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AAkasha -> RE: Professional submissive (5/12/2009 1:58:57 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian
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ORIGINAL: subsubtle
I'd never do this but does anyone know if there's such thing as a professional sub? One whom dominants pay to let them beat him or her?
For females, I would imagine the market is fairly robust, but the risk factors are probably higher than over on the other side of the fence.
For males seeking female clients, it's likely far more challenging to "turn a buck", unless said males are very good looking, in excellent physical shape, have a good disposition and are talented in a number of ways (for fear of mild depression, I don't want to ruminate on how much that cuts the eligible male population down to). Even still, while I know some female sadists may venture to pursue the novelty of hiring a temporary toy, I'd be willing to guess they have plenty of willing candidates who will pay them for the honor of serving. For women, the gravity is far higher toward being paid than to pay, and most of them figured this out in high school. This is not to say there isn't potential for "professional submissives" in the male/male sense, however; I'd imagine such an arrangement would be far more lucrative. That probably isn't what aspiring horndog heterosexual professional male submissive wannabes want to hear though, I imagine.
I've paid men to submit before. The thing is, they have to be incredibly good looking, in a well stocked and safe dungeon and have a ton of experience with S&M or it's way too risky on a variety of levels. What's the appeal, when I can literally have dozens of men lined up my door willing to submit for FREE and/or even pay me? Or even vanilla guys, since I am attractive and in shape and earn a good living? The attraction is that there are no strings, no complications, no drama and no expectations. I don't care how much a male sub says he only wants to please, there are always unspoken expectations. If they are vanilla guys, they will want sex or sexual favors. I'd rather have it all on the table: I pay. You submit. End of story.
And if I want eye candy - pure and simple - just a hot guy with a hot body and he's willing to let me beat him, tie him up, torture him for a couple of hours and he won't stalk me, memorize my address, or keep calling me on the phone or threaten to out me or ruin my life because I won't keep seeing him - what's not to like?
If pro male subs had as wide and diverse a market as femdoms, in fully equipped dungeons, I'd be quite happy. I dabble from time to time with "pay to play" online fee-based webcam services that cater to gay men, and you'd be surprised how many female clients they have.
Akasha
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