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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 8:57:22 AM   
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/clears throat and back away a bit

I must say...very, very nicely stated Miss Akasha

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 9:20:34 AM   
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Ok, time to slow down and smell the flowers.

Everyones in such a damn hurry now a days. "Oh it's such a bother to sit and read all the profiles to see they're taken, they don't like what I like, etc....etc...etc.... "

WAAAAAAAAAAAA

I mean damn.... you come on here to look! Check out the people. Get to know a few. Ignore a few. If you want it NOW,...... this is NOT the place for NOW!

This is a simple, nice place to meet new and interresting people. People that live in lifestyle that is of the same interrest as yours. One where you can go and not be judged for having likes, and thoughts that others would deem... "Weird"... or "Freaky". To be able to discuss things you are curious about, interrested in learning more about. And POSSIBLY, find someone you are compatible with. And POSSIBLY start a relationship off of here with.

This is not really a match maker site. This isn't the local whore house, bar, jack shack, what ever you want to call it. It's CYBERSPACE.

Bitching about not having nothing real gets so funny at times. If you want real..... Go get it. As much as the internet is fun to play in.... adult fantasy island... real is not on here.. it's off here. Sometimes we get luckly enough to take here... to there.... but those that want there to be here and real.... need to turn off the bright screen... step away from the key board... open the front door.... and step out. It's really not that hard to do.


(In case this didn't make sense.... sorry... only on 2nd cup of coffee here... LOL)

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 9:50:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Real0ne

am i missing something here?
they do have filters, on the right you can select sub or dom(me) anything, age range, weight etc. you can eve select filters to find what you are into bondage you can search people that are into that.

if you think that is fun, many people set age limits on their mail controls and do not indicate what they set on their profile. so you write and it goes instantly into the garbage.

i do hear ya tho, being a programmer myself they do lack in creating a well thought system.



I see that later in this thread you do specifiy that the "garbage" is actually a bulk mail folder. I do have "secret" filters set up. I don't consider them "secret", of course. I do consider them practical. I check My bulk mail folder daily. My filters are set up for a reason, as 99.999% of the mail is not anything in which I would have an interest. I also state certain things in My profile (prior to changing it to "not seeking"), and I still got mail from those who should already know I had a lack of interest in that parameter. Hell, I still get mail every single day, and the very first words of My profile state I am not seeking, and the seeking is set to friends only. So I did Myself alot of good, didn't I?
And I know many people on this site who check their bulk mail folders. Sometimes not very day, but perhaps twice a week, or once a week. And if they don't check it, well, pardner, them's the breaks.
Goodness, I never knew so many people felt so entitled to everything. "Change this, help me, protect me, find me my partner!" Try spending less time arguing and trying to fruitlessly prove a silly point, and read the damn profiles. If you don't like one move on. If you don't like the next, move on again. Better yet, go pay your monthly silver or gold fee at alt. Then you can complain on their message boards.
Sometimes I just can't believe the absolute lack of courtesy! Not to mention common manners.
Why does it surprise Me that even this thread about filters to avoid the submissive girls who are already collared has once again degenerated into a complaint about Pro Dommes.
By the way, when I do view profiles (particulary of board participants) I seldom find I have to read all the way through a large amount of text to see that anyone is already in a relationship. It is usually posted right up front. Of course, I have also tried to redirect boys who are interested in Me to these boards for some reading and education. I am told it is too complicated and too much work. Dead serious here! And this is someone who insists he wants to serve Me? Whew!
*Huge, huge sigh while shaking head in total confusion*

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 10:01:36 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

I also state certain things in My profile (prior to changing it to "not seeking"), and I still got mail from those who should already know I had a lack of interest in that parameter. Hell, I still get mail every single day, and the very first words of My profile state I am not seeking, and the seeking is set to friends only. So I did Myself alot of good, didn't I?

I finally just deactivated my profile, since folks didn't seem to understand what my being happily collared to Master meant! Now I'm free to come enjoy the boards, learn, ponder new ideas, share my own, and don't have to worry about unwanted mail!


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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 10:37:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I can guarantee you, if a filter was added to identify pro dommes, the next wave of whining would be from subs who find out a woman is a pro femdom in her part time job, but not for a living. Or that she does phone domination, but not in the flesh.


I have not been around long enough to realize that complaints ran in waves.

quote:

Personally, I believe cloudboy/RealOne are the same guy, and he uses one to support the other. I find this offensive, and it wastes my time. It makes my Collarme "forum" experience less rewarding. I think Collame should make it so that only one profile can be on each IP address, or that posters caught using multiple profiles in the forums and pretending to be two different people should be booted off.

Do you see me going on a crusade about this and posting over and over again? No.


I didn't realize one thread and a couple of posts constituted a "crusade." Then again, this is the same leap of logic that might tie me into realone as his own alias.

quote:

It is what it is. It is a free site. "free" attracts the wankers, the lazy, the trolls, the fakes and the losers. I wish Collarme would keep the forums free, and make the personals side a PAY site so the forums would not be clogged up with so much whining from subs that are frustrated they haven't met the femdom-of-their-dreams, or that the only femdoms that will give them the time of day will expect cash in return.


I think you are exagerating the degree of the slipperly slope here. As for realone, he made me think about the site in ways I never considered and about how I might go about improving it, supposing that were my project. What to me were criticisms and observations, were to you "whining." I suppose the spin zone lives in all spheres, not just the political ones.




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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 10:41:19 AM   
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Well cloudboy, seeing as you have claimed in a nother thread to be Dan Savage........

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 11:14:49 AM   
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ARPIG:
What I don't quite understand is how it is that people complain about wasting their time surfing through profiles that do not match their criteria or writing & sending emails that don't get read or answered, and yet they seem to have plenty of time to spend complaining about the time they waste surfing or writing & sending those emails.
I really don't see the problem, but then again I do not expect instant gratification. Has nobody here ever looked for a job...mail out 200-300 resumes, get 2-3 replies.
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sure you understand. it's easier to sit and bitch than it is to do something constructive...
we've seen it all before.


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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 11:16:18 AM   
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True enough veronica, sad, but true

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 12:20:48 PM   
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Hmmmmm, did I miss something.

How come everyones getting mad because he wanted some additional features. I mean maybe he thought the Mods didn't think about it. I don't know seems alot of ridicule over something small. I've built programs and a sites (Coldfusion based) and I know that at least with that language the modifications wouldn't take more than a day. It would just be adjusting the form, addinga new column to the user database. And adjusting the SQL that runs the search query.

Anyway, I figure the best way to grow a community is to make it as good as possible. Maybe, this idea wouldn't be implemented but it shouldn't be scolded. I'd use it though if it existed.

Thanks

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 12:44:09 PM   
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Yes, you missed a lot!
It is not the fact that some additional features would be nice. It is the demanding and petulant tone, along with the arrogant profile that got everybody going. It was a temper tantrum. Not a polite suggestion for the site to consider. And there is a place for suggestions. It is not the general discussion board.
Perhaps you did not have a chance to wade through the original thread here

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 1:40:54 PM   
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Well cloudboy, seeing as you have claimed in a nother thread to be Dan Savage........

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well at least he didnt take my name...
macho man savage...

lol


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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 3:01:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

How come everyones getting mad because he wanted some additional features.


BINGO

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 3:13:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

Yes, you missed a lot!
It is not the fact that some additional features would be nice. It is the demanding and petulant tone, along with the arrogant profile that got everybody going. It was a temper tantrum. Not a polite suggestion for the site to consider. And there is a place for suggestions. It is not the general discussion board.
Perhaps you did not have a chance to wade through the original thread here



Oh and the original thread being......

http://www.collarchat.com/m_261299/tm.htm

this is what started the whole thing..... and made him run off and start this this one too.

< Message edited by truesub4u -- 2/7/2006 3:14:49 PM >


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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 3:28:04 PM   
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Whine, whine, bitch, complain, cry and moan


and oh gosh, you can't find a submissive that wants to listen to that all day, i am sooooooo surprised. Makes me wonder if you wife is going down hill or just trying to get rid of you.

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 4:04:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

babycakes...you didn't pay any attention at all, did you?

No one cares that you might have to look through THOUSANDS of profiles to get to the one you want to talk to. Frankly, I think we should make it even more difficult for you to find one you might want to email, she will surely thank us all for delaying the agony.

Please, when you contact the moderators to fill them in on your obvious displeasure, be sure to let them know you want your membership fee back as well.



ROFLMFAO...You made me squirt whisky out my nose, do have any idea how much that stings? Hmm, I kinda liked that.

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 4:14:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ModeratorThree


quote:

It was a half ass Super Bowl Mod 3..


Is that what they are calling it. I am still waiting on the real super bowl, you know the one's with ref's that actually have vision, and a bit of common sense.

Mod3




You thought that too?

You seem pretty sharp, maybe next time you could volunteer your services.

I was rooting for the Steelers and I still thought that was the worst ref'ing I've ever seen.



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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 4:17:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ModeratorThree

quote:

being a programmer myself they do lack in creating a well thought system.


You're most welcome for the use of our less than thought out system, please do share the link to your own site when you have it up and running.

Manage that budget, bandwith can get costly ;-)

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You go girl......::::bows:::

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 4:24:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Real0ne


quote:

ORIGINAL: ModeratorThree

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What I don't get about collarme is how they make any mony here


The site was not intended as a money maker, it was created to provide a place for others to meet and explore.

Call it a labor of love.

Mod3



that is what everyone thought, yet you have profile after profile of pro dommes who are on here for the purpose of making money. its not like i have a super huge issue with them being on the same site i would just like to see another selection put in for pro domme along with the sub dom domm selections so i dont have to read the whole profile and at the end it says pro domme and there are thread after thread about this. so dont take my word for it look for yourself


Your starting to sound an awful lot like the OP....makes me wonder.

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 4:34:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Are you drunk?

I'll see if you make more sense/type coherently tomorrow.

Akasha


Thanx, you just made me spill another drink and squirt more whisky out my nose. I don't mind the nose part, I like a little pain, but spilling it. There is a whiskey god you know, I don't wanna get zapped with lightning, I'm not a pain slut!

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RE: that got ur attention!! - 2/7/2006 4:46:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

quote:

ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

How come everyones getting mad because he wanted some additional features.


BINGO


NO BINGO!!!!!!!

It wasn't what he asked, it was how he asked (read: Demanded) it. Further more he jumped on people who were already owned, for maintaing profiles here.

Take some of your own advice sometime.


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