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BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 12:31:11 PM

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Was curious about folks experience with it in public. As a entertainer i have been able to do some light things in public without freaking people out. Such as hosting a bikkini' contests where when the woman won i'd bow down and kiss her feet.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 12:38:59 PM

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This Ought to be Fun...

**Finds a Good Chair for the Consentual and how it applies conversation/flame we are about to have**'

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 12:41:28 PM

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Think i may join you for this one Steel! How the heck are ya by the way?

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 3:41:13 PM

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::passing 'round slices of homemade apple pie:: the show is about to start!

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 3:53:14 PM

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Was curious about folks experience with it in public. As a entertainer i have been able to do some light things in public without freaking people out. Such as hosting a bikkini' contests where when the woman won i'd bow down and kiss her feet.

I know exactly what you mean. There's nothing more fun than shoving an electrically charged buttplug that ZINGS up an unwilling businessman's rectum, right in the middle of the food court of a shopping mall. At lunchtime. On a saturday. When it's nice and busy.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 4:22:13 PM

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AND IT STARTS......

CAN... YOU.... DIG... IT!!!!!!

Look no matter what you will always find those who think that everyone has to consent to what thier eyes see and if they can't then it is unaceptable.

I believe that as long as I am not Breaking any laws (Difficult to know as Lewdness is a preceived action) then fuck um they can turn away.

However as offten as this thread has been brought up you will notice that we are used to Explosive Differences of opinions.

And GabrielleSlave I have been well. I miss you too. I will write when there is more time.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 4:30:38 PM

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Look no matter what you will always find those who think that everyone has to consent to what thier eyes see and if they can't then it is unaceptable.

Steel we have often disagreed but not this time...Good post

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 4:42:27 PM

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My only opinion on the subject is that people ought to respect the public space of others, that's all. For example, there's a site that's advertised here called 'public disgrace' that I find absolutely gross. I really wouldn't like to be on a bus with these guys when they do their stuff, know what I mean?

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:00:54 PM

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Kittin, not all kink in public is not respecting others space.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:01:01 PM

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How about fire play next to a hay bale and some kerosene!

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:13:46 PM

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Daddy casually spanks me a time or two sometimes in public, but it's more goofiness than bdsm in public. And the timeor two he's done it there's no one around at the moment to see us, like an empty parking lot behind jack in the box . And with an X, I would grab his penis through his clothing and gently squeeze or pretend to stop suddenly and he "bumps into me". Nobody ever noticed, we timed it carefully.

I've also worn a diaper out in public under my skirt and peed in it the one time I was experimenting with being diapered. I prefere though not to do play in public if it's more than just a casual brush.

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Was curious about folks experience with it in public. As a entertainer i have been able to do some light things in public without freaking people out. Such as hosting a bikkini' contests where when the woman won i'd bow down and kiss her feet.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:23:36 PM

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My only opinion on the subject is that people ought to respect the public space of others, that's all. For example, there's a site that's advertised here called 'public disgrace' that I find absolutely gross. I really wouldn't like to be on a bus with these guys when they do their stuff, know what I mean?

i agree. i mean, if i have to see it i don't mind it as much, but if someone wants me to do something it has to be in a very controlled environment...if i even think that there *might* be some negative consequences arising from it i absolutely will not do it.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:37:57 PM

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Kittin, not all kink in public is not respecting others space.

I never said otherwise. Besides, laws and common sense, let's not forget common sense, (it's pretty obvious, really), should help people remember that they live in a plural society, where not everyone is 'kink orientated', and where there are people, such as minors, that ought to be protected from seeing... certain things.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:42:34 PM

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The only exciting thing I have seen on this thread so far is Vendeval's blatant cruelty to smileys.

I will report her to the SPCS immediately.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:44:35 PM

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I can see it in a few years, where people will take exception to someone's hairstyle or color when they are in public. My feeling is that if you cannot handle what occurs in public, then stay at home in an area you ultimately control. There are decency laws in many places, so that needs to be taken into account. There is also being courteous to others, which is an option that someone can decide to use or not. Ultimately a person that decides to take an action in public, should accept the consequences of that action.

I am not about to bend my girl over in the middle of the mall, and nail her from behind, but a secluded park is a different story.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 5:47:45 PM

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There is also being courteous to others, which is an option that someone can decide to use or not. Ultimately a person that decides to take an action in public, should accept the consequences of that action.

That's all there is to it, really.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 6:04:55 PM

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but it's more goofiness than bdsm in public

Ok....so you agree that one should gauge public behavior, great!

In public, i am still expected to refill Sir's drink, serve Him, follow orders, be attentive to His needs, ensure His comfort etc, but we wouldn't be doing any cock worship at the supermarket, or anything. It's not within our rights to expose outsiders to any sexual acts.

Now as far as people that would be offended by collars, or hearing someone refer to their partner as "Master", "Daddy" "Mistress" Goddess" or "Sir" etc....well those people are not within their rights to ask that others censure such displays because they aren't considered lewd or lascivious.

Living in a society, one should make an effort not to injure the rights of others....and this goes both ways.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 6:56:33 PM

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CAN... YOU.... DIG... IT!!!!!!

Now You've done it. I can't get this song out of my head.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 7:13:07 PM

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Yup. I do. And I would actually refuse to be with someone who wanted cock worship at the grocery store, to use your example, because I don't care to be arrested, but a tiny bit of hanky panky is kind of fun.

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Ok....so you agree that one should gauge public behavior, great!

In public, i am still expected to refill Sir's drink, serve Him, follow orders, be attentive to His needs, ensure His comfort etc, but we wouldn't be doing any cock worship at the supermarket, or anything. It's not within our rights to expose outsiders to any sexual acts.

Now as far as people that would be offended by collars, or hearing someone refer to their partner as "Master", "Daddy" "Mistress" Goddess" or "Sir" etc....well those people are not within their rights to ask that others censure such displays because they aren't considered lewd or lascivious.

Living in a society, one should make an effort not to injure the rights of others....and this goes both ways.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 7:14:08 PM

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Sir has fondled my breasts in the grocery store when pretending to reach for something on a shelf. Last night, we were out having dinner to celebrate His birthday. We were seated in a booth and He put His hand down the back of my pants and kept it on my ass for a while. No one was the wiser. In the past, He has taken me to the store b/t midnight and three on His lead, though He took it off before entering the store so that I just had my collar on. Other times, He's commanded me to lower my panties to my ankles while we were out driving around. Recently, He had me remove my shirt and bra in the car while we ran an errand really late at night. So far, so good. No trouble yet.

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