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RE: Please Help - 5/17/2009 3:20:27 PM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		Or, Lockit, what if she's just using "domination" to reel the OP into marriage and then plans not engage in it once the marriage is a done deal?  Another spin on the recipe for disaster.  This just doesn't have a good feeling to it.

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RE: Please Help - 5/17/2009 4:58:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		The bait and switch angle is definitely a possibility.

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RE: Please Help - 6/22/2009 9:43:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok well a lot has happen since i last posted. But i'll make it short and simple so i don't wast anybodys time on me. She now bought me a crate and demands me to sleep in it three times a week and is very strict with me an orders me around 24/7. An when she is tired of me she tell me to be quiet then blows me off. She tells me she loves me but see's me as more of a pet and somthing she owns then being a human man an likes it this way. I also asked no matter how far this goes and how much of a pet i become to you. I still want to marry you and live under your roof as a pet no matter what. Even if you want to see a human man. An her responce was this. No i won't get rid of you. I love you pet. And thats all she said. So what i would like to know is what should i be ready for in the long term? How far do you think she will take it? What do you all think? Thank you once again for your time

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RE: Please Help - 6/22/2009 9:50:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		For crying out loud, ask HER!

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RE: Please Help - 6/22/2009 9:54:00 PM   
livingunderher


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Status: offline 		Yes i tryed. But she won't come out an just tell me.

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RE: Please Help - 6/22/2009 11:37:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know what to tell you, man. None of us know her, so it's impossible for us to speculate. My best guess - and it's only a wild shot in the dark - is that this is all still really new to her, and she's not quite certain how to interpret or verbalize her feelings at this point. Maybe you just need to give her a little more time  and a little more space to get in touch with herself on a deeper level. You may just have to be patient, and try not to push her. Accept what it is for what it is, and try not to think too far ahead. It'll all become clear at some point. I know this probably doesn't help much, but it's about the best I can do under the circumstances.

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RE: Please Help - 6/23/2009 4:30:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		what should i be ready for in the long term? How far do you think she will take it? What do you all think?

You and she are pioneering a new lifestyle for yourselves.  In your position, I'd feel I'd have to be ready for all sorts of new things - some good, some bad.  That's in the nature of pioneering!

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RE: Please Help - 6/23/2009 4:39:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

For crying out loud, ask HER!

The exact answer that I feel is the perfect response to at least 80% of the posts written on this site, depending on the pronoun.


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RE: Please Help - 6/23/2009 9:06:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm laughing here because he's pushed her into being Dominant ... and now she seems to be realising she can be and wants to be HER kind of Dominant ... he's starting to panic about what he's let loose LOL! It's quite likely she doesn't want a cuckold, she wants a pet ... and fair enough to that! Dear boy, the whole thing about submission is that you submit to what the Dominant wants ... She's not supposed to submit to what you want! Good on her for finding herself in all this. Just remember, you were the one who let this particular cat out of the bag!

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RE: Please Help - 6/23/2009 9:08:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Poor fellow had no idea what he was in for....

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RE: Please Help - 6/23/2009 9:19:57 AM   
cbaby


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Status: offline 		An when i say no its ok we don't have to. She gets very upset.----i'd be upset to....that smacks of a guilt trip (deep sigh)....guilt should never be a means to an end.....you probably don't mean it that way.....that's just how it comes across

i wish you all the best in the tough choices and decisions you have to make and once they are made......they are what you truly want


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RE: Please Help - 6/23/2009 9:21:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think she is doing it to please you... as I have all along.  She gets upset when you are not pleased and very upset.  So... when she gets a little tired of playing a part for you and angry because you insist on it and cannot love her because of who she is... done, over done... bye bye.  She may not even like you by then. 

There is a reason you are asking us... because you simply don't believe it either.  You know you pushed her into it and can't believe it will last because you did.

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RE: Please Help - 6/23/2009 9:39:15 AM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: MaamJay

I'm laughing here because he's pushed her into being Dominant ... and now she seems to be realising she can be and wants to be HER kind of Dominant ... he's starting to panic about what he's let loose LOL! It's quite likely she doesn't want a cuckold, she wants a pet ... and fair enough to that! Dear boy, the whole thing about submission is that you submit to what the Dominant wants ... She's not supposed to submit to what you want! Good on her for finding herself in all this. Just remember, you were the one who let this particular cat out of the bag!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]


I'm not sure I see panic in the OP's update posts, MaamJay.  Or, maybe, apprehensiveness mixed up with excitement and anticipation.  Fine:  all good adventures should start that way.  That top of a helter skelter feeling.  If he has the guts, it could be great.  Could be great. 

Well, I'm envious, anyway.  I hope the OP gives further updates as time goes on.  This story is fascinating.

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