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RE: Changes in Tastes - 5/27/2009 6:50:47 PM

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Are we quite sure that it's information that we're sucking?

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RE: Changes in Tastes - 5/27/2009 6:54:22 PM

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I want pics!

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RE: Changes in Tastes - 5/28/2009 4:21:12 AM

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I am pretty much the same, but I have matured a bit. I am able to handle some psychological torture better. I am cuckolded by Mistress Mlicious. I was not really able to deal with that kind of thing when I was younger.

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RE: Changes in Tastes - 5/28/2009 10:27:03 AM

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'Hawk the Slayer" used to be such a wonderful movie...

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RE: Changes in Tastes - 6/1/2009 5:40:34 PM

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My tastes have changed a lot, as in fact, I started on the other side of the kneel. But I have processed enough to understand what needs I had then, what was being met, what didn't exactly jive, and how much more in alignment with my core self I am now. Also, as LadyP self-described, I can identify as a late-blooming Sadist.
If I get a certain reaction there are all kinds of wicked things that standing on their own, held little interest, but now, coming from someone suffering for Me, just makes me gush!

Coming from another perspective, I do believe that part of appeal is the 'newness' or 'fear' of the unknown. Once experienced, this can be forever changed, and then the activity must stand on it's own merit. This is one of the reasons that Otter is being subjected to different activities at a leisurely pace....I'm SAVORING!

OP- Good question....thanks for starting this thread:)

Peon - Thanks for putting yourself in the 'prey' position with your confession; this should be an interesting thread to follow.

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RE: Changes in Tastes - 6/4/2009 9:57:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: Steponme73: I have noticed over the years that my tastes have changed subtly over the years. Things that used to excite me don't do it as much, yet I have found other things that excite me more...has anyone else experienced this?

In some people, the adrenaline element of novelty is a significant part of the rush they get from specific forms of play. And in such people, without other elements (such as submissive emotions, straight masochism, or endorphin rush), when the novelty isn't there, the interest diiminishes or disappears. Such "adrenaline junkies" may also enjoy 'nilla hazardous pastimes like dirt-bike racing, hang-gliding, or walking down dark city alleys in tuxedos. Knowing oneself well enough to identify the lure of the adrenaline rush is a valuable trait.

Newness can also be a distraction to a top or bottom, as inexperience or lack of toy/technique skill interferes with the physical sensatons, the intensity of play, and the success of energy exchange.

Another factor that enters into changing play-tastes is the difference between fantasy—specifically kinky porn—and the reality of actual play. Certainly I've known some subboys who've been down this road. Usually

Times I find myself concerned that I'm losing interest in some particular toy or technique; and then I get into a particularly satisfying scene with one of my boys, and…boom!…my favorite toy changes.

I think your experience, Steponme73, mirrors many of us in the scene.

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