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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/19/2009 4:33:28 PM   
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lol...too true...and not trying to catch and eat bugs! 

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/19/2009 4:41:27 PM   
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The key to affetionate, outgoing cats is to socialize with them when they are kittens....this means holding them, rubbing their "spots" that they love...and it's not always the same or what's considered "normal" for the spots, I have one cat that loves to have his belly rubbed and scratched, and the other 3 I have will tear me up if I do that to them!  Treat them kindly, and they will respond in kind.  My males are actually the more aloof of my bunch, but I got Squeaks after she was fully grown, so I don't know how she was handled as a ktten, but she is definitely the lover out of my group.  She'll even hug me when I pick her up.  My oldest cat, KB, was raised with a dog, so not surprisingly, his outlook is more canine than feline....he meets me at the door with his brothers every night.  He actually comes when he's called, well, when he wants to, anyway, and he knows "sit" and "lay down".....and will do both!

I haven't read thru all the responses yet, but my advice....get TWO kittens.  It's not any more work or expense overall, and they keep each other company.   I have 4 cats......well, that is, I am OWNED by 4 cats.  Everyone in our family is a multi-cat owner. 

Also, to save your funiture, Wal-mart has some scratching things that are simply corrogated cardboard in a box, but mine absolutely LOVE them!  WM has the best price.....my cats see them sticking out of the bags, and they are all over them....OK, the catnip prolly is the reason, but they still love them!  And WM's litter in the big brown bag works just as good, if not better, than the pricey Tidy Cat stuff.....and it's like 30 lbs for $7 right now....I'd recommend a covered litter box, less mess.  Try not to get the litty attached to canned food either....dry is just as good, I use Science Diet, and the litter box isn't as stinky!

And Holly has a point....NO NOISY TOYS!!!!!  They will be used for evil at 2am.....that's a given!

Welcome to the kitty-mom club!

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/19/2009 4:53:35 PM   
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Hi marie2,
You have great advice here about letting the kitten choose you.  And I would like to second the notion of adopting 2 so that they keep each other company while you are at work.  Be prepared to move the toilet paper to a an area where they cannot unroll it and shred it all through the condo.  lol
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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/19/2009 4:57:40 PM   
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One thing about outdoors and kitties.....mine are all housecats, not declawed, which is cruel, but that's another conversation....anyway, I have leashes and harnesses for them to go outside.  I live in the city, and between the stray dogs and the traffic, I'd be afraid to just let mine out.  I use small DOG harnesses, it took KB all of about 2 nanoseconds to get out of the cat collars and harnesses.  But remember, cats aren't dogs on leashes.....I never knew that 3 cats could go in 6 different directions at once!  All of my family's cats are leash trained...they know they don't go out without them.  This was as a result of our cat getting hit when I was growing up.  It was the second time in my life seeing my dad cry when he buried Tojo.  The only other time was when Grandma died.

Be prepared to get some strange looks tho.....

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/19/2009 10:53:26 PM   
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I got a tortie cat from the aspca. she picked me. she came over jumped onto my shoulder stretched out and purrrrrred loudly in my ear.
I had found my cat! She was 6 mos. old at the time.

I noticed that when i came home she would mew and come right over. I figured she was lonely and needed company. she would cuddle with me. I just sensed that she needed company.

One day i went back to the same shelter to ask them a question and i decided to go and look at the cats. There was one cat that sat in the corner of his cage frightened. I asked to hold him but he hissed at the lady volunteer. I decided right then and there to give that cat some much needed love and attention.  I had picked him.

I was told male cats are more affectionate. It is a good idea if you have a female cat to get a male cat. They get along better. I don't know if what i was told was true or not.

My girl likes to still cuddle with me. My boy cat likes to lick me on my hands and feet. He doesn't like to cuddle. He prefers to do things on his own terms. He will tolerate my holding him. He ducks his head when i have him in my arms most of the time.

I agree with what others have said above. Look at their personalities and let the cat choose you.

Things that i have learned about my cats...
1. ) they own the house
2. ) they like to use the wall to wall carpeting as a scratching post
3. ) when they want out of the room they dig up my carpet fibers trying to get out
4. ) they love anything plastic..plastic shower curtains, plastic bags, even my hoses from my c pap machine!
5. ) they love to shred the toilet paper and paper towels
6. ) they like to get into the kitchen cupboards and help "set" the dishes by breaking them as they fall onto the counters and floors
7. ) they love to play when you are trying to sleep
8.)  my one loves to sit on my chest as i am lying down and give me her back end towards my nose and give me the gift of smell....wrinkles her nose..
9. ) they don't like strangers and will do anything to claw out of my hands to get away
10. ) she stares at me when she is by the sink to let me know that she wants fresh water from the faucet
11.) they mew when they want you to serve them
12.) they try and asasinate your fish
13.) remember that saying dogs have masters, cats have staff...
14. ) give them their own room so they don't ruin your leather chairs and rugs
15. ) keep them inside they live longer and are not subject to being killed by dogs or any other predator.

Above all love them, feed them, cuddle them, play with them, take care of their health and they will give you hours of entertainment.

P.S. don't yell at me for some of the things on the list. Some things i learned from other cat owners...



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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/19/2009 11:05:58 PM   
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I have never had a cat that shredded toilet paper...

Gracious and her late, lamented brother were given to me by a friend (while I was missing 2 other cats that I had left with my mom due to my job).  They didnt pick me, but they accepted me (especially Noodge.. he was my 'baby'..seriously.. loved to be held like an infant, followed me everywhere around the apt., etc).  Amos was an on the spot adoption... there's a concrete cutting company next door.  I got home one day only to have one of the guys ask me if I had a black kitten...

BAM!! next thing I knew....

I'm not sure if Gracious has quite forgiven me.... LOL


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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 12:33:12 AM   
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Well, all of my kitties have been picked...but they love me anyway.....for all of my human faults, apparently, they think I'm pretty cool.  OK, so it's the opposable thumbs that they probably like the most...if they ever figure out how to open the cat food cans, I'm toast! 

I'd do just about anything to keep my babies happy....I even went out and bought a king sized bed just so there's room for everyone on it!  Especially me!  And I'm such a sucker that I even feed the stray cats at my workplace....canned food even!  Fortunately, a woman who lives nearby also finally managed to trap and get them spayed/neutered.  Since they are considered feral, there are places in town that will spay them for about $10, and then they get released back where they were trapped at.  I started with 3 little black siblings, and they put the word out, so I'm up to about 8 of them now.  But I'm not the only sucker out there, they have huge dishes of food and eater by the building they live at.  And a co-worker makes the rounds of the downtown area we cover to take care of her babies too!  They've even grown to recognize the truck they patrol in.  Yanno, human beings are such SUCKERS! 

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 12:38:20 AM   
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yep.. Kitteh Hoomans all have "SUCKER" tattooed in Kitteh Only ink on their foreheads.....

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 6:08:05 AM   
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  No, it's the kitteh paw prints tattooed around both wrists that give it away for me. When I designed them, I said that my cats always walked all over, now I have the physical proof. On top of the scratches and scars. 

Both Punky and Queenie aren't typical cats, both are abandoned stray cats that adopted us. Punky was abandoned outside by a previous tenant and outside for a minimum of 6 months before we brought him inside with us. By that time, he'd CLEARLY adopted us, sitting at our windows, talking with me through the screen, watching me cook dinner through the window, snuggling with me when I took food out to him, that sort of thing. He has abandonment issues and based on his behaviour at times, I think he was abused as well. He's not big on men though he will tolerate Lumus petting him briefly. He's not a big lap snuggler but loves to lay next to me. He is a massive lovebug and loves attention, as anyone who has met him can tell you. According to the vet, since he was abandoned, we're thinking he's betweeb 3-5 years old and weighs in at 15 pounds or so, all cat, no fat, though because he's such a big guy we call him Lardo de Retardo.

Queenie is..... well, Queenie. I call her psycho-bitch-kitteh from Hell. Stunningly beautiful bi-coloured black and white long haired, purrsonality straight from Beezlebub himself. Don't even THINK about petting her, even when she helps herself to your lap. If you have the stupidity to touch her and she didn't give you permission (or even if she did give permission but has changed her mind) you will be sprouting some new holes in your skin. She showed up here one night when Lumus came back from a late dentist's appointment, just waltzed in the front door ahead of Him and made herself at home. Now, for those who don't know, we live in a locked, secured apartment building. I notified the super when she showed up and we went around to all the apartments on this floor but no one had lost her and no one ever notified the Humane Society that they'd lost her. There are heavy fire doors in several places between each floor so we knew she couldn't have come from upstairs. And how she got inside the building, through 3 locked doors and was sitting in front of our door is a mystery. Hence I say she's from the Twilight Zone. *POOF*  Here's KITTEH!!!!!  The additional irony of Queenie is that the very day before she showed up out of nowhere, is that I had asked Lumus if we could get Punky a kitteh-buddy as I thought he needed one. I was told no, we couldn't afford the expense of a new cat what with all the expenses so maybe we would talk about adding a new kitteh-buddy in the future. Next day, Queenie shows up literally on our doorstep!    Oh ya, someOne someWhere wanted us to have another kitteh.

So my fur-babies have issues but I still love them. I joke that since everyone has issues of some sort, the cats might as well too! I've seen some great changes since they've been here, Punky has calmed down and come out of his shell, Queenie actually snuggles with me and lets me scritch her special spots. The saying that cats have staff is very true around here as is the fact that Punky is clearly confused about the strange Man who sleeps on HIS bed at night with me. He's not sure if I'm hoomin or cat, or if he's the kitteh-hoomin. I'm just HIS, ya'know?  (Though I've had cats in the past that loved TP, these two are bathroom angels!)

So keep us informed how it goes and which one you get. Plus, a picture or two or ten wouldn't hurt!


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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 6:14:14 AM   
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I'm not sure if Gracious has quite forgiven me.
she hasn't
she is in the final stages of planning the revenge.
you are doomed.

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 6:45:06 AM   
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*snort*




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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 6:47:05 AM   
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Oh yes your doomed.

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 7:12:22 AM   
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Nope, Sci....  YOU are... Teh Kittehs are waiting... the lizard collecting has begun.....

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 7:14:22 AM   
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ooo oooo ooo I want a pretty blue one this time lmao.

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 7:20:03 AM   
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yep.. Kitteh Hoomans all have "SUCKER" tattooed in Kitteh Only ink on their foreheads.....


And growing out bangs to hide it doesn't work at all!

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 8:29:11 AM   
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My cat and I am going to the carnival today and have cotton candy and ferriswheel rides.  It will be fun!!

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RE: Kitten/Cat Advice - 5/20/2009 8:50:18 AM   
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....test the cat.  hold him upside down.   a cat that wont let you- isnt a good pick.    Be gentle and all....   I disagree with getting 2 of them.   get one good one.

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