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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 10:08:47 AM

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I personally think too many caucasian females on this site take it that bdsm is a pick and leave situation,

Why ya gotta be all racist about it, dawg?

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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 10:08:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: NYLass

Damn, ever hear of punctuation and paragraphs?? I think my eyes are bleeding.

OP likes blood. Bet he's happy.

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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 10:15:05 AM

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OP, there have been a lot of discussions over how much choice a slave should have in his/her situation. But even the most extreme views hold that he/she has the right both to choose/accept a position, and to get released from it.

Actually no DarkSteven. You'll find that there are several posters on this site who believe in the concept of durable consent. That is to say, once consent is given, it cannot be retracted. So in this model, the slave only really gets one choice, not two... the initial choice to submit. For the record, I very definitely do not subscribe to the durable consent model, I'm only pointing it out since I've been down this road.

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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 10:19:45 AM

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this is someone who was bored and made a phoney acct to post this questions and sit back and laugh at all of us scrambling to refute him. i think i'll take a pass on this one.

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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 10:20:37 AM

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Few BDSM slaves want to be in a relationship where they are treated as a non-consensual slave. They also could not serve just anyone but need to find someone that they are compatible with. They retain rights to hard limits. There is nothing wrong with that.

Most Masters would be happier with a slave that truly enjoys them and longs to please out of respect and caring rather than someone who serves simply for the sake of serving. If you are looking for someone only to serve you then there are other sources than CM that you can look to.

Does a slave deserve to choose? You bet. Most slaves do their utmost when they know they are cared about and get fulfillment from the relationship. It no longer becomes simply a craving to serve but to serve that particular partner. If some Master was just to come along and swoop them up they could not do nearly as well.

Very well said

I had the situation last year where I could have submitted to a bloke in Canada...BUT with doing so I would have neglected myself a lot...over time I am sure I would have hated to be with him and deteriorated in my emotional wellbeing.

Currently I am dating a guy who I think would be a great Master for a variety of reasons (even when he is from a country whcih is not at all my favourite place to consider to end up maybe at some point, even when he is currently living happily in another country which is not my favourite place either, and even when I was never keen on people with ginger hair and a beard...). So in regards to your attitude about us "bad caucasian women" whilst some of us might have certain preferences, often at the end of the day we might get drawn towards someone else as he, due to other aspects in his personality, would make him a great guy to "serve."

Whilst I personally do have very tiny basic needs and am not someone who needs much...I still decide for WHOM I am willing to serve and to do as I am told.

If I woudln't choose I could even end up with someone who hasn't got a clue about what fibromyalgia means in real life and who would damage my health big time with insisting on using intensive bondage on me...I personally have the saying "only a happy sub/slave is a good one"...and when I serve someone...then at least he should be considered being worthy to be served from me....as otherwise its more abuse then submission...and abuse is for me definitely a "hard limit."

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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 10:30:33 AM

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No more than you can pick any girl you want and make her your slave.

It's 50/50.

She can choose you but unless you also choose her then she has no one.

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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 10:58:02 AM

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Natural Law -- means I am a Human Being FIRST. How I choose to live my life flows FROM that fact.

If I follow your way of thinking, the first so-called Dominant or self-proclaimed "Master" gets whomever they want?

Sort of "First cum, first served" ??? Is that it?

And while we're at it, let's get something straight. The titles "slave" and (for the most part) "Master" denote an actual relationship between people.
Outside of a relationship -- one where I was wilingly formed into being SomeOne's slave -- if it is over, I revert back to the title of being just a bottom or being called by my personality trait.. IE. "submissive". Maybe calling myself a "former slave"

"...frustrated western females with real slavery, which has its roots in natural relations, women are there to obey males, whether they like it or not, this is the natural way, {snippage}... must comply with the natural law and forget their own choices"

Question?
ALL women are to obey ALL males?
And how does this work? Practically speaking, you males, dominant or not, can barely agree about anything anyway. How is some poor little bubble-headed slave-y-poo suppose to know who to listen to?
Also, if one woman is already owned, isn't obeying any other male sort of like infidelity... I mean, golly and gee-whiz, the root and history of the word fidelity means loyalty of the serfs to their lord. Obeying other lords makes one an "infidel", wouldn't it?

"find some knitting to do while you wait for Mr Right"

But, gee, sir, what will you be doing for all that time while you wait ????
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RE: can a slave hand-pick her master ? - 5/25/2009 11:12:02 AM

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this is someone who was bored and made a phoney acct to post this questions and sit back and laugh at all of us scrambling to refute him. i think i'll take a pass on this one.

Due to lack of response from OP?

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