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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 8:36:45 PM

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LMAO that is toooooooooo funny

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 8:37:15 PM

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LOL umm realone

May I please direct your attention to the other thread

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so i missed something lol ok i'm out!

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 8:39:54 PM

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being a programmer myself they do lack in creating a well thought system.

You're most welcome for the use of our less than thought out system, please do share the link to your own site when you have it up and running.

Manage that budget, bandwith can get costly ;-)

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 8:40:53 PM

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Ohhhhhhhhhh

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I am duly impressed

/cheers loudly

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 8:48:23 PM

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subtle and refined.. so i guess this would be the anthesis to hooter's?

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 8:56:39 PM

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being a programmer myself they do lack in creating a well thought system.

You're most welcome for the use of our less than thought out system, please do share the link to your own site when you have it up and running.

Manage that budget, bandwith can get costly ;-)

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well i can site several things in fact i have sent in many suggestions, but they prefer to do really intelligent things like secret mail controls.

which on the surface is really cool.

problem is a 50year woman sets her mail controls for 20 - 30 because she is looking for a young guy but fails to mention it on her profile.

Now an unsuspecting person comes along to write this profile thinking he is 45, no ages listed on the profile so they write to the profile.

2 months later looks into his sent mail to discover it was never read because it went to the garbage can.

Many dommes on here have their mail controls set and do not indicate what those controls are set at on their profile.

i am very sorry but i am not a mind reader and frankly i do not have the time it takes to write people who never even see it.

my suggestion which has gone unheeded since i have been on here is to show what the mail controls are set for on thier profile when i bring it up so if i am not with in age distance or whatever other settings are on there i can save my time and NOT write to them.

i have written countless letters that went into the garbage that is nicely named bulk mail that no one looks at, so its the garbage bin regarless of the cute name and intended purpose.

so now days i just putz around on here and write very few as i do not have that kind of time to waste.

frankly they should fix and improve what is here instead of adding new gadgets.

now if you call that a well thought out design then you write to people and waste your time LOL

if you want suggestions there are many very practical things that can be done to make the site both more efficeint in terms of bw and also more user friendly. let me know and i will send you my phone number, no consulting fees. later

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:08:49 PM

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really intelligent things like secret mail controls.

Really, it's none of your business how someone else sets their mail controls.

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2 months later looks into his sent mail to discover it was never read

Hold on just a minute, I am searching for my violin, this story seems familiar.

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i do not have the time it takes to write people

Well this is certainly understandable, you're much too busy creating multiple profiles.

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my suggestion which has gone unheeded

This is called a c-l-u-e.

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let me know and i will send you my phone number, no consulting fees

Grow up junior, if your "idea's" were of merit, someone would have asked you.

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later

See- Ya!

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:14:04 PM

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nice mod 3

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:17:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ModeratorThree

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really intelligent things like secret mail controls.

Really, it's none of your business how someone else sets their mail controls.

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2 months later looks into his sent mail to discover it was never read

Hold on just a minute, I am searching for my violin, this story seems familiar.

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i do not have the time it takes to write people

Well this is certainly understandable, you're much too busy creating multiple profiles.

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my suggestion which has gone unheeded

This is called a c-l-u-e.

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let me know and i will send you my phone number, no consulting fees

Grow up junior, if your "idea's" were of merit, someone would have asked you.

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later

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there you go folks.

all the letters that are getting written and sent only to go into the garbage suck up bandwidth and fill up their hard drives and all for nothing, and a constructive suggestion gets handled like this. LOL

So they have the right to hide their mail controls and are you in the habit of giving out my personal information?

how sweet!

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:19:08 PM

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there you go folks.

all the letters that are getting written and sent only to go into the garbage suck up bandwidth and fill up their hard drives and all for nothing, and a constructive suggestion gets handled like this. LOL

So they have the right to hide their mail controls and are you in the habit of giving out my personal information?

how sweet!

i didnt see the mod giving out personal information... i saw the mod presumming something.. and you admiting it was true. There fore.. you kind of sunk you're own boat!

edited to add : and i think the Mods know how to handle their own bandwidth! This site has been running longer then i knew it exsisted (which granted thats not so long but still) i'm SURE they've got a handle on it. Why not leave the worry of C.Com to your betters?

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:26:44 PM

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there you go folks.

all the letters that are getting written and sent only to go into the garbage suck up bandwidth and fill up their hard drives and all for nothing, and a constructive suggestion gets handled like this. LOL

So they have the right to hide their mail controls and are you in the habit of giving out my personal information?

how sweet!

i didnt see the mod giving out personal information... i saw the mod presumming something.. and you admiting it was true. There fore.. you kind of sunk you're own boat!

edited to add : and i think the Mods know how to handle their own bandwidth! This site has been running longer then i knew it exsisted (which granted thats not so long but still) i'm SURE they've got a handle on it. Why not leave the worry of C.Com to your betters?

LOL the blind leading the blind crowd. i am sure they do what ever you say!

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:30:33 PM

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LOL the blind leading the blind crowd. i am sure they do what ever you say!

i am not blind.. i have two working eyes. You know some blind folks that come to this website could be sorely offended by your words.. tsk tsk.. And erm.. do whatever I SAY????? Are you nuts?

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:47:09 PM

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secret mail controls

I am cracking up b/c as a guy, I never realized there were "mail controls." Now, I must admit, I'm somewhat alarmed, because in theory I could spend and hour or two crafting a letter tailored to some profile, and bam, in the junk folder it would go, without even passing go. In essence, collarme has intrasite spam control. I never knew this.

Any way you size it up though, its a jungle out there. My pet peeve are the voluminous number of business advertisers here, aka, pros. I would prefer if all the pro's had to register as such on the site, so when searching through profiles, they could be screened out.

All in all though, I don't have any major complaints. What I don't get about collarme is how they make any mony here. There are no registration fees, no advertisements, and no fees to communicate with other members. It makes me wonder who the RICH KINKY PATRON might be.

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:54:29 PM

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What I don't get about collarme is how they make any mony here

The site was not intended as a money maker, it was created to provide a place for others to meet and explore.

Call it a labor of love.

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:59:22 PM

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cloudboy don't give them any ideas! CM is perfect the way it is

To the others, phew go for an hour! last post on the other thread and have to play catch up.

Irish will have a JD with you anytime

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 9:59:39 PM

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This isnt' in reply to the current thoughtstream.

It's in reply to the OP and the previous thread made by the OP.

I admit I thought that the way that the board reacted to the OP was a bit over the top. Yeah, he was pretty stupid and so was the thread, but it seems to me that going off to e-mail him was excessive. But heck, again, random net person's opinion.

I figured that since he was getting so much negative mail, I'd drop him a line to say that "yeah, I didn't agree with his post but that I thought the private e-mails were a bit much." Basically just a note that disagreed, offered the polite advice that it might be better to post other threads before a "whine" one and that I was sorry the board went so crazy. (again, just from where I'm coming from.)

I received back a not-so-nice rant about not wanting to be contacted on a personal's site by people that didn't match his criteria.

So, OP, you've -really- gotta work on your approach. It's hard to peeve me, but I'm peeved. While I welcome you to the boards, I think that you might be better off trying a different way of introducing yourself.

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 10:01:48 PM

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secret mail controls

I am cracking up b/c as a guy, I never realized there were "mail controls." Now, I must admit, I'm somewhat alarmed, because in theory I could spend and hour or two crafting a letter tailored to some profile, and bam, in the junk folder it would go, without even passing go. In essence, collarme has intrasite spam control. I never knew this.

All in all though, I don't have any major complaints. What I don't get about collarme is how they make any mony here. There are no registration fees, no advertisements, and no fees to communicate with other members. It makes me wonder who the RICH KINKY PATRON might be.

they dont, of course that is not to say it isnt a tax write off for another business, something to do in their spare time.

This has happened to me many times and it probly has to you too, and most others on here. but when you bring it to their attention they get defensive and attack you instead of really thinking about just how much waste of theirs and ours is totally thrown away because of this.

like i said i just spend most of my time putzing on here now instead of writing to much hassle for what i get in return.

but in their defense they are free so what can i say :)

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 10:02:42 PM

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What I don't get about collarme is how they make any mony here

The site was not intended as a money maker, it was created to provide a place for others to meet and explore.

Call it a labor of love.

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That's why I like it better than Alt. Thanks for answering my question. Although its not intended to be a "money maker," bills somehow need to be paid, and I don't know (not that its my business) how you do it.

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 10:09:21 PM

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What I don't get about collarme is how they make any mony here

The site was not intended as a money maker, it was created to provide a place for others to meet and explore.

Call it a labor of love.

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that is what everyone thought, yet you have profile after profile of pro dommes who are on here for the purpose of making money. its not like i have a super huge issue with them being on the same site i would just like to see another selection put in for pro domme along with the sub dom domm selections so i dont have to read the whole profile and at the end it says pro domme and there are thread after thread about this. so dont take my word for it look for yourself

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/6/2006 10:10:10 PM

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This has happened to me many times and it probly has to you too, and most others on here. but when you bring it to their attention they get defensive and attack you instead of really thinking about just how much waste of theirs and ours is totally thrown away because of this.

like i said i just spend most of my time putzing on here now instead of writing to much hassle for what i get in return.

but in their defense they are free so what can i say :)

I'm the youngest of a large family, so I'm used to being ignored. I'm friends only here, so I have a built in failsafe for my frustrations. (I'm not seeking anything but what I actually do find.)

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