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RE: Thank You - 8/19/2004 10:47:50 PM   
proudsub


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Now wait a moment


So glad you survived Charley MistressDread, hope you didn't have much damage. Hope everything is restored soon.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 2:05:54 AM   
iwillserveu


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This slave offers an apology to all in this forum for not behaving properly and bringing shame to herself and also offers an apology to the collarme staff for her ignorance.


huh? I think I'd notice being insulted. You've not insulted anyone by your ignorance.

If anyone feels insulted, they can grow a skin that is thick enough.

Dread,

I agree. Although Leonidas thought I was a pervert we generally agreed to stay out of eachothers way. He's driven away by WORDS? I fail to respect a person who is hurt by words. Stick and stones, yes; names, well...

Then again lets be polite and cut him slack. Maybe there is more going on than we know. Perhaps this moves makes great sense if we see the whole picture.

On a side note Dread, glad to hear you're alive. Sorry everything is a mess. (Well, sorry as a person who does not control the weather can be.)

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 5:50:08 AM   
SentForu


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Status: offline 		Dang, I'll miss reading his posts. I learned a lot from him, as well as some of the other Masters in here.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 5:55:14 AM   
NightDaughter


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Status: offline 		Sorry ta see you go Leonidas that is if your leaving your postings are fairly good.

hope you find something that fits better for you.

take care,

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 6:03:29 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		Well damn.....just as i get on this site and start reading some good posts...One of the people i have been hearing so much about has left? ughz! will just have to back-read i guess.
I am certainly waiting to see the outcome of some of this.....hope y'all have a great day.

~smilezz~

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 8:50:35 AM   
Guest
 I deleted a post because it included a private email, a thing the poster has been warned about in the past. This was the post beneath it:

From Kikiblue:

There's a difference between knowing you can do something, and knowing whether you should do something. Some people know when it's wise to talk, and wise to stay silent.

It isn't undomly to leave a board. It isn't undomly to decide that a group doesn't suit your needs. This isn't our ballpark, it's the belongs to the owners of CollarMe, and it's up to them to make the rules. We're only allowed to play here, if we play by their rules.

A good guest is one who abides by the rules of the host, and it doesn't matter whether you ID as a dom, sub or green tree frog. If you don't like the rules, the polite thing is to do is say thank you very much, and goodbye, not show disrespect by announcing one will ignore them. As adults, we should learn how to think before acting or speaking (theoretically, anyway), and be able to control ourselves and our actions. It's certainly a trait I look for in a partner.

I respect those who decide it would be best to leave on good terms, rather than stay and say things they'd regret. I respect those who know when the time is right to do something.

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kiki,
Very eloquent and well said. i truly appreciate your insight.

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If the person wishes to continue the discussion, I would suggest they do so on the other side of the site, as personal attacks on this side will cost them a suspension since they have had warnings.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 9:14:15 AM   
MrThorns


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quote:

ORIGINAL: iwillserveu

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I agree. Although Leonidas thought I was a pervert we generally agreed to stay out of eachothers way. He's driven away by WORDS? I fail to respect a person who is hurt by words. Stick and stones, yes; names, well...

Then again lets be polite and cut him slack. Maybe there is more going on than we know. Perhaps this moves makes great sense if we see the whole picture.


I don't think he left because of being "..hurt by words...". I think he left because he most likely didn't like the thought that he wasn't able to express himself. I think he did the most honorable thing that one could do in this situation....walk away. The mods have stated very clearly that this is a free site and for that we should be thankful and conform to the TOS. I think Leonidas felt that he could better express himself on the many other sites that allow discussions about *********** or *********** or ************. Other sites operate just fine and dont seem to have the fear that collarme has about being shut down. That's ok...its their site. So to say that he left because of the words of others seems to be pretty inaccurate. We do have a choice to abide by the rules of this site...or find something less confining. I think he did just that.

Take care,

~Thorns

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 9:28:58 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MrThorns
So to say that he left because of the words of others seems to be pretty inaccurate. We do have a choice to abide by the rules of this site...or find something less confining. I think he did just that.


I agree. My impression is he left out of frustration. It happens.

Take care Leonidas. Be well.

- LA

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 9:29:42 AM   
jillwfsub4blkdom


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Status: offline 		MrThorns,
i think You hit the nail on the head with what You said. i really appreciate Your thoughts.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 11:47:35 AM   
MistressDREAD


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Status: offline 		yessssss but that was My whole point
Those whom stand up for Our Alternate Way of thinking do not up and run
the moment things dont go Their way sorry but Im not the one whom
crawls back into the closet or runs to more freindlier grounds just because
the waters churned in the oppisite direction from the way I was swimmin.

We all have Our opinions of how People react to situations online and off as
well and sum of Us state Our opinions politically correct or sociallly correct or not
and well Sum of US speak our minds errregardless of who do not like whats
said or how its said and are simply straight up forthright and sum times say
words, others just dont like to hear but are still the turth in sums eyes, but I
just as everyone else here has a right to state My say and sum times those
sayings are gonna hurt sum souls and step on sum toes.
I am FULLY capable of standing up to what I feel and say and
also ready to pay the price for such freedoms and statements. Just because
I am not One such as the DOM whom left whom states words in a way that are
candy coated and are made to look politically correct when they are actually slanting
sumone or sumthing I believe in and do not have the slanting eoquence that
He showed to make Him self
look more Domly then the rest did not fool Me one moment into just what kind of Dom
He appeares to Me to be and thats My Bottom line. Im Dominant and those whom are
submissive see Him from submissives eyes I however see Him in a much different light.
JMO = JUST MY OPINION. Dont like it.................................. TO BAD! Thank You Collarme
for the place to board BDSM ways and personalities and their extream diversity and Thank
You Collarme Mods for keeping those things that are deemed to have broke the rules from
others eyes as that is Your job and You do Your jobs well. And ThankYou ALL the Dom/mes
whom are here showing ALL of Our different and diverse personalities to those whom come
to Our Lifestyle and AWAY from main stream politically and socially correct normalcy because
they are just llike Us in sum way DIFFERENT and UNIQUE and come here to feel a part of sumthing that will accept ALL of the differances while still keeping Us in line the best way
one can to be as correct as a place can be and still hold the lines on the edge of societys people.
Im still here and will be here till Im removed perminantly and as long as My thoughts and ways are tolerated and acceptable I will continue to be here and be who and what the way I am regardless of who do not like it and regardless of whom does not like it. This is Me. The Good, The bad and the Ugly. Humiliation is a Alternate Lifestyle way, Sadisum is a Alternate Lifestyle way, Pollitically Incorrect is a Alternate Lifestyle way, Socially inept is a Alternate Lifestyle way. I live and breath and am Alternate in My ways. Society does not accept the way I am. And yes even sumtimes those with in My suppose to be Tolerant Alternate Living and Lifestyle dont either.
You dont see Me crying over it or running off because of it. I will always go down with a fight to what I feel is right. I expect any Dominant in a Alternate Lifestyle to do the same.JMO

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 1:43:42 PM   
deannalynn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

[He showed to make Him self
look more Domly then the rest did not fool Me one moment into just what kind of Dom
He appeares to Me to be and thats My Bottom line.


Warm Greetings MistressDread,

Master Leonidas does not need me defending him, but I cant seem to help myself in adding something.

Strong, dominant people usually believe whole heartedly in their owns ways, and you have to respect them for following what is within them and following their own paths. Some are very overpowering and I can tell you, he lives exactly by his words. You may find them pretty, but for him its his life. I belonged to him for three years, so I know for a fact. Because a person believes strongly in their way, its not meant as an offence to you or anyone. I think it may just be the way of a very dominant person.

wishing you well,

deanna

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 2:09:01 PM   
NoCalOwner


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Status: offline 		I'm very sorry to see you go. While we may not have seen eye to eye on every topic, you often made me think, and I am grateful for that. I hope that you will reconsider.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 2:55:43 PM   
MistressDREAD


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Strong, dominant people usually believe whole heartedly in their owns ways

Correct and each One of Us looks at the others beliefs and determine whats the same and whats different and what sets Us apart as Dominants and what each One of Us look at as being issues and actions that are not Dominant nor becomming. Again you look at Him with suplicant eyes not ones of Dominance as I do.
quote:

and
you have to respect them

INCorrect
I respect No one whom first DISSResepects Me as Leon did in the very first Post He made here on these boards towards Me. I always say dont dish it if You cant swollow it and He has proven this fact to Me that He could not.
I not only give to those whom give to Me but do so ten fold.
quote:

Some are very overpowering and I can tell you, he lives exactly by
his words.

Overpowering I am quite sure I am at times, I never seen His Overpowering skills you speak of.
but His actions this time did NOT step up to His words to Me sorry.
quote:

Because a person believes strongly
in their way, its not meant as an offence to you or anyone

I have no doubt that your past Owner feels just as strongly about Me as I do about Him and His offences towards Me were returned 10 fold as I stated. Nothing more nothing less, now if He feels that He dident offend Me in any way even after Me addressing such on several occations then He and you are blind but what more would I expect from one whom was trained by the same One whom is blind to His offences ......I have no doubt that both Me and Him are very Dominant People even if He choose not to stay around and continue to stand up for what you stated He beleives in, and you are very cute to put up your dukes for your past Master and your right there was no need to as it only continued to show His short commings as well with Him not even here to defend such that a past sub feels the need to speak when she knows not the whole picture and He has left, however He does know His wrongs and I have no doubt it is why He is not here now because it is much easier to hit and run then to take the blows and stand back up and stand Your ground. JMO The Moral n Socially corrupt minority Dreaded OK Im done with this thread Mods ~wink~ See Ya next week!!

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 4:25:18 PM   
MrThorns


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD


quote:

and
you have to respect them


INCorrect
I respect No one whom first DISSResepects Me as Leon did in the very first Post He made here on these boards towards Me. I always say dont dish it if You cant swollow it and He has proven this fact to Me that He could not.
I not only give to those whom give to Me but do so ten fold.
quote:

Some are very overpowering and I can tell you, he lives exactly by
his words.


Dread,

I'll back you left and right when it comes to your right to express your ideas. But when it comes to attacking someones character when they are no longer here to defend themselves is truly dishonorable.

~Thorns

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 4:26:07 PM   
Leonidas


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Status: offline 		Well, I see that a couple of cowards came out of the woodwork here, and just about the ones that I would expect. Disappointing, but again, not unexpected. As usual, Dread, I can barely parse your babble, but I guess the general gist is what? You ran me off? I can't believe that even you need to feel better about yourself that bad. Is it that I'm supposed to stay here and fight for my right to use this board in a way that the owners find unacceptable? Maybe argue with moderators who are trying to do their job and post their private mail to me in pubic in some childish act of "stamp my foot" defiance to show how "dominant" I am? That isn't dominant, Dread, it's just rude, childish, disrespectful of folks that are giving you the soapbox that you so much enjoy for free. Maybe someday you'll learn the difference, but I doubt it. They have the patience of Job not to have banned your silly ass already. You should show a little more appreciation.

I'm not posting to this board anymore because I don't want moderators running around after me deciding whether they need to pull a thread because I said the "P" word or because the discussion got a little heated. No more, no less. Every board has some degree of moderation, but the moderators here seem to be working under unusually restrictive conditions. I don't think it's a good fit for me, and I think that my being here will make it harder on them. For native speakers of english (or any other intelligable language) that was probably fairly clear from my original post. I'm only saying it again for you, Dread. If you need me to write it in crayon, let me know.

< Message edited by Leonidas -- 8/20/2004 5:50:45 PM >

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 4:34:46 PM   
Guest
 I assure you Leonidas, no one will be following you around. Honestly, I don't think your posts where the first that said something that caused the strings I pulled to be pulled.

I am going to give warning here that this needs to be taken private. I have already deleted one post in the string, and it's sad that something that started off just as someone explaining that they weren't going to post anymore was made so ugly. I guess I would win Iwills poll if it wasn't gone, but I am not here to be popular, I'm here to enforce rules. So please stop the personal attacks. Using the excuse that you are a non-conformist or outspoken only gets you so much slack.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 4:39:03 PM   
jillwfsub4blkdom


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lol i guess you saw my response to that poll and question.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 4:39:42 PM   
Leonidas


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Status: offline 		I've said what I had to say, mod4. I decided to lurk a little and catch up on a thread or two and was frankly a little suprised at what I saw. But hey, if you need an excuse to pull the thread altogether, I know a really good one about a couple of hookers, a dead aligator, and a busload of boy scouts.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 4:45:09 PM   
Guest
 ::laughing:: thank you for a much need laugh. And yes, jill, I saw it and appreciate it. On a side note, this is your string, if you want it pulled, give the word and it will go poof.

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RE: Thank You - 8/20/2004 5:15:02 PM   
LadyBeckett


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Status: offline 		This has certainly been both entertaining, and enlightening.

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