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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/17/2009 11:17:14 PM

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My worst punishment has been being ignored. i could not contact Mistress nor She would not contact me. i was a wreck knowing that i disappointed Her.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/17/2009 11:18:43 PM

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ok i totally messed that up.

My worst punishment has been being ignored. i could not contact Mistress nor would She contact me. i was a wreck knowing that i disappointed Her.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/18/2009 3:59:15 AM

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Thank you everyone for your support, tips and opinions.

Silence is over now, and i am a lot more wiser.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/18/2009 8:23:23 AM

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On comment of IRS, not about owing them, it is about having money put aside for my estimated taxes. i do now. my april estimated taxes was late , 3 wks, but it is in and i do have june's ready.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/18/2009 10:58:22 AM

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i hope it goes well for you, and i R-E-A-L-L-Y hope you listen to LafayetteLady, she speaks very wise truths. Mostly i hope you are NEVER put through such cruelty again. You are SUCH a treasure, and deserve to be TREATED that way! You are awesome.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/18/2009 11:54:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

i hope it goes well for you, and i R-E-A-L-L-Y hope you listen to LafayetteLady, she speaks very wise truths. Mostly i hope you are NEVER put through such cruelty again. You are SUCH a treasure, and deserve to be TREATED that way! You are awesome.

Many see this as cruelty, and i guess it is understandable. I am happy a few understood this as NOT cruel, and not the end but the shedding of a skin/ snake/ phoenix that i needed to go through. i never wanted a Daddy, i could not relate to that. there a lot of things i cant relate too, but i would never think of putting something so meaniful to another down because it is not my thing, nor would i refer that to there Dom

I am honored not because i am a s-type or any type, that Sir knows me and let me go through the 'fire'. If i only have met him a short while ago, believe me there would be no question and i would have shut the door for good. It is in knowing Sir that let me trust at that level.

It was in me asking how to cope and a few advicing not to cope, that helped me prepare to take the opportunity Sir gave me; going through the 'fire'.

Sir and i might walk an off the path road of BDSM, but it works for us.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/18/2009 1:50:06 PM

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Oh please don't get me wrong...i KNOW the Daddy thing is NOT for everyone(i don't remember bringing it up to be honest), i was one of those who DIDN'T "get it". i am simply speaking of BASIC kindness, and him using no contact, or any variation thereof, its his call. But to drop off the face of the earth? Tell you NOTHING. That was all i was speaking of. The cool thing about life, and our roles in it, we can ALL learn. Its my prayer your "D" type sees this as a learning experience for HIMSELF too. Perhaps see that he may have gotten this one wrong, and will TELL you, at the very least, he is not going to talk to you until he is ready. These are just my thoughts.... they mean only what credence you give them.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/18/2009 2:34:51 PM

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Sir is not cruel and gentle would make me run. As i told you it took me 3 days or so to decide to create this thread, because researching the topic, i know silence, being ignored etc brings people into reactions of how they feel.

If Sir changed anything, the desire outcome would not been achieved. So i will not go to him and say oh please do not ever do this. He has never damaged my mind, body or soul but has helped me grow.

This is all i will say on the matter.
Again, i do thank those who understood and i going to leave it at that.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/20/2009 4:25:45 AM

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quote:

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Sir is not cruel and gentle would make me run. As i told you it took me 3 days or so to decide to create this thread, because researching the topic, i know silence, being ignored etc brings people into reactions of how they feel.

If Sir changed anything, the desire outcome would not been achieved. So i will not go to him and say oh please do not ever do this. He has never damaged my mind, body or soul but has helped me grow.

This is all i will say on the matter.
Again, i do thank those who understood and i going to leave it at that.

i'm sad that you won't at least acknowledge the possibility that even your "master" could need to grow and learn. We are ALL human sister! NO ONE gets it right all the time, and yes its possible he messed but here by just not telling you what his plans were. Thats ALL i'm saying, i'm NOT saying he is a bad man... Good people can make bad decisions.....Thats what makes us human....not BAD.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/20/2009 5:21:55 AM

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Let it go breatheasone
It basically a matter of opinion here. I have no need to make you see or understand my view. It never been my intention. Lets part with agreeing that we can both have different viewpoints.

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RE: Punishment. how to cope? - 5/20/2009 6:08:50 AM

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Let it go breatheasone
It basically a matter of opinion here. I have no need to make you see or understand my view. It never been my intention. Lets part with agreeing that we can both have different viewpoints.

i wish you well and hope you are safe and happy.

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