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LookieNoNookie -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 5:39:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pollux I was discussing this with someone off-board and I thought it was interesting enough to bring up here... What I'm curious about is whether a male sub is more likely to have a certain occupation than another. I'm guessing that you find more male subs in knowledge worker jobs -- engineer, IT (computer guy), doctor, lawyer, manager, financier, etc., and not so many in the trades -- plumber, electrician, carpenter, landscaper, mason, mechanic, etc. I know there are some Ladies here who probably know a fair number of subs and I wonder if you'd agree with this, and if you do, why do you think this is? You alluded to the question...but you never asked it. (What was the question?).

PeonForHer -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 5:40:02 PM)
Take no notice of we Brits on the matter of certain slang terms, Snow. Don't forget, many entirely straight men here still enjoy sucking on fags.

ladynlord -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 6:02:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SnowRanger There is a group of people in the Deep South that call themselves CoonAss(es). Others know them as Acadian, or Cajun. Just another fun fact to know and tell. Yes Ranger, and the top of the ladder is an RCA. No, not a television set, a Registered Coon Ass! I am one! In fact I am so much of one, I could be considered as two! Sucking heads and eating tail (crawfish that is), Tabasco sauce on everything except coffee, and rice with every meal. I have a pirogue and a bass boat. A four wheel drive and an ATV. And yes, We also eat coon. The four legged kind referred to above, not the other racist connotation.

Tantriqu -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 6:18:06 PM)
Big 'boo YA' to pro athletes and martial arts 'masters' being subs: some of My best! Think any profession where they have to be in control in public, and you'll find good and beautiful men who feel a crave and comfort in shedding that control behind closed doors.

WyckedDreams -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 6:51:11 PM)
In dealing with male subs, I have learned that they work in all fields: IT, doctors, policemen, professors, nurses, military. They are good at their jobs, and love being submissive.

SnowRanger -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 8:45:33 PM)
Of mud bugs and cigarettes! Tried the tails but couldn't twig to sucking the heads. Wait... tobasco on pancakes?.. Icecream? As for faggots, does it refer to meat balls too Peon? Mike

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 8:58:38 PM)
Sucking mudbug heads is where it's at! [:)]

pollux -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/29/2009 9:55:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: pollux I was discussing this with someone off-board and I thought it was interesting enough to bring up here... What I'm curious about is whether a male sub is more likely to have a certain occupation than another. I'm guessing that you find more male subs in knowledge worker jobs -- engineer, IT (computer guy), doctor, lawyer, manager, financier, etc., and not so many in the trades -- plumber, electrician, carpenter, landscaper, mason, mechanic, etc. I know there are some Ladies here who probably know a fair number of subs and I wonder if you'd agree with this, and if you do, why do you think this is? You alluded to the question...but you never asked it. (What was the question?). Whether a sub was more likely to have an occupation that involved his head (the big head, with the gray matter) instead of his hands, or his body. Engineer, IT, doctor, lawyer, finance guy, any kind of "knowledge worker", actor, musician, accountant, manager -- more likely to be sub Tradesman -- plumber, electrician, mason, etc., masseuse, physical therapist, sculptor, mechanic, steelworker, athlete, dock worker, freight handler, etc. -- less likely to be sub Always: subs in every field & all walks of life Always: subs hold jobs that could be considered Dom or sub My question is solely about living in the mind vs. living in the body, vocationally

iwearpanties -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/30/2009 2:52:33 AM)
hello all this sub works in the public eyes and is in a very stress full job 12hrs aday 5 days a week

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/30/2009 10:04:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pollux quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: pollux I was discussing this with someone off-board and I thought it was interesting enough to bring up here... What I'm curious about is whether a male sub is more likely to have a certain occupation than another. I'm guessing that you find more male subs in knowledge worker jobs -- engineer, IT (computer guy), doctor, lawyer, manager, financier, etc., and not so many in the trades -- plumber, electrician, carpenter, landscaper, mason, mechanic, etc. I know there are some Ladies here who probably know a fair number of subs and I wonder if you'd agree with this, and if you do, why do you think this is? You alluded to the question...but you never asked it. (What was the question?). Whether a sub was more likely to have an occupation that involved his head (the big head, with the gray matter) instead of his hands, or his body. Engineer, IT, doctor, lawyer, finance guy, any kind of "knowledge worker", actor, musician, accountant, manager -- more likely to be sub Tradesman -- plumber, electrician, mason, etc., masseuse, physical therapist, sculptor, mechanic, steelworker, athlete, dock worker, freight handler, etc. -- less likely to be sub Always: subs in every field & all walks of life Always: subs hold jobs that could be considered Dom or sub My question is solely about living in the mind vs. living in the body, vocationally Ahhhh.... There's a whole lot of anecdotal data that suggests subs tend towards executive positions. I don't know that I buy that argument, but it carries some logic.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/30/2009 10:11:31 AM)
The latest crew... engineer, IT, construction, tool & die maker, teacher, truck driver... so, I think it's pretty much across the board.

littlesarbonn -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/30/2009 2:59:29 PM)
I've had a number of jobs in my time, and I'll probably have a few more before I'm done. What really bothers me is how people often want to identify you by your job. I was at a diner yesterday eating a burger in Oakland, when a woman sitting next to me struck up a conversation. Within the first few comments, I learned what she did for a living. Then she was focused on what I did for a living. I said I was a writer and left it at that. She was more interested in how lucrative that job was. I said I don't identify myself by my job, and tried to leave it at that. She was even more intrigued and wanted to know more about my job. I politely excused myself and went back to reading the New York Times.

AlexandraLynch -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/30/2009 9:43:20 PM)
Mudbug heads are for catching catfish.

pollux -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/30/2009 10:51:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn I've had a number of jobs in my time, and I'll probably have a few more before I'm done. What really bothers me is how people often want to identify you by your job. I was at a diner yesterday eating a burger in Oakland, when a woman sitting next to me struck up a conversation. Within the first few comments, I learned what she did for a living. Then she was focused on what I did for a living. I said I was a writer and left it at that. She was more interested in how lucrative that job was. I said I don't identify myself by my job, and tried to leave it at that. She was even more intrigued and wanted to know more about my job. I politely excused myself and went back to reading the New York Times. A musician friend of mine makes his living doing custom carpentry. Inevitably, when someone finds out what he does for a living, they want to talk abou this or that project they have around the house, and want to engage his services for free, or a deep discount, or want to know the next block of free time he has, could he please come over and ... (you get the idea) So recently, he says he's stopped telling people he's a contract carpenter and instead just tells them he plays trombone. Suffice to say it's solved his problem. Btw, ladies (and gents, for that matter), the question "what do you do?" is for men, the equivalent of, "how much do you weigh?" or "how old are you?" for women.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/31/2009 10:57:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pollux Btw, ladies (and gents, for that matter), the question "what do you do?" is for men, the equivalent of, "how much do you weigh?" or "how old are you?" for women. That makes NO sense whatsoever. Honestly.

pollux -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/31/2009 12:48:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: pollux Btw, ladies (and gents, for that matter), the question "what do you do?" is for men, the equivalent of, "how much do you weigh?" or "how old are you?" for women. That makes NO sense whatsoever. Honestly. Don't I get to make at least ONE nonsensical post? [8D] I meant this more in the context of being introduced to someone, and then saying -- right off the bat -- "Nice to meet you! And what do you do...?" I just think that's kind of a tacky thing to say right away when meeting someone (esp. a man), and just plays into the traditional stereotypes that value men mostly for their breadwinner status, the same way that questions about age or weight play into traditional stereotypes that over value youth & beauty in women. I know when it's asked of me -- right away -- I feel the questioner has been somewhat rude and at the very least doesn't have much imagination.

AAkasha -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/31/2009 12:55:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pollux Don't I get to make at least ONE nonsensical post? [8D] I meant this more in the context of being introduced to someone, and then saying -- right off the bat -- "Nice to meet you! And what do you do...?" I just think that's kind of a tacky thing to say right away when meeting someone (esp. a man), and just plays into the traditional stereotypes that value men mostly for their breadwinner status, the same way that questions about age or weight play into traditional stereotypes that over value youth & beauty in women. I know when it's asked of me -- right away -- I feel the questioner has been somewhat rude and at the very least doesn't have much imagination. Oh come on. Seriously? If the question was, "How much money do you earn?" then yeah. "What do you do for a living?" is a safe question that is the same as "What do you spend the bulk of your LIFE doing day by day" since work occupies a huge chunk of our time. It's also a networking question in many cases, and it is an opportunity to open the avenue for possible mutually beneficial work ventures. Do other men seriously think this is a threatening question or measuring stick? And if you think the lady is just trying to figure out how much money you make, you can always manipulate your answer. My brother was a huge playboy and ladies man in his single life. When he was young and in the company of older hot women who asked him, "So what do you do for a living?" he would tell them honestly, "I'm a petroleum transfer agent." True!! (He worked at a gas station) Akasha

Venatrix -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/31/2009 1:11:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pollux I meant this more in the context of being introduced to someone, and then saying -- right off the bat -- "Nice to meet you! And what do you do...?" I just think that's kind of a tacky thing to say right away when meeting someone (esp. a man), and just plays into the traditional stereotypes that value men mostly for their breadwinner status. . . It is, and in some countries, just not the US, it's considered the height of rudeness to ask someone you don't know well what he or she does, simply because it looks like you are trying to figure out how much the person earns. Given that I was raised in the UK, whenever someone I don't know well asks me what I do, I give them a list of my interests: "Oh, I like to cook Indian and Chinese food, I knit, I'm interested in contemporary art . . ." If I'm feeling really stroppy, I'll say, "I prefer not to be defined in terms of how I make my living."

PeonForHer -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/31/2009 3:24:35 PM)
That reminds me of a film in which John Cusack plays a hitman going back home for a students' reunion. When asked what he does for a living, he always answers "Oh, I became a hitman". The responses are always laughs and comments like "Oh well, you don't have to tell me". You're a femdom. If asked "What do you do?", you could always reply: "I beat up men". It might even lead to much more interesting sorts of conversations . . . .

Venatrix -> RE: Male subs' occupation (5/31/2009 3:50:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer You're a femdom. If asked "What do you do?", you could always reply: "I beat up men". It might even lead to much more interesting sorts of conversations . . . . You mean like, "I'm a cop and you're under arrest"? Yes, I suppose it could do, at that.

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