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Arillis -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (6/7/2009 12:13:44 PM)

Once again, intellect intelligence and common sense prevail, thank you for your input, AfroerotiK.



muses45 -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/6/2010 5:42:50 AM)

Hello Ms Afroerotik,

yes I know I enjoy serving an African American Domme. And I also agree with your Glenn Beck disgust.

james



DarkSteven -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/6/2010 5:59:48 AM)

James, you dug up a thread from a year ago to tell someone who likely no longer posts that you agree with her?

If you want to tell her that, send her a mail directly. 



Charles6682 -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/6/2010 11:08:39 AM)

This is a unique post.I am a male submissive.My Domme is Black.I am white.I will say,I do have a preference for Black Women.However,that is not my sole reason when I was seeking to be collared.My Domme has a great personality and that is what has made the biggest difference.It's impossible to sterotype anyone based on their outer appearance.It's all about personality,period.



MistressTonya2u -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/7/2010 2:21:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Charles6682

.It's impossible to sterotype anyone based on their outer appearance.


stereotype [ˈstɛrɪəˌtaɪp ˈstɪər-]
n
1. (Communication Arts / Printing, Lithography & Bookbinding)
a.  a method of producing cast-metal printing plates from a mould made from a forme of type matter in papier-mâché or some other materialb.  the plate so made2. (Communication Arts / Printing, Lithography & Bookbinding) (Psychology) another word for stereotypy3. an idea, trait, convention, etc., that has grown stale through fixed usage4. (Sociology) Sociol a set of inaccurate, simplistic generalizations about a group that allows others to categorize them and treat them accordinglyvb (tr)
1. (Communication Arts / Printing, Lithography & Bookbinding)
a.  to make a stereotype ofb.  to print from a stereotype2. to impart a fixed usage or convention to
stereotyper , stereotypist nstereotypic  [ˌstɛrɪə ˈtɪpɪk ˌstɪər-], stereotypical adj http://www.thefreedictionary.com/stereotype



ownedslavebitch -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/7/2010 2:52:16 AM)

To be a servant one should not look at the color of skin to be a true servant in my eyes means to serve the Domme or Dom to the best of your ablity out of respect and honor at least that is what I have done.



xsexiix3 -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/8/2010 8:55:08 PM)

Black for me. (: I prefer black women over white women.. and white men over black men.
weird I know.



thishereboi -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/9/2010 6:35:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

James, you dug up a thread from a year ago to tell someone who likely no longer posts that you agree with her?

If you want to tell her that, send her a mail directly. 



Agree with what? The post he responded to never mentioned Glen Beck. So now I have to wonder why he did?



MrBukani -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/9/2010 11:35:13 PM)

How about black slave vs white slave???
[:D]



MercTech -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/10/2010 8:20:49 AM)

Is it really skin color or that skin color is associated with a cultural ethos that has negative connotations?

If you wear a hoodie and garish jewelry and speak in an angry, antagonizing, tone of voice won't you be equated with "gangsta" culture? Don't be surprised if you are avoided on the street and people get between you and their children. And you get no respect but avoidance.

If you speak garbled "mush mouth" accent and stop to gossip with everyone you know instead of paying attention to your job and get angry when asked to pay attention to what you should be doing; you get tagged as "stupid and lazy" and are avoided and get no respect.

If you storm in wanting special consideration and talking trash about anyone and everything; you get tagged as a "Diva" and are avoided and get no respect.

Just three examples of cultural behaviors that have become associated with American "black" culture and perpetuated by the mass media. Every cultural niche has quirks that can be irritating to persons of other cultures. Stereotypes exist for a reason. I think a stereotype is to a culture what a characature is to a person... a gross exaggeration of defining characteristics often with humorous intent. Please note the "gross exaggeration".

Alas, human being generalize and start equating morphology (physical characteristics) with cultural habits. Face to face, one on one, this isn't too hard a habit to break. But when dealing with the crowd, people tend to go with what they personally find comfortable and attractive and exclude what they find foreign and irritating.

There are cultural memes that have nothing to do with race. A whole topic thread could be done on "rude Yankee" vs "dumb Redneck".

Now, if someone doesn't find you personally attractive, for whatever reason, move on. Being attracted to someone in no way obligates them to be attracted to you. Heck, I think Angelina Jolie is attractive but I'd have to be very nutso narcissistic to think she would give a flying flip who I was. Physical attributes may get my notice first but it is what is between the ears that will keep my attention.

Stefan



rhpaw -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/10/2010 12:55:26 PM)

Does not matter if they are grey. There's too few to go around.



MrBukani -> RE: Black Mistress’s or White Mistress’s?? (9/10/2010 1:12:23 PM)

I am orange, cos I'm bloody dutch, how about them apples.
I can show you a building in Amsterdamned wich still wears the sign SLAVETRADE [:D]
Hey I can prefer any fuckin color I like. But we are still the baddest asses in the past 5 centuries and more.
If you aint dutch you aint much.
back to your little quable[:-]
Be tolerant and I dont give a fuck what you percieve as superior.
Superiors can be shown in numbers and accomplishments. Not color. Get it?



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