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PeonForHer -> RE: Attitude from Sub (6/3/2009 6:01:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: redheaddomme
I'm concerned about whether he is genuine. He seems to be reading out of a book about what he thinks he should say and want, more than he feels it. For what purpose, i don't know. Thinks he will be rewarded with his 'fantasy D/S' soon? As soon as he's done with all this I'll be pleased and ready to play out his fantasy? I don't know............
He's got one more shot at it.
I'd say he probably isn't genuine, RHD - but doesn't realise it. Maybe he's spoken to lots of people about what "The Lifestyle" entails, and thinks he knows "the laws of D/s" inside out. Perhaps he hasn't grasped that there are only the laws that are worked out between the two people that are involved in the relationship. There isn't any easy substitute for a) his understanding himself and b) communicating with you. The same, natch, is true for yourself, of course.
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