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LadyPact -> RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view (6/10/2009 12:18:03 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Focus50
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ORIGINAL: KateyCaine
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ORIGINAL: Focus50
Yikes, I was gonna pass on this topic but the (almost) lack of diversity emanating from the responses demands someone (ie, from my own "top's point of view") orta rain on your parade a bit....
Drawing blood such as cutting or needles etc is a personal hard limit. And even though I won't and haven't done it, I find it very hard to believe there's some surreal aura justifying the assorted "beautiful", "wonderful" and "WOW" replies.
To each their own, of course, and I'm certainly not gonna criticise what consenting adults get up to in private. But (uh-ohhh) since I don't actually see any question to warrant public discussion (which invites a question in its own right) and I have a personal peeve about those bringing their personal relationships onto public boards for little more than exhibitionistic bragging, I figger I'm entitled to vent in protest. lol
While the OP is one top who greatly enjoyed what took place (along with her troupe of admirers here), this top thinks it's just plain gross and nasty - just as playing with bodily waste is! So add my resounding *ICK* to the critic's verdicts. And now you're all free to criticise what I think is acceptable in the privacy of my own (obviously sheltered) life.... lol (again)
Focus.
Focus50, i respect your opinion, and i certainly respect the fact that this is a hard limit for you.
i am running the risk of being roasted alive here, but if you find things like cutting distasteful, don't read posts that cover or illustrate sessions such as this. i'm not being combative or trying to pick a fight - i'm a peace-lover, trust me :)
Everyone has their own individual wiring - what may be a hard limit for me, may give a Dominant/Master/Mistress or sub or slave a deep feeling of completeness and fulfilment, and vice versa. Cutting or any form of edgeplay is a deeply moving and emotional experience for both parties - it challenges a lot of social mores and yes, for some may cross a line. The experience that LadyPact and clip shared came from a good, loving place, not a place of exploitation. No doubt they both overcame some psychological barriers, and the intimacy of the experience is something to happy about - i am happy for both LadyPact and clip. They shared that experience in order to inspire.
Electricity is a hard limit for me, i'll be honest, the very idea scares me a great deal, yet i would never belittle anyone who wanted to post their positive experiences with it.
With sincerity, not wanting to insence anyone,
To state the obvious, this is a public *discussion* board and not a personal support group. I normally pass by topics that don't interest me but, frankly, it wasn't so much the topic I found disturbing here as the ethereal cooing and glad-handing that followed en masse.
I figured this was one discussion lacking diversity and even a bit of objectivity and *sanity* - IMO. As well composed as the OP was, what was really happening (for memory) was one person carving their initials into another's chest. And it seemed like everyone was carrying on like it was a divine revelation. So I posted another Dom's view....
If you know anything about my history here then you'll know I don't mind a fight. But not today; I actually find this thread bemusing and even light-hearted. As I said, it's not really about the topic for me. And I don't roast girls anymore than I carve 'em up.... lol
Focus.
On the discussion part, I'd have to say that we'd have to split that one down the middle. It did become a discussion. In fact, it became several. You'd be correct in saying that I didn't start the topic with a question. However, there have been questions related to the topic.
While I didn't put in the original such things as "who else enjoys cutting" or "who else sees this as a bonding experince" those things came up anyway. If I had, there probably would have been less discussion in the thread, such as this example right here.
Even with the lack of a question, where you do have to split it with Me there, Focus, is that the topic should fit the parameters of the board, being General BDSM Discussion. Though cutting, as a sadistic act may appeal to very few, no one can deny that it falls within the specter of S/m play. Those activities that draw blood may be on the hard limit list for many, but to some, they do have appeal. Some can even see past their own hard limits to recognize that forms of blood play can be fascinating to see or hear about from those who enjoy the practice.
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