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HeavansKeeper -> RE: Do all dommes charge money? (5/18/2009 1:59:14 AM)
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I would like to point out something regarding the OP's findings. I did some research for dommes through the search function here. Most names that showed up are not frequenters of the forums (so if you're reading this you're probably the exception to the generalization I'm about to make).
Rough statistics indicate 70% of ~100 dommes in Chicago, Miami, and NY are either pro dommes, expecting tribute, or want to be "spoiled" (specific use of that word, though not explicitly in a fiscal manner). From 18-25, nearly 90% of profiles have that characteristic.
Now, I have nothing against pro-domina, in fact, I'm very happy for its existence. Nor do I have anything against wanting tribute, successful partners, money piggies, or any other fiscal trait. I'm just saying I now understand how frustrating it must be for a man who's looking to find a woman through a dating-esque system like collarme.
To be sexist, it seems woman:money as man:sex. (Not exactly news to the evolutionists out there).
I understand the sour taste looking men find when money is one of the first 3 issues to be discussed.
I understand the sour taste looking females find when sex is one of the first 3 issues to be discussed.
There's no need to reply with the same "I'm not a money pit" and "I'm not a sex fiend" as my experiences with active forum participants makes me believe they do this for the love of whatever BDSM is to them. I feel pity for those "playing the game" to find a BDSM-relationship catch. Sorry fella's.
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