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Dom or master - 5/26/2009 10:30:59 AM

UncleTom

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Where or how can i learn about being a dom /master.

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 10:38:55 AM

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Search Function.

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Type "Advice Being a Master"

READ EVERY THREAD.

After your Head Explodes.

Read Books and see if you think you have what it takes to be a Dom or Master......

I hear SailingBum is offering his services as a Mentor. (heheheheheheh)

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 10:40:22 AM

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I hear SailingBum is offering his services as a Mentor. (heheheheheheh)

Steel

Oh thats just wrong on SO many levels!

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 10:42:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Search Function.

Top Right hand side of screen.

Type "Advice Being a Master"

READ EVERY THREAD.

After your Head Explodes.

Read Books and see if you think you have what it takes to be a Dom or Master......

I hear SailingBum is offering his services as a Mentor. (heheheheheheh)

Steel

Too funny....I love it!!!

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 10:51:56 AM

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Read all that you can find and after you think you are headed in the right direction start attend events like munches and play partys,watch and learn..find someone that may be interested in mentoring you but like in all of life you will find some good and some bad mentors, play it by ear, after all we all started some where..I was lucky enough to have a DOM couple to take me under their wings and give me the basics and after then it was hands on learning..bounty

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 1:11:52 PM

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While anything is better than nothing, I wouldn't recommend he expend his energy just reading. Hell, I could watch all the porn in the world of someone making love and it wouldn't be worth more than just doing it once with someone new.

Hence, I'd suggest finding a local place that caters to the Dom. There are plenty in my area, e.g., www.thegatessm.com for example, where for a puny $150 an hour, you can Dom any gorgeous woman you find. You can string 'em up and spank 'em and tie em to the table and nipple clamp their tits, whatever you want (you agree ahead of time as they are always professional).

Do that, ten or twelve times with five or six women, and you'll have a handy start. To me, that's much better than reading about it. Hell, then post an ad in Craigslist and tell 'em that you're a beginner Dom looking for a beginner sub. You'll have two or three responses, most of which will be spam, but, if you put about ten ads, you'll get one or two real responses a week, which is all you need (yes, I know the ratios are much different for women than for men on these ad things).

Then, after "playing" with five or six women in the span of five or six months, you'll be a damn expert ... telling US how to do it! Try it. Write back and let me know how it works out. Then, you can read all about it. </IMHO>

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 1:30:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: UncleTom
Where or how can i learn about being a dom /master.

At risk of being serious on this thread.... "inside yourself". Start with answering these two questions...

a) Why the hell do you want to be a dominant? (any answer that relies on 'your nature' needs more work).
b) Assuming you miraculously owned another human being today... top to bottom.. body and soul... what would you do with it?

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 2:09:09 PM

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Its too late, there are no more, We have whipped them all into shape and they are what they truly are----submissives.

Now grab that leash would you?

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RE: Dom or master - 5/26/2009 2:36:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Search Function.

Top Right hand side of screen.

Type "Advice Being a Master"

READ EVERY THREAD.

After your Head Explodes.

Read Books and see if you think you have what it takes to be a Dom or Master......

I hear SailingBum is offering his services as a Mentor. (heheheheheheh)

Steel

Not tonight Ive go ta headache

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