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question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 6:55:54 AM

MrsIsabella

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Could one possibly tell how I can see that and older Lady is interested in someone a lot younger? I get confused on this website, as many use the world girl, but only to make one feel small, instead of meaning someone young?

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 6:57:09 AM

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I suppose you could ask for clarification ...

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 6:58:15 AM

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Someone who identifies as lesbian and calls herself a cougar.

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 7:01:09 AM

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I love younger women but don't remember ever calling myself a cougar (unless in jest). I've never had any problem communicating my interests nor have the young women I've met.

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 7:04:53 AM

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well, that helps a bit, bit still don't know how to tell?

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 7:13:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: MrsIsabella

well, that helps a bit, bit still don't know how to tell?

Asking is always good. Often times they say something in their profile. Seriously, a short email asking, is never something I would be offended by. What's the worst that can happen, a stranger, you will never meet, tells you they are not interested.......no biggy ziggy.

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 7:19:55 AM

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i am 64 and some friends here call me "girl" and i refer to myself as "this girl". For me it is a generic term for female. Since i am a slave it would not be proper to call me Ma'am (like the bag boy at the market calls me). Some Masters call a female slave "girl" because they haven't named her yet.

In the vanilla world grown women often call each other "girls". For example: The "boys" go to play golf while the "girls" go to the fabric store. Those folks can be as old as senior citizens.

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 7:23:50 AM

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My adult friends and I call each other "girls" sometimes. I don't accept that from men, though. I don't call men "boys", either!

If you want to know if someone is interested, ask! You don't ask, you don't get, eh?

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 7:43:22 AM

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I call women "girl" and men "boy" as a term of endearment....not condesention..

To find out if they are interested in an age aspect you can ask..

Hopefully they will want a whole person not just an age ..height..boob size etc
I get messages..."you into younger guys ?" and it never ceases to amaze me that this is what they feel they have to offer..youth..??as a carrot..a tantilizer..??

for me it is MINDS FIRST

NOW someone may be genuinley wanting an older DOM so then one can then approach with.." I feel I would enhance your life by.."
or " I wish to be with an older DOMME because.....
" IT appeals to me to be with a mature DOMME because.."

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 11:03:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I love younger women but don't remember ever calling myself a cougar (unless in jest).

We know Youre not a cougar, because youre stripey tiger.

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 11:05:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I love younger women but don't remember ever calling myself a cougar (unless in jest).

We know Youre not a cougar, because youre stripey tiger.

I don't know why, but that made me thing of Tigger (Pooh's friend), which of course brought a smile to my face.

Thank you Politesub!

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 11:06:36 AM

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LOL... I smiled and laughed too... He has the touch! lol

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RE: question for mature Ladies - 5/29/2009 11:08:06 AM

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