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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/8/2009 5:37:19 PM   
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his wife knows about that too right ? yea right ...mal

I think you know, mal, that your comments here were entirely out of line.  If any clandestine activities were going on, they certainly wouldn't be posted on a public message board.  There is not one thing in My almost 7,000 posts that has referred to any sexual activity that I *have* had with clip that his wife is not aware. 

From your own posting history, that glass house that you're living in couldn't withstand any rock you'd try to throw at Me.  If you'd like to compare My poly fidelity situation to your supposed moral high ground of virtuous ways, you know right where to find Me.


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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/8/2009 5:47:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Three posts in one thread that make an utter mockery of this:

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very open-minded ..not afraid to try new things ..very few limits i have but hey im pretty easy going laid back kind of guy ..love pleasing women ...isnt that what a man is for ? smile


I think we all get how you feel about it mal. Your nastiness and attacks are very clear and very uncalled for and very out of line. It is one thing to not be into something someone posts about, but it is entirely another to attack them over it.

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/8/2009 6:52:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: malloves69

if clips wife has any common sense in her body she would divorce him in a heart beat ...sad to see all you people that commented in favor of this says alot on why people being in married relationships is so screwed up today ..if clip was single he can do whatever he wanted to do without offended his real wife ..hey lp if you can carve your initials in his chest how many times have you fucked him ? ? his wife knows about that too right ? yea right ...mal

I fail to see how your feeble comprehension of consent should affect the way anyone else lives their life. What's more insulting is that your idiotic twaddle here presumes you have the right to decide what Clip's wife should be offended by...one must guess because you consider her incapable of making that decision on her own.

It's not even just the infantile words you spew...but the tone you use them with that shows you're a disgrace to the signature line you wear, a disgrace to the good people of this site and a disgrace to sensible minds everywhere.

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/8/2009 7:40:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		mal... you are making so many unfortunate assumptions here that are tresspassing on the happiness of LP and Mr Pact, clip and his wife.

You may feel you are somehow being courageous in expressing your views.
I think your self rightousness is actually quite cowardly.

You are attacking people based on a narrow view that just isn't supported by facts and you are unwilling to look beyond your obvious anger that has tainted your view.







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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/8/2009 9:11:35 PM   
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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 2:48:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Focus50

Yikes, I was gonna pass on this topic but the (almost) lack of diversity emanating from the responses demands someone (ie, from my own "top's point of view") orta rain on your parade a bit....
 
Drawing blood such as cutting or needles etc is a personal hard limit.  And even though I won't and haven't done it, I find it very hard to believe there's some surreal aura justifying the assorted "beautiful", "wonderful" and "WOW" replies.
 
To each their own, of course, and I'm certainly not gonna criticise what consenting adults get up to in private.  But (uh-ohhh) since I don't actually see any question to warrant public discussion (which invites a question in its own right) and I have a personal peeve about those bringing their personal relationships onto public boards for little more than exhibitionistic bragging, I figger I'm entitled to vent in protest.  lol
 
While the OP is one top who greatly enjoyed what took place (along with her troupe of admirers here), this top thinks it's just plain gross and nasty - just as playing with bodily waste is!  So add my resounding *ICK* to the critic's verdicts.  And now you're all free to criticise what I think is acceptable in the privacy of my own (obviously sheltered) life....  lol (again)
 
Focus. 


Focus50, i respect your opinion, and i certainly respect the fact that this is a hard limit for you.

i am running the risk of being roasted alive here, but if you find things like cutting distasteful, don't read posts that cover or illustrate sessions such as this. i'm not being combative or trying to pick a fight - i'm a peace-lover, trust me :)

Everyone has their own individual wiring - what may be a hard limit for me, may give a Dominant/Master/Mistress or sub or slave a deep feeling of completeness  and fulfilment, and vice versa. Cutting or any form of edgeplay is a deeply moving and emotional experience for both parties - it challenges a lot of social mores and yes, for some may cross a line. The experience that LadyPact and clip shared came from a good, loving place, not a place of exploitation. No doubt they both overcame some psychological barriers, and the intimacy of the experience is something to happy about - i am happy for both LadyPact and clip. They shared that experience in order to inspire.

Electricity is a hard limit for me, i'll be honest, the very idea scares me a great deal, yet i would never belittle anyone who wanted to post their positive experiences with it.

With sincerity, not wanting to insence anyone,

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 12:55:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks, Katey, I was thinking much the same thing, but didn't have your eloquence!

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 4:59:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: malloves69

if clips wife has any common sense in her body she would divorce him in a heart beat ...sad to see all you people that commented in favor of this says alot on why people being in married relationships is so screwed up today ..if clip was single he can do whatever he wanted to do without offended his real wife ..hey lp if you can carve your initials in his chest how many times have you fucked him ? ? his wife knows about that too right ? yea right ...mal


Mal, that was a crap comment.  I'm surprised at you.  Of course clip's wife is clear about what was happening.  We all know - and I believe you know - LP better than that.  Jesus.  You say you're open to new experiences - well, I'd say: go the whole way and be open to new emotional experiences, too. 

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 6:41:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Although bloodplay is not my thing, i think it's wonderful that LP and little clip had such a positive, wonderful experience together & that it was good for T/them.  Isn't that what it's all about?  To E/each their own, there is plenty of room in BDSM for individual differences.  Viva la difference.

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 6:43:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		at least i dont fuck around with married people ....to all of lps white knights i dont care what you say either ...you obviously dont value people being married either ..bet clips wife felt wonderfull when she saw lps initials carved in his chest ...looky honey see what i did today with lp ? ..yea right ..my mistress and i are both single ...we can do whatever we want to do because of that fact ...messing around with someone married is wrong as far as im concerned and thats where my bitch is after reading this post ..my glass house is just fine thank you ..mal ..im done with this ..its not worth my time anymore

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 6:47:13 PM   
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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 6:53:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		But damn mal... some might think it wrong to have sex outside of marriage or without commitment of some sort... not a kinky fucky fest once a week.  Not that I do... but someone might.  How would you like it if they came after you... how about how you degrade certain acts with all those maloid comments and kinky talk you toss out at us?

It isn't your business what these people are doing and it isn't our business what you are doing.  You didn't just say how you felt, you insulted people and used your own honor code.. whatever that is, to do so.  You keep arguing the point that you feel it is wrong... well so be it.  Half of your post, I feel are just wrong!  If a submissive of mine talked like that he wouldn't be a submissive of mine.  But have I ever said a word about it until now?  No.  Because it is not my business.  You have a right to live as you want to and so does clip, his wife, LP and her husband.

You assume and project and then throw up all over the place... whether it is your kinky telling of all your mistress does to your fucking ass or when you decide others are wrong to live the way they wish to.

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 7:12:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mal, please.  Ease down.  LP leads a polyamorous life.  It's not the same as what you and I are used to.  I really, really wouldn't assume that anyone is being hurt emotionally here.  I don't know about polyamorous relationships - but I do know that LP and clip are very decent people.  I think you know that too.  I would put some trust in that - trust that no-one's spouse is being trampled on.

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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 8:13:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: malloves69

at least i dont fuck around with married people ....to all of lps white knights i dont care what you say either ...you obviously dont value people being married either ..bet clips wife felt wonderfull when she saw lps initials carved in his chest ...looky honey see what i did today with lp ? ..yea right ..my mistress and i are both single ...we can do whatever we want to do because of that fact ...messing around with someone married is wrong as far as im concerned and thats where my bitch is after reading this post ..my glass house is just fine thank you ..mal ..im done with this ..its not worth my time anymore

You wouldn't happened to have been a "victim" of marital infidelity in your past and are so desperately wounded by it that you cannot restrain yourself from projecting it on the motives of someone else, would you?

I'm going to go one further. Maybe you're just a sex-play bottom and that will absolve you of any public responsibility...but if there's any degree to which that "sub" title you apply to yourself actually holds, you have been a disgrace to your Mistress here.

Because, you see...either (hypothetically) she's the type of person who would echo your sentiments here, in which case you've made publicly aware an unattractive personal bias of hers because you felt compelled to blather on about it (= dishonor).

Or the lovely lady has no idea that you are prone to speak the filth you have here and you disgrace her by casting her negatively as the Mistress of a tantrum-throwing,  publicly insulting, disrespectful malcontent (= dishonor).

Or, back to the beginning again...maybe you're just a role player. One who doesn't actually invest deep, intimate connection and seeks just a Domme that can fill your orifices (I didn't see anything in your profile about emotional commitment)...in which case...who the [expletive deleted] do you think you are to stand on any high ground to chastise the genuine emotional commitment of someone else?

Look on the bright side, though: if the third option is accurate, it avoids making your Mistress look bad.


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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 9:15:18 PM   
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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 11:40:55 PM   
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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 11:55:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lady P... absolutely breathtaking.. thank you so much for sharing that! 

*love and regards to you and MrP, clip and Mrs Clip*

And add me to the list of those who find mal SERIOUSLY outta line with his shit flinging... 


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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/9/2009 11:56:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

quote:

ORIGINAL: malloves69

at least i dont fuck around with married people ....to all of lps white knights i dont care what you say either ...you obviously dont value people being married either ..bet clips wife felt wonderfull when she saw lps initials carved in his chest ...looky honey see what i did today with lp ? ..yea right ..my mistress and i are both single ...we can do whatever we want to do because of that fact ...messing around with someone married is wrong as far as im concerned and thats where my bitch is after reading this post ..my glass house is just fine thank you ..mal ..im done with this ..its not worth my time anymore

You wouldn't happened to have been a "victim" of marital infidelity in your past and are so desperately wounded by it that you cannot restrain yourself from projecting it on the motives of someone else, would you?

I'm going to go one further. Maybe you're just a sex-play bottom and that will absolve you of any public responsibility...but if there's any degree to which that "sub" title you apply to yourself actually holds, you have been a disgrace to your Mistress here.

Because, you see...either (hypothetically) she's the type of person who would echo your sentiments here, in which case you've made publicly aware an unattractive personal bias of hers because you felt compelled to blather on about it (= dishonor).

Or the lovely lady has no idea that you are prone to speak the filth you have here and you disgrace her by casting her negatively as the Mistress of a tantrum-throwing,  publicly insulting, disrespectful malcontent (= dishonor).

Or, back to the beginning again...maybe you're just a role player. One who doesn't actually invest deep, intimate connection and seeks just a Domme that can fill your orifices (I didn't see anything in your profile about emotional commitment)...in which case...who the [expletive deleted] do you think you are to stand on any high ground to chastise the genuine emotional commitment of someone else?

Look on the bright side, though: if the third option is accurate, it avoids making your Mistress look bad.




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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/10/2009 3:22:42 AM   
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at least i dont fuck around with married people ....

I guess My question in reply to this would be how do you know?

Unless I'm remembering incorrectly, I seem to recall you posting on some particular experiences concerning you being used sexually by other males when they were brought in for the enjoyment of the professional that you visit.  You had never met them prior or knew anything about them and still don't know them other than their genitalia.  Do you really want to hold the position that you are such an important client of her services that the males in question couldn't possibly be married?  Or, is it more that, because it was only a business transaction, where you paid to be used that it doesn't matter?  Perhaps you'd prefer ignorance is bliss?

I do wonder if you will come back and answer NZ's question.  Have you been burned by a cheating spouse and that's why you can't wrap your head around the idea of poly?  Were you hurt by someone who kept secrets and lies and that's why you can't understand that there might be people who do these things openly and honestly?

Of course, there is My other thought.  Perhaps you're just jealous because clip doesn't have to pay for it.  I hope, for your sake, it isn't something quite that petty.


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RE: A cutting, from a top's point of view - 6/10/2009 3:27:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf

Wondering if Clip gets a hard time from his fellow soldiers, about the scar, LP, or the brand?


they may just be jealous that he has someone who he is so close too
Though I figure some good-natured shit is bound to be flung :P

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