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Lucylastic -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 7:36:30 AM)

I feel the same way as most here, A wonderful intense description, that almost took me there and made me ache to reach out and touch my sweetie. When you have that connection, there is nothing better.
Purry thoughts here now, so thankyou LP, Best wishes to you and yours
Lucy




DomImus -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 9:58:38 AM)

Even though subsequent events may become more fulfilling as skill levels increase and what not, that first time at trying a new activity always seems to hold a special place. I remember all the firsts vividly.

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
It's all about what it means to her and Clip, not us.
I am quite surprised at the nasty notes a few have added. Says more about them than anything else.


Oh, boo hoo already. If these kinds of posts are only intended to be a warm fuzzy group hug then they should have WFGH in the thread title. This is a public forum for public opinion. Once LP posts it here it's all about what it means to her, clip and anyone else who cares to respond. Get over it.




LaTigresse -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 10:22:29 AM)

Apparently the weekend isn't treating some people as well as others........[:D]



LadyPact -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 10:40:02 AM)

Holy crap!  I found a thing to post that breaks mal of the smileys!  LOL!  Actually, there's a legitimate question in here that I would like to address.

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ORIGINAL: malloves69

geez i wonder how his real wife feels about every time she goes to bed with her husband she now has to see ladys pacts initials carved into her husbands chest now ??? or is she ok with it ? be a rainy day in hell if i ever allowed that to happen to me and if i was married to my spouse ....i could see doing it if you guys were married in real life too ..like i said before whatever floats your boat ...but the guys married to someone else ....geez how wonderfull ...sorry NOT !! big limit for me ..mal ..no smiles here i just find this to be wrong and at least i have the guts to say so


For those who are wondering, clip's wife has always been ok with everything he and I engage in.  The scar that he will have when the cutting heals will be very small.  It won't be any different than his wife seeing him wear his collar or the brand that I did on his back last year.  She has no problem with Me marking him, either temporarily or permanently.  (One of the reasons our little poly situation works out so well.)  All of this was discussed prior to clip's visit and everyone was aware that this particular form of play was on the agenda.

I appreciate all of the comments to the thread.  I knew some would like it and some wouldn't when I posted it.  I'm good with the whole spectrum.



NihilusZero -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 10:48:08 AM)

This morsel of genius:

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geez i wonder how his real wife feels about every time she goes to bed with her husband she now has to see ladys pacts initials carved into her husbands chest now ??? or is she ok with it ? be a rainy day in hell if i ever allowed that to happen to me and if i was married to my spouse ....i could see doing it if you guys were married in real life too ..like i said before whatever floats your boat ...but the guys married to someone else ....geez how wonderfull ...sorry NOT !! big limit for me ..mal ..no smiles here i just find this to be wrong and at least i have the guts to say so


Written by someone with the tagline:

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very open-minded ..not afraid to try new things ..very few limits i have but hey im pretty easy going laid back kind of guy ..love pleasing women ...isnt that what a man is for ? smile


I love me some irony in the morning (hey...it's morning for me).



califsue -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 10:50:01 AM)

To me reading Lady Pact's words about the cutting, was truly amazing. While it is not a type of play that I would personally engage in I was awestruck by her willingness to share such an initimate moment with all of us in an open forum such as this about the event. I agree with Lucylastic when she stated " When you have that connection, there is nothing better. " It is nice to read about other's positive experiences even if it is not something we would willingly participate in as an activity.



DomImus -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 10:54:08 AM)

I had a great weekend. I just do not subscribe to your "post only if you agree" mentality. 



NihilusZero -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 11:02:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DomImus

I had a great weekend. I just do not subscribe to your "post only if you agree" mentality. 

Threads dealing with the sharing of personal experiences are not advice posts or invitations for open debate. This is the reason the "Positive Experiences" forum does not permit criticism. Technically, her thread more likely belongs there than here, but this is where more forum regulars convene.

So, while anyone surely is free to comment negatively on such disclosure of personal, consensual, positive events that aren't coupled with requesting advice, it's still poor etiquette and an expression of myopic tactlessness.



porcelaine -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 1:12:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

So, while anyone surely is free to comment negatively on such disclosure of personal, consensual, positive events that aren't coupled with requesting advice, it's still poor etiquette and an expression of myopic tactlessness.


well stated. [;)]

as for the topic, thank you for sharing. i find blood play and cutting to be super delish!

porcelaine



liks2plzlf -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/7/2009 2:03:40 PM)

Definetely not something I would seek, but after reading LPs post, I might desire to be pushed beyond my hard limits, by her or some of the other dominant women on here. The degree of submission by Clip, is something I would love to experience. Appears they have a very special connection, and the trust. Wow! Damn. that must hurt though.



Juliannadelion -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 12:05:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

quote:

ORIGINAL: DomImus

I had a great weekend. I just do not subscribe to your "post only if you agree" mentality. 

Threads dealing with the sharing of personal experiences are not advice posts or invitations for open debate. This is the reason the "Positive Experiences" forum does not permit criticism. Technically, her thread more likely belongs there than here, but this is where more forum regulars convene.

So, while anyone surely is free to comment negatively on such disclosure of personal, consensual, positive events that aren't coupled with requesting advice, it's still poor etiquette and an expression of myopic tactlessness.


Very well said. Thank you. [:)]



BitaTruble -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 4:18:15 AM)

Lovely visual, Lady Pact.. and just yummy reading. Thank you so much for sharing. :)



malloves69 -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 1:20:24 PM)

if clips wife has any common sense in her body she would divorce him in a heart beat ...sad to see all you people that commented in favor of this says alot on why people being in married relationships is so screwed up today ..if clip was single he can do whatever he wanted to do without offended his real wife ..hey lp if you can carve your initials in his chest how many times have you fucked him ? ? his wife knows about that too right ? yea right ...mal



Lockit -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 1:24:49 PM)

mal that is totally out of line.  Everyone around here knows how LadyPact feels about liars and cheaters and everything with every person in the sitution is on the up and up.  They don't need your moral code insults.  They have all been working these relationships for a lengthy amount of time.  There is no need for you to imply that clip's wife isn't fully aware and healthy of mind.  Opinions are one thing.. insults another.



Asherdelampyr -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 1:27:04 PM)

Thank you mal
thank you for reminding me why There is an ignore button on this site
Bye mal



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 1:30:27 PM)

Yes indeedy!  Seeya, Mal--or rather, HIDING you.



KateyCaine -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 1:30:46 PM)

Deeply moving, a beautiful experience :)

k.



KateyCaine -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 1:35:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

mal that is totally out of line.  Everyone around here knows how LadyPact feels about liars and cheaters and everything with every person in the sitution is on the up and up.  They don't need your moral code insults.  They have all been working these relationships for a lengthy amount of time.  There is no need for you to imply that clip's wife isn't fully aware and healthy of mind.  Opinions are one thing.. insults another.


I agree wholeheartedly, Lockit. People who live in glass houses shouldn't toss bricks.



ShaharThorne -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 1:39:17 PM)

Congrats on showing yourself as a hypocrite to the world, consider yourself ignored and blocked.



beargonewild -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/8/2009 2:02:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: malloves69

geez i wonder how his real wife feels about every time she goes to bed with her husband she now has to see ladys pacts initials carved into her husbands chest now ??? or is she ok with it ? be a rainy day in hell if i ever allowed that to happen to me and if i was married to my spouse ....i could see doing it if you guys were married in real life too ..like i said before whatever floats your boat ...but the guys married to someone else ....geez how wonderfull ...sorry NOT !! big limit for me ..mal ..no smiles here i just find this to be wrong and at least i have the guts to say so


Gee....any other judgmental comments to sling? Fine if monogamy is your hard and fast mantra yet monogamy isn't the end all be all type of relationships and please give a bit more common courtesy to another who is actually practicing poly fidelity. It's also a wiser course to not be on a tirade about another's practices which you don't agree with, one can be tolerant of another's kinks even if it isn't agreeable our own values. I have my own issues over cutting yet if that form of playing is consensually acceptable by people who engage in it, then go for it. Just keep in mind how you are made to feel when someone speaks negatively on your great enjoyment on anal play. You hate being judged on that so maybe you should keep that in mind before judging another thier kinks.



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