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How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 12:59:06 AM   
SeekingOrder


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Status: offline 		How deep does your submission run? Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress? Are you interested in mental BDSM?

Are you a submissive or a slave? Do you think you could be a slave for the right person?
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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 1:42:40 AM   
GabrielleSlave


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Status: offline 		Hmmm, what alot of questions....  Submission is a very personal thing that will feel different to each 's' type.  The only thing that binds us all together is the need to be so. 

How deep does your submission run?
i feel completely, but i am lucky in that my Master would not ask me to ever jump off a cliff....
 
Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress?
i do have tasks that i must do, and things i need to remember.  i do feel a need for them, especially when He is away, but that is for Him to give, not for me to demand

Are you interested in mental BDSM?
Mental BDSM?  Sir is in my head all the time....is that what you mean?  Or do you mean mental bondage ie bend over, touch your toes and stay still while i cane you?

Are you a submissive or a slave? Do you think you could be a slave for the right person?
i am a slave and yes He is the right person 

gabrielle x

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 4:19:36 AM   
Drakontos


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Status: offline 		zaphira is property. If that makes her a slave or a submissive in others eyes, then she accepts that designation also. However, to avoid confusion on message boards such as this one, zaphira most often refers to herself as a slave.
This slave has been in Master's collar now for three years; she has no desire to seek out anyone 'better' or more 'right' for her. All that matters is that at this time, Master is not wrong for zaphira.

zaphira has many tasks and chores that she is required to do every single day. Some of those are required by Master so that his life runs easier; some are required so that zaphira's life runs easier. This slave does not have a need per se to be doing these chores. They simply have to be done; so zaphira does them.

Mental BDSM? zaphira would have to ask what exactly you are referring to here.
As for how deep her submission runs. zaphira is not able to answer that question. For her, submission is not something that is measured by how many chores she has.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 4:45:33 AM   
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How deep does your submission run?

It's just a part of me so as deep as the other parts of me run.
 
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Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress?

No, I don't need tasks to remind me who i am. I enjoy tasks that Sir gives me when he does though. The only one that irritates me is my daily diary, sometimes there is just nothing to say lol.
 
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Are you interested in mental BDSM?

Mental / physical, it's all there every day.
 
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Are you a submissive or a slave?

Slave.
 


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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 5:18:49 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I am Master's slave. He tells me to do something I do it or face the consequences which always includes me feeling as if I've let him down so I obey.

It runs as deep as submission can I guess.

Master doesn't have daily tasks for me at this point. He realizes we're both busy people with a lot on our plates right now and I don't have a need for them.

Most of being a slave for Master is mental. It's knowing that I serve him and I obey. It's not about the physical aspects. Sure those are fun but at the end of the day that's not what this entails.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 5:32:17 AM   
novak


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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 5:56:17 AM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: SeekingOrder

How deep does your submission run?


5'2". In other words, it runs through all of me. He commands, I obey. He expects me to be able to anticipate and I do my best to live up to that expectation. I don't always succeed, but after all these years and being observant and interested in him, I'm pretty good at it.

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Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress?


Need? Hmm.. probably not. Want? Certainly and I even get if he feels in the mood to allow me to serve in that way. For me, it's a matter of clear direction and guidance in his preferences and that makes me feel like what I'm doing is exactly what he wants me to be doing and 'that' feels good. :) I don't mind being left in the dark, but it does make it harder to stumble through if there's not a least a little light. He holds the flashlight and turns it on when he feels like it. I don't expect it, but I'm grateful for the occasional nudges in the right direction.

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Are you interested in mental BDSM?


It's in my top 3 of fun things (and most horrible things - which is yummy in and of itself) to do!

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Are you a submissive or a slave? Do you think you could be a slave for the right person?



Slave. Yes, I certainly can be (and am) a slave to the right person, however, I think I could be a slave for the wrong person, too. I just got lucky is all.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 6:04:41 AM   
oceanwinds


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Status: offline 		i cant honestly measure how deep my submission runs in me.

No, i do not need daily reminders of tasks that need to be done. What was set is still observed, without reminders.

Mental will come first before the physical part can come in.

Since i can't measure my depth of submissiveness, there is no way i can respond to being a slave to the right person.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 6:30:23 AM   
NyDaddysGirl


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Status: offline 		I guess my submission runs only as deep as my hard limits.

I don't feel a need for daily tasks and at this point have no specific daily tasks.  I just do what I know needs to be done, when it needs to be done.  

HE is already in my head.

I have always been submissive.  Yes, I could be a slave for the right person as I have recently just realized that about myself.


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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 6:38:33 AM   
MarsBonfire


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Status: offline 		I really have no idea.

When you are on a lake, one that's been murked up, can you tell how deep it is just by looking over the side? No. The only way to find out is to test the depth. Also, like the lake, how deep it runs also depends on where you are on it. If you are near the shore, not very. If you've gone the distance, and are in the center of it, who knows?

I've been lucky enough to be "owned" by several outstanding women and a couple of men over the years.... and only a couple, I felt, came close to touching the bottom. (At least I've found out that there IS a bottom! For a long time, I was wondering if maybe I was a bottomless pit. Happily, that's not the case.)

Sorry for answering in such a vauge way... but the question itself was pretty vauge.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 7:08:34 AM   
subtlebutterfly


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Status: offline 		Q1: My submission runs..about..0.2 inch down.
Q2: I don't need tasks at all.
Q3: Sure I'm interested in that aspect.
Q4&5: I couldn't be a slave even if I tried.


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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 7:21:20 AM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I am a slave, and my submission goes deep enough that many of my actions are a true sacrifice.  However, I could not be a slave for just anyone and I do not crave micromanaging.  There are certain tasks that I do on a daily basis and I enjoy the reminder that those are in place because he cares about me. 

You question about mental BDSM made me smile.  To me, all BDSM has its roots in the mental.  That's where trust comes from. 

I am most fulfilled when I feel that I have been pleasing and am appreciated for it.  The physical is secondary.  That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy it immensely.  For me, it's just not the main driving factor.


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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 9:07:42 AM   
kuriouswitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingOrder

How deep does your submission run?
Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress?
Are you interested in mental BDSM?
Are you a submissive or a slave?
Do you think you could be a slave for the right person?



1) My submission runs fairly deeply. There's not much I would balk at if directed by Master, mostly illegal things, or things which I know I could never do.

2) I don't need tasks everyday. Master and I have gotten into a dailly schedule which works well for us, I have my daily chores but they aren't what I would necessarily call tasks.

3) I'm very interested in mental BDSM it works well for me.

4) I am a slave.

5) With Master I am a slave, with others I've been submissive but never slave and with one I was even a SAM.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 9:15:49 AM   
sblady


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Status: offline 		I honestly don't know how deep my submission runs.  I'm sure it will depend upon the Dom.  My Sir is very laid back and understanding.  As such, I haven't (yet) encountered many things that I won't immediately do for Him.

My Dom doesn't require daily tasks, which is good as I don't feel they're necessary for "our" relationship.  If He felt they were, I guess I'd have tasks.

Our relationship is a combination of mental and physical.

I'm submissive and highly doubt that I have the fortitude required to be a slave, regardless of the Dom.

< Message edited by sblady -- 5/23/2009 9:17:55 AM >

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 1:48:28 PM   
pinkwind


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Status: offline 		How deep does your submission run?

Like a stick of rock, cut me and see the submissive wiring run through the heart of every fibre of my being! Yea godz, Colm strikes again!

Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress?

Not at all. Everything i am and do is dedicated to Andy, task would be superfluous.

Are you interested in mental BDSM?

BDSM encompasses what we do, not who and what we are to each other, but that said, the mental, emotional side of our relationship is the strongest, most important element.

Are you a submissive or a slave?

Who am i? Master's slave.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 2:53:27 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I am an adult, I can see if the laundry needs doing without him telling me. I have no interest in make work and no respect for someone who would do this for no reason but to pump up his own ego. I'm not interested in someone that insecure.

Same response to the sub/slave conundrum. Someone who has earned my total trust gets it, someone who hasn't doesn't.

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 3:45:48 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I am someone who is used to getting things done, so in a ds relationship, that need is only larger.  Mental BDSM? Isn't a good part of that in the mind anyway? My reaction to stimuli changes based on how I am feeling and sensing. 
I am submissive.  I would run from anything that pushed me to that slave state I know is damaging for me.
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How deep does your submission run? Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress? Are you interested in mental BDSM?

Are you a submissive or a slave? Do you think you could be a slave for the right person?


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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 4:48:16 PM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		my depth of submission is entirely based on the depth of Mastery.  i respond accordingly.  i can go very deep emotionally and mentally.  i dont need tasks to remind me of my submission, infact i dislike tasks for tasks sake.  if there is something constructive asked of me then fine, otherwise they just tend to add to my already full schedule.

Ms or Ds is largely psychological, infact without that my submission to someone doesnt happen.

i call myself a slub, its somewhere in between 

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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 5:29:15 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: SeekingOrder

How deep does your submission run?
Don't know. I think pretty deep.
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Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your top/dom(me)/master/mistress?
Doing tasks are probably one of my favorite things to do. I friggin get excited when given a list of things to get for him.
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Are you interested in mental BDSM?
It's all mental. Each minute of each day is like perpetual foreplay.

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Are you a submissive or a slave? Do you think you could be a slave for the right person?
I always thought submissive, but I think I'm more slave. But I really don't know because I haven't had a lot of experience in that slave mindset. I don't think one is better than the other...just different.



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RE: How deep does your submission run? - 5/23/2009 5:30:41 PM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		Answering for Carol's mindset:

How deep does your submission run?
That's an open-ended question that is ultimately has no answer. It runs deep enough to obey all the commands I've given her so far and it runs deep enough to adopt all the mental viewpoints, emotional outlooks, etc. that I've guided her into. How deep is that relative to someone else's experience? Who knows? Actually, it's possible that the answer from Carol's viewpoint would be a blank stare. I'm not sure she really identifies with the word 'submission'.

Do you feel the need for tasks in every day life for your master
Not exactly in the way you mean. Carol would be eventually upset if she were not able to do things for me that I found pleasing. But those things don't need to come in the form of command/obedience loops. She just wants to be a pleasing and affirming life partner for me.

Are you interested in mental BDSM
If I understand what you mean by that, it is the only part we are interested in... specifically, we have an authority dynamic sans kink.

Are you a submissive or a slave?
From Carol's perspective, she'd say either 'neither' or 'should I care?'. She is mine doing what I want her to do and being pleasing to me. If you were to elaborate on those words, she'd be able to pick one or the other of them based on your meaning but it really wouldn't mean anything to her. She has no connections to BDSM-land or any of the terminology therein. I personally see her as a slave, but one man's slave is the next man's faker. In the end, she obeys me all the time... she's my wife who obeys.

Do you think you could be a slave for the right person?
Depends on what that person meant by the word 'slave' but yes, she can give herself pretty thoroughly as I will attest to for the right person. And yes, that is going to be highly dependent on the person in question. Kind of like what Des said... if you earn her complete trust, then yes, you can get her complete self. If you call that a slave, then fine.

And lally2... *laughs* slub... god I love that one.

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