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oceanwinds -> RE: Punishment. how to cope? (5/13/2009 6:58:35 PM)
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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
Just a question for the OP:
Did your Sir use the word "alienation" in issuing the punishment, or is that your way of describing it?
Alienate: to make unfriendly, hostile, or indifferent especially where attachment formerly existed .
i would think many D-types would refrain from doing this. To purposefully cause a possible rift in the relationship seems a bit risky. To him, perhaps the payoff is worth it, depending on the problem.
No he never did say that, but he hasn't communicated with me in 9 days, which is not like him. The only thing he said was he was very disappointed, do better try harder. This is the first time he hasn't contacted me within a matter of a couple days. He did read my emails though letting him know i did straighten things out, and what i was doing. No response from him, so i just waiting.
i hurt him bad by ignoring everything he was telling me for days in a roll then getting off the phone and hour later i blew what he said to the wind. Was not consciously intentional, thought i had enough in my account. This is big there is other things included. He didnt say goodbye. So, i will wait and work on doing better and trying harder. It falls on my behavior. Cause and effect here, and i am learning that lesson. i will wait to he gets a hold of me.
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