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ORIGINAL: EmelineRose

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Is it just me or does anyone else wonder why there is so little mention of the importance of good old fashioned FUN in D/s style relationships and BDSM generally? 

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Everyone I know in my community is fun..has humour..laughs it up..is silly..plays jokes on ppl..love word plays..see the silliness of self..are spontaneous
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there is a lot of mention of it..on here..??
check out Humour...Holly and Potty..Bountys Coffee Shop and many other threads..
where great fun is had by all....

There is a lot of seriousness IF a serious question is asked here..if it is out in the community then..is it a munch that is too serious? a workshop? or BDSM ppl in general? that YOU meet.. 

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The most fun I had was at a KINKY Campout near my city( Edmonton AB CA) last summer....hilarious ....... a riot

GQ

< Message edited by GYPZYQUEEN -- 5/21/2009 9:31:42 PM >

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

OP, you just joined like, five seconds ago, or you would have already noticed the fun, frolicking and silliness that pervades Collarme.

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One of the top five television moments of all time.

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ORIGINAL: EmelineRose

Is it just me or does anyone else wonder why there is so little mention of the importance of good old fashioned FUN in D/s style relationships and BDSM generally? 

So many people seem to take it all so seriously, which is sometimes necessary of course, but who wants to be in ANY relationship where there is no fun, laughter, humour, frivolity and sometimes plain good old fashioned silliness? 

Btw it's always seemed to me the best (and most secure) Dominants have a terrific sense of humour!

Do too many of us take ourselves too seriously?  Any thoughts? Or perhaps you could tell us what's the most fun you ever had in BDSM! 

Thanks.

Nope...not me...i am like the OPPOSITE of serious, i'm like the diet coke of serious....
As for something funny?....Yes i think i can accommodate you.

Master/Daddy and i had a "play date" (for lack of a better term) tonight. Well this was VERY special because i was a "Top" this evening....So while i was flogging Daddy's back i decided to move to His butt(it was so cute, and white just tempting me and all) Then it occured to me to go to His upper inner thighs, and with the slightest flick of my wrist i could come JUST up and between His legs....... LMAO .....Ok now please realize He was saying to Himself *WTF does she think shes doing* and i didn't know this because He was being a good  bottom, and keeping His hand on the wall where i drew outlines of His fingers, so i'd know if He moved Anyway,.... i'm LIGHTLY "flogging" (i say that because i really wasn't even swinging hardly) It continues to go well, and We adventually moved on to something else....Now later, when We were talking, He mentioned it...and that He was REALLY trusting me not to hurt Him(which made me smile i must say) LOL, and i was like, "oh You big baby i didnt hurt You,"... He said, "I know, but its just the THOUGHT"...and then.... He said the sentance of the year!...:"You know, thats the problem with you women...you don't have balls." (meaning we don't "get" how sensitive they are)

Then there was the time Daddy used 2 vibrating eggs on me at the same time LMAO.... The sound was HORRIBLE! It actually sounded like He was killing chipmonks or small animals or something!

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The man yells "Charge" while entering his partner from the top. THIS WILL KILL THE MOOD, trust me.

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ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch

I don't talk about humor too much.

I believe very strongly in the force personified in Eris, Loki, and Old Man Coyote, and have found that if I write a straight scene or ritual any humorous elements will be inserted to the degree that They think proper, and I will acknowledge it appropriately when it happens.

that said, there's nothing that kills a really lovely fuck like having a cat walk into the room, be annoyed that you are fucking on the bed when Her Royal Highness wishes to sleep on it, and take a large stinking dump in the center of the bedroom floor to indicate her opinion of the whole thing.

We call that cat's solid emissions Toxic Waste Dumps for a reason, is all I'm sayin'....

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ORIGINAL: EmelineRose

Is it just me or does anyone else wonder why there is so little mention of the importance of good old fashioned FUN in D/s style relationships and BDSM generally? 

So many people seem to take it all so seriously, which is sometimes necessary of course, but who wants to be in ANY relationship where there is no fun, laughter, humour, frivolity and sometimes plain good old fashioned silliness? 

Btw it's always seemed to me the best (and most secure) Dominants have a terrific sense of humour!

Do too many of us take ourselves too seriously?  Any thoughts? Or perhaps you could tell us what's the most fun you ever had in BDSM! 

Thanks.

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I never take Myself seriously.