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Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional benefits - 2/7/2006 2:51:27 AM   
SubjectProperty


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One significant aspect of reality Slave Creature ownership is
utilising your animate possession for the purpose of Theraputic
Flogging. A Slave must be used to the maximum of the creatures
physical and intellectual capabilities and be versitile in their
overal usefulness.This is particularly important when the Owner has a
disability.

The Purpose of executing such a flogging is to enhance the general
wellbeing of the owner by releasing their stressful anxieties and
producing endomorphines which are positive health enhancing chemicals
that produce a feeling of energy and wellbeing in the body and reduce
pain. Also for a Mistress this can produce the addition of a three
dimensional euphoria and tranquility which may also give sexual
fulfillment.

For that to be achieved it is essential that the Slave Creature must
be utilised to endure prolonged painful suffering in a form of
sacrifice for their owners direct benefit. Because the Owner needs to
utilise the Creature for this purpose hundreds of times it is
necessary to ensure that a safe and controlled environment exists to
protect the Slave from actual harm because it is required to engage
in so many other varied labours.

There are many methods of executing this but the one that I was
priviliged to experience took the following form:-

The Slave is stripped naked if not already kept in that desired state
has a matter of routine.

It is then secured to a flogging bench,post,cross,suspension pole, or
bed.

A mouth gag is applied to prevent the neibours hearing any cries of
pain and a Hood placed over the head so the Creature cannot see what
is happening around them.

The slave can then have 24 quadrants drawn on their upper
back,buttocks,thighs.

Then a analgesic and antiseptic spray is applied to the creatures
anatomy this prevents any bruising or swelling or infection from
occuring and reduces any pain to a tolerable leval of endurance.(this
can be purchased in any pharmacy or drug store).

Ensure that the lower back and abdomen or protected from any
possibility of accidental injury by covering those areas.

Select one of a number of Flogging Instruments already prepared in
readiness.

Execute 24 lash strokes,one to each individual quadrant so that there
is equal distribution of the flogging area.

check the Creature is still comfortable and in a suitable condition
to continue being safely flogged.

select a different instrument and repeat the 24 lash strokes,one to
each individual quadrant.

After 4 series of 24 lash strokes,totalling 96 lashes,one should take
a 15 minute break and give the Creature some water or fruit juice
through a straw in the side of the gagged mouth. Should it need to
utinate then place a bottle over the area.

you could then repeat the proceedure again.

192 lash strokes is considered a minimum session,that is a total of 8
series of 24 lashes. It can be extended to 36 series of 24 lashes,a
total of 864 lash strokes.This may sound a tremendous number but in
reality is not.

Care should be taken to respray the Creature every 30 minutes.

Many Dominants swear by the effectiveness of this theraphy. After it
terminates the Creature should rest for 15 minutes before being
released to serve in other ways.

This is a excelent and humane method of stress release and sexual
pleasure.

What do the slave owners think?

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 3:59:35 AM   
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Each to their own, if I need to blow off steam, I pick up a flogger anf beat the crap out of a couch. No concern about pain sprays, neighbours hearing or about my losing sight of the submissive as a human being. I can't cause the couch pain, break bones, damage internal organs or break its trust.

I would be reluctant to use anagelisic sprays before a flogging as this can impair a submissive's ability to know when their body has had enough and to be able to safeword.

This type of flogging appears to dehumanize the submissive, for me that is wrong, but depends on what the sub wants, some want to be dehumanized.

When I ProDomme, I call it Corporal Therapy, it is theraputic for the client, not for me.

I get my therapy in other ways by other means, getting into the pool and sauna, meditating, self help groups, talking to friends etc and as mentioned, beating the crap out of inanimate objects.
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ORIGINAL: SubjectProperty

One significant aspect of reality Slave Creature ownership is
utilising your animate possession for the purpose of Theraputic
Flogging. A Slave must be used to the maximum of the creatures
physical and intellectual capabilities and be versitile in their
overal usefulness.This is particularly important when the Owner has a
disability.

The Purpose of executing such a flogging is to enhance the general
wellbeing of the owner by releasing their stressful anxieties and
producing endomorphines which are positive health enhancing chemicals
that produce a feeling of energy and wellbeing in the body and reduce
pain. Also for a Mistress this can produce the addition of a three
dimensional euphoria and tranquility which may also give sexual
fulfillment.

For that to be achieved it is essential that the Slave Creature must
be utilised to endure prolonged painful suffering in a form of
sacrifice for their owners direct benefit. Because the Owner needs to
utilise the Creature for this purpose hundreds of times it is
necessary to ensure that a safe and controlled environment exists to
protect the Slave from actual harm because it is required to engage
in so many other varied labours.

There are many methods of executing this but the one that I was
priviliged to experience took the following form:-

The Slave is stripped naked if not already kept in that desired state
has a matter of routine.

It is then secured to a flogging bench,post,cross,suspension pole, or
bed.

A mouth gag is applied to prevent the neibours hearing any cries of
pain and a Hood placed over the head so the Creature cannot see what
is happening around them.

The slave can then have 24 quadrants drawn on their upper
back,buttocks,thighs.

Then a analgesic and antiseptic spray is applied to the creatures
anatomy this prevents any bruising or swelling or infection from
occuring and reduces any pain to a tolerable leval of endurance.(this
can be purchased in any pharmacy or drug store).

Ensure that the lower back and abdomen or protected from any
possibility of accidental injury by covering those areas.

Select one of a number of Flogging Instruments already prepared in
readiness.

Execute 24 lash strokes,one to each individual quadrant so that there
is equal distribution of the flogging area.

check the Creature is still comfortable and in a suitable condition
to continue being safely flogged.

select a different instrument and repeat the 24 lash strokes,one to
each individual quadrant.

After 4 series of 24 lash strokes,totalling 96 lashes,one should take
a 15 minute break and give the Creature some water or fruit juice
through a straw in the side of the gagged mouth. Should it need to
utinate then place a bottle over the area.

you could then repeat the proceedure again.

192 lash strokes is considered a minimum session,that is a total of 8
series of 24 lashes. It can be extended to 36 series of 24 lashes,a
total of 864 lash strokes.This may sound a tremendous number but in
reality is not.

Care should be taken to respray the Creature every 30 minutes.

Many Dominants swear by the effectiveness of this theraphy. After it
terminates the Creature should rest for 15 minutes before being
released to serve in other ways.

This is a excelent and humane method of stress release and sexual
pleasure.

What do the slave owners think?





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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 6:09:54 AM   
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None of our bdsm kinks are new or creative. They've been used in many cultures for many centuries for many reasons.

Whatever reason you are doing it for, I hope you reach your goal.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 6:58:51 AM   
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My first thought:

I didn't know that the slave scripted a flogging or any kind of play.

My second thought:
Cathartic flogging, whether for the Master or slave, can't be scripted. If it's a true cathartic flogging, the Universe scripts it, not us.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 7:20:54 AM   
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I don't know what to say about this. Seems mine likes it, and likes it a lot. And vice versa, when I bottom, I do too.

Therapeutic? Tonight's will be. I have quite a bit of frustration to release.

Gags, not needed. We're the relatively silent type.

There are 24 quadrants to the back? I applaud anyone who can successfully divide a back up that much and keep track of all the targets.

We ish equals outside the act of flogging, just something we both found out we like. I don't and will not consider him my submissive, slave, pet or creature.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 7:38:24 AM   
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Lovely... that is precisely one way I need to be used and could be used.

Thank you for putting it so nicely.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 8:28:53 AM   
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The 24 quadrants are 4 to the upper right back;4 to the upper left back;4 to the right buttock;4 to the ledft buttock;4 to the right thigh;4 to the left thigh. Every care is taken to ensure safety.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 8:31:15 AM   
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The Slave did not scrip the flogging. This method is used by dominants in many countries. It is safe and that is the most important aspect other than the physical and emotional fulfilment derived from the act itself.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 8:33:01 AM   
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This method was used upon myself on several occassions by 7 different Women. The spray prevents bruising and swelling and infection but does not dull any pain.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 9:17:36 AM   
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quote:

Then a analgesic and antiseptic spray is applied to the creatures
anatomy this prevents any bruising or swelling or infection from
occuring and reduces any pain to a tolerable leval of endurance.(this
can be purchased in any pharmacy or drug store).


quote:

The spray prevents bruising and swelling and infection but does not dull any pain.



Can you explain this contradiction?

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 10:02:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyShoshin

Each to their own, if I need to blow off steam, I pick up a flogger anf beat the crap out of a couch. No concern about pain sprays, neighbours hearing or about my losing sight of the submissive as a human being. I can't cause the couch pain, break bones, damage internal organs or break its trust.

I would be reluctant to use anagelisic sprays before a flogging as this can impair a submissive's ability to know when their body has had enough and to be able to safeword.

This type of flogging appears to dehumanize the submissive, for me that is wrong, but depends on what the sub wants, some want to be dehumanized.

When I ProDomme, I call it Corporal Therapy, it is theraputic for the client, not for me.

I get my therapy in other ways by other means, getting into the pool and sauna, meditating, self help groups, talking to friends etc and as mentioned, beating the crap out of inanimate objects.




As much as I love being "throttled, whipped, spanked, flogged... or any other thing. Being "used" as a way to release stress.... frustration... out on.... HELL NO!

I'm not no ones damn whipping post... so to speak. You got anger... go use a punching bag... not me. Because I will swing back... I will connect.... I will hurt you back. You very well may take me down... but you had better not fall asleep either... like a Dog, you kick me.. I will bite back.

My body is used as my Master sees fit.. for his pleasure... not his anger management whipping post..... when pain is inflicted on me.... it's for his pleasure... mental pleasure... emotional pleasure... sexual pleasure... For any other reason... is not acceptible. Not to me.. not to him...

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 10:14:48 AM   
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I agree if you need to blow off steam use inanimate objects, i would never use my slave to relieve anger not only do i feel it is wrong but could lead to serious trust issues not to mention emotional trauma as well as physical. if i get that angry i just go the gym and spar a few rounds or wear out the weightroom for a while lol. it is my opinion that our slave/subs ar there for our pleasure and theres, not as a punching bag when youve had a bad day.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 10:27:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrofsnfulplsre

I agree if you need to blow off steam use inanimate objects, i would never use my slave to relieve anger not only do i feel it is wrong but could lead to serious trust issues not to mention emotional trauma as well as physical. if i get that angry i just go the gym and spar a few rounds or wear out the weightroom for a while lol. it is my opinion that our slave/subs ar there for our pleasure and theres, not as a punching bag when youve had a bad day.

Different strokes.

For me it was very much part of my service to be used to vent his emotions on. Playing with high emotions is risky play, but it can also be highly intense and fulfilling. Some people can play with anger and fear and other not quite so pleasant things.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 10:28:08 AM   
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I did not mention anger.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 10:29:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SubjectProperty

I did not mention anger.


No you didn't mention anger....


I DID.... and my Master was responding to what I posted about anger.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 10:39:39 AM   
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There is more to the word "frustration" than just anger.

There is the need to escape. Sexual frustration, restlessness, feeling overwhelmed. Sadness in itself is also a frustration. Questioning who and what you are (although this is best dealt with by introspection IMO). Boredom with the here and now, see also the need to escape. Boredom will create that, as will dealing with things that in general tick you off or upset you in some way. Sometimes there is just a general need for pent up release, or to burn off energy.

There is even a spiritual need, a need for catharsis, a need to experience. As Lady Shoshin mentioned meditation. It is a good way to relieve this, but not everyone meditates.

There is also the need to see someone on the recieving end, to send them to another dimension, or to cause them pain, in a way, a sadistic frustration. At the same time there is the need to recieve, to be used for venting in some, a masochistic frustration. I often suffer both, sometimes at the same time (which makes being me at those times very difficult).

I'm pretty sure there are more reasons out there than these.

I say if flogging works, provided both people are actively engaged and both wanting the experience, so be it. Hey, whatever works, works.



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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 10:53:50 AM   
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quote:

For me it was very much part of my service to be used to vent his emotions on. Playing with high emotions is risky play, but it can also be highly intense and fulfilling. Some people can play with anger and fear and other not quite so pleasant things.


i have always had a fantasy of my Domme using my body in a similar manner when someone else has caused Her anger and/or frustration. To take it out on me when another male makes some sexist or insulting comment for instance. Somehow i especially enjoy this thought if i am being used thus to make amends for my gender (a wrong committed by another male against my Domme).

While it is all still imagined for me, and we shall see what we shall see, i do think it an honor to be used in this way, to be selected by Her for this use, especially if it makes Her feel better.

Since She will not be doing this to me until trust has been established, i do not see an undo risk. Nor a need to bite back.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 11:45:18 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: seaturtle50

quote:

For me it was very much part of my service to be used to vent his emotions on. Playing with high emotions is risky play, but it can also be highly intense and fulfilling. Some people can play with anger and fear and other not quite so pleasant things.


i have always had a fantasy of my Domme using my body in a similar manner when someone else has caused Her anger and/or frustration. To take it out on me when another male makes some sexist or insulting comment for instance. Somehow i especially enjoy this thought if i am being used thus to make amends for my gender (a wrong committed by another male against my Domme).

While it is all still imagined for me, and we shall see what we shall see, i do think it an honor to be used in this way, to be selected by Her for this use, especially if it makes Her feel better.

Since She will not be doing this to me until trust has been established, i do not see an undo risk. Nor a need to bite back.

st50



my Master has the right to use me in this way if he wishes. However, in nearly 2 years, it has never happened. However, when he does feel frustrated or is in a bad mood, he tends to be rougher on me than normal, and perhaps more terse and even brutal in his words. Like you, i consider it an honor to receive this, knowing he trusts me to not go off the deep end. Knowing he is loved regardless. He has never put more on me than i could handle (took me to the teetering edge before, but never pushed me over). While it can be difficult to be of service in this way, i know how he feels about me and what he thinks of me, so i know the harsher behavior is a venting of frustrations. i am happy to receive it. i have never felt like his physical or emotional whipping post.

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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 11:53:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrofsnfulplsre

I agree if you need to blow off steam use inanimate objects, i would never use my slave to relieve anger not only do i feel it is wrong but could lead to serious trust issues not to mention emotional trauma as well as physical. if i get that angry i just go the gym and spar a few rounds or wear out the weightroom for a while lol. it is my opinion that our slave/subs ar there for our pleasure and theres, not as a punching bag when youve had a bad day.

Different strokes.

For me it was very much part of my service to be used to vent his emotions on. Playing with high emotions is risky play, but it can also be highly intense and fulfilling. Some people can play with anger and fear and other not quite so pleasant things.



"Different strokes.

For me it was very much part of my service to be used to vent his emotions on. Playing with high emotions is risky play, but it can also be highly intense and fulfilling. Some people can play with anger and fear and other not quite so pleasant things."

That's right, I copied it again because it needed to be read again!!

SO GOOD TO HEAR SOMEONE ELSE VOICE THIS SENTIMENT!! They call it "edge play" for a reason! If you can't control it, don't do it. If you doubt, don't consent. But don't judge another who DOES want to explore those edgier areas and can do so in a negotiated, safe manner!!




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RE: Theraputic Flogging the physical and emotional bene... - 2/7/2006 12:11:23 PM   
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Well, yeah, all that is possible, but isn’t D/s more about both of you enjoying it? I whip because I like to cause pain, not as a means to break my dark moods. She wants to be whipped, but not as a means of therapy for me, but as submission to me and that leads to stress release in her as her endorphin level builds to spacing levels.

The way this is presented goes against the bright side of D/s. You can play it rough and that works, but when you mix ritual D/s into something that is totally for the sake of the Dom, you are negating the importance of the sub. Yeah, I know the whole thing is confusing, but, I’m telling you, something doesn’t quite ring true with this concept of theraputic flogging.

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