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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 1:23:16 PM

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Seriously, I can't imagine anything more fun right now than you and I becoming neighbours. Who knows what could happen after a good old fiery argument, an arm-wrestle, a scotch or ten at my local . . . . then . . .

. . . Then we furiously bid each other 'good night'.

Good night? More like:

"Sod you, bitch!"
"Yeah, well you're an arsehole!" <Insert sound of crockery breaking in the background.>

Besides, I'd let you win at arm-wrestling, the fragile male ego being what it is.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 1:40:20 PM

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Yep, you're the sort of woman I'm used to: cool as ice till they throw a wobbly. Frankly, I don't know how to deal with the even-tempered ones - they just unnerve me.

Like I said: I can't imagine anything more fun. OK, I'll expect the occasional knee in the cobblers, but it'll be worth it.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 1:41:52 PM

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And I'll even knee you in the groin for free. You can't say fairer than that.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 1:58:43 PM

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You knee me in the groin, matey, I'll tickle you till every last vestage of dommeliness deserts you. Your glassy, "almost a British schoolmarm" image will desert you. You will never visit this forum again without blushing.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 2:15:56 PM

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I'm not ticklish. Though your post did just reduce me to helpless hysterics as a result of your delusions. Poor OP. After reading the rest of this thread, he'll understand that finding someone who will let him fulfill his long-hair fetish is the easy part.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 7:44:14 PM

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I thought to be an hair-dresser...but an hair-dresser who doesn't like cut hair it's diffcult : )

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 7:46:52 PM

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My hair is a couple inches from my hips... if I promise to let it grow to my feet... you must promise to do everything for me... because I am very likely to trip on the hair... or get caught in things. So while I sit with my pretty hair all around me, you will do all things and pay for all things you cannot do, including the slave I need while you work to pay for everything.

I can do that. + =

Whit your hair under your knee I will do everything for you...

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 9:04:51 PM

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LOL... well I have about two years until I get to that point, but doubt I can handle that much weight on my neck and head. Besides... with curly hair... omg... we are talking a wild mane that goes poof! I was straightening it and I killed the darn thing after using it less than ten times. Just too much hair!

So I guess we are at an impass! lol

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RE: I need advices... - 5/18/2009 11:07:03 PM

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Us even-tempered people actually just tend to have a higher threshold for the dramatic displays.

My subs always learn that if I look them in the eye and say, "Don't do that again." they don't really want to ask "Or else, what, Ma'am?" (grin)

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 12:36:09 AM

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Riha,

Sounds to me like what you really want is Rapunzel in a latex cat suit weilding a whip (or hair brush). Best of luck with that.

Use the links that you were provided to find the pro Domme of your dreams, or, you could look yourself. Google is a wonderful thing. Use it.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 4:00:00 AM

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Us even-tempered people actually just tend to have a higher threshold for the dramatic displays.

My subs always learn that if I look them in the eye and say, "Don't do that again." they don't really want to ask "Or else, what, Ma'am?" (grin)

yes...you right, I know to have so long hair could be difficult...but it was for me a good vision...thanks : )

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 4:02:30 AM

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LOL... well I have about two years until I get to that point, but doubt I can handle that much weight on my neck and head. Besides... with curly hair... omg... we are talking a wild mane that goes poof! I was straightening it and I killed the darn thing after using it less than ten times. Just too much hair!

So I guess we are at an impass! lol

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yes...you right, I know to have so long hair could be difficult...but it was for me a good vision...thanks : )

Sorry....here is the right place for my comment...

yes...you right, I know to have so long hair could be difficult...but it was for me a good vision...thanks : )

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 4:07:09 AM

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Riha,

Sounds to me like what you really want is Rapunzel in a latex cat suit weilding a whip (or hair brush). Best of luck with that.

Use the links that you were provided to find the pro Domme of your dreams, or, you could look yourself. Google is a wonderful thing. Use it.

Its so difficult to find someone with very "rapunzel" long hair...I didn't find my pro Domme of my dream...I don't think She exists...and If I will find her She will be in other part of the world...

But thanks for the support...

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 7:18:54 AM

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I think the point that most folk have been trying to get across to you, is that -you- are more than just a fetish for long hair...

So why not start acting like that, put the fetish in perspective to the rest of your life, and cultivate a relationship with a real live girl...perhaps one who has longish hair? You can certainly make it your preference, but don't miss out on a wonderful person or opportunity for love and happiness just because she might have shorter hair...

Make your love of long hair less "creepy" and more an integrated part of who you are as a whole person? My personal belief is that is the best way of getting what you want in the long run...life is rarely about absolutes and one-note instruments rarely get played...

The Malibu Barbie Dungeon of Long-hair Delights** exists only in your dreams...

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 7:30:26 AM

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**(Manicled Ken with Kung-Fu grip sold separately)

*snort* what a visual!!

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 7:31:21 AM

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So, what happens if you meet this wonderful woman with beautiful long hair that you grow to adore and she cuts it? Do you leave her? Is your love for a woman tied to her hair length?

i have relatively long hair and i'm considering cutting it to donate to Locks of Love (i still have a few more inches to go). Would you berate her for her wanting to be charitable in that fashion? Or, God forbid, she is diagnosed with cancer and loses her hair through treatment? Would you leave her because she could no longer support your fetish (through no fault of her own)?

edited to correct grammatical errors that could be found, i am not yet adequately caffeinated.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 2:45:02 PM

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So, what happens if you meet this wonderful woman with beautiful long hair that you grow to adore and she cuts it? Do you leave her? Is your love for a woman tied to her hair length?

i have relatively long hair and i'm considering cutting it to donate to Locks of Love (i still have a few more inches to go). Would you berate her for her wanting to be charitable in that fashion? Or, God forbid, she is diagnosed with cancer and loses her hair through treatment? Would you leave her because she could no longer support your fetish (through no fault of her own)?

edited to correct grammatical errors that could be found, i am not yet adequately caffeinated.

No..love is another world...long hair is a big passion but respect for another person it's the most important thing. I can not distroy my relentionship only beacause my woman cuts her hair. It will be sad for me, but I can not force someone to have long hair. It will be a problem maybe for the sex part of the relentionship, but when you love a person you can pass trough this kind of problem and talk about.

P.S. sorry for my english, I know it is bad.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 2:56:22 PM

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You are saying you wouldn't stop loving her if she cut her hair, but there might be a problem in the area of sex. That wouldn't be the kind of love I would view as love. That would still be fetish is more important than me the person... that would be... his way or no way... that would be fetish and not love. That would mean a fetish of a submissive man calling the shots and dominating.

No Thanks... That has no appeal whatsoever.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 4:20:28 PM

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You are saying you wouldn't stop loving her if she cut her hair, but there might be a problem in the area of sex. That wouldn't be the kind of love I would view as love. That would still be fetish is more important than me the person... that would be... his way or no way... that would be fetish and not love. That would mean a fetish of a submissive man calling the shots and dominating.

No Thanks... That has no appeal whatsoever.

I'm talking about a normal relentionship with a woman, where the reletionship is builded on love and not on my fetish. For love I could forget my fetish. I did it. I think buliding everything on my fetish could be, how I read here, difficult and painful. My woman has to know only that my fetish could be something to make me happy, and accept that like a gift to give in the sex moment. There is a big dualism in me sometime, between love and desire. I'm here to understand a little where I can go. I think to find a right person its very difficult. Often to make that easier I hide my desire for love. I'm with a girl since more 5 years, but there is something now that doesn't work so well. I still love her, but the desire part, my fetish part is growing now. We talked a lot about that, she understand but not completely. She has mid back long hair, but for me it is no enough. My fetish bring me here to looking for something is more similar to my dreams now, to see if something real exits or not, and it is not only about long hair. It is about playing with my fetish, I'm looking for someone can control me and my desire. I dont know if here it is the right place. But I try and I'm a little lost.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/19/2009 4:35:43 PM

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So you are willing to hurt someone you have loved for five years because her hair is too short and you are looking for a dream ending to your fetish? Your fetish is growing...

You are very clearly confused, saying one thing as an ideal and yet another when it comes to your fetish. You are being very selfish and your focus is unrealistic and hurtful. Just ask your girlfriend. How would you like to go to her parents and maybe big daddy and four brothers and tell them why you are hurting her? Think about what you are doing. Is it worth it?

Already in this thread you have found that everyone is saying... wake up... this isn't going to happen. Even those with long hair are not at the length you want and aren't willing to be an object of your fetish and unrealistic desires.

You are on a road to a block wall crash in a high speed car.

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