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/12/2009 9:33:18 AM

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I'm a certified massage therapist and I also do sensual prostate massages. That is one of my most requested services.

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/12/2009 10:41:21 AM

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e having their prostrate massaged

If you knew it is spelled "prostate" you could Google it

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RE: how does one give a prostrate massage? - 5/13/2009 1:26:39 AM

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wow that site is cool

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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

http://www.greatsexgames.com/podcast/videos/

Scroll down the page to movie #4 and you can see their suggestion. While plezzure suggested one method you can also have the man on his hands and knees and milk the prostate by using a downward motion with your finger, or rubbing back and forth over the spot. Do whatever feels the most comfortable and/or exciting for both of you. It takes time but many feel it is worth it. According to the Sex if Fun team, who made the video, this gives an orgasm without ejaculation so the penis will stay erect. That gives the chance for additional pleasure for both parties.

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