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RE: Height - 6/9/2009 4:14:20 AM   
flowerchicknz


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ORIGINAL: Lockit
I like men of all sizes... but extra large men are very attracted to me and me to them... I love the way they move when not a bull in a china shop! 


I'm such a size queen too, both boys or girls. There's more to top, and once I got a good hold, I can make them any height I like. Being smaller messes with their mind more.

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 7:02:07 AM   
magyarman


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ORIGINAL: dove967

Well, seeing as I'm only 4'8" finding a partner taller than me has never been much of an issue......lol

It sure does make role play and spanking kinky as hell, though!
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dove967


That is incredibly sexy :)

For me, as a guy who's 5'10", size is both a physical attraction and part of the mentality. I am deeply aroused by small women, the smaller the better. I find smallness to be very feminine, and sexy, and so a smaller woman is just that much more desirable. There's also something of a rush when the woman is easier to manhandle, or scoop up, or wrap your arms around. It's not necessary to feel confident, or in-control, or strong, but it's nice.

I am shocked that the CollarMe search has a weight function, but not a height function.

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 7:07:05 AM   
magyarman


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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

i prefer my men taller. it has always been this way and i've dated them above and under six feet. i prefer them over that mark and that is generally what i'm attracted to. i like the variance, looking up into his eyes, and feeling physically like his little girl. this isn't to say that shorter men can't bring about the Daddy like vibes, but i probably wouldn't equate that to him at first glance.

porcelaine

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porcelaine


That's also a big part of it for me, as well.

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 7:41:20 AM   
Drakontos


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Status: offline 		zaphira LIKES men that are taller; it is a preference, but not a must have. In regards to her service; zaphira does not care how tall or how short an owner is. Height does not determine whether or not she will be of service to him.
So, for zaphira, the answer would be no; height does not determine, in her mind, the dominance of an owner.

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 8:27:55 AM   
variation30


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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper

TL;DR: Is being tall a dominant trait?


dominant traits deal with personality, not appearance.

however, height might be a hard limit for most submissives, just like weight is for many dominants.

< Message edited by variation30 -- 6/26/2009 8:29:17 AM >

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 9:45:56 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Is being tall a dominant trait?


no...more like a lame stereotype.

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 8:14:40 PM   
brandi1379


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Status: offline 		Personally i like my guy taller cause it makes me feel safe. I wont turn down a guy cause of his height tho  

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 8:26:05 PM   
chiaThePet


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Just sayin.

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 9:01:20 PM   
Belittled


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Status: offline 		I think it's a social bullshit case, where women are used to the man being the strong, tall, protective, burly type. I'm one of the ones who would prefer someone taller than me, but with less importance being placed on height. I honestly would rather have a shorter female though. Weird.

Although I love the irony in dominating someone who is taller and obviously very capable of tossing you across a room if he choses to do so, but instead they're getting their ass kicked by someone smaller. :)


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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 9:30:33 PM   
EmelineRose


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Status: offline 		If you asked me to describe my "perfect man" I'd say he was tall, broad shouldered and strong.  I think such a man has some natural advantage too when it comes to "exuding dominance" because of his physical stature.

However, and it's a big however, two of the dominant men I have admired the most have been 5 feet 6 and 5 feet 7.  They were very confident, extremely intelligent, compassionate, insightful and had any other number of extremely positive character traits.  They certainly managed to push all my "submissive buttons" just by being who they were - their height seemed to be completely irrelevant.

So - I admit I personally like a tall man - but I think in the end chemistry and substance rules and she tends to often laugh at the more superficial details of height, age, social status et al.


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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 9:58:29 PM   
FetishRose


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Status: offline 		I'm 5'6", and I DO have a preference for my partners being taller.  I like my men over 6' (6'6" is heaven, and 7' will make me drool).  I prefer my women over 5'9".  Realistically, however, personality is so much more important.  My current feminine interest is only 5'2" and my male interest is a tiny 5'9".  I make fun of myself for my height obsession and yet I am drawn to these two more than any others at the moment.

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RE: Height - 6/26/2009 10:03:47 PM   
jeninvegas


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Status: offline 		I think I've done a post similiar to this one before but here is my opinions again anyway, haha.

Because I am pretty short, going by the "average" in American society, it is pretty uncommon for me to find men shorter than 5'.  But to give my opinions to the OP, yes, height plays an important role in dominance for me. 

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RE: Height - 6/27/2009 4:20:32 AM   
NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper

It's not something that bothers me, I'm aware of my strengths and "getting stuff down" is not one. In hindsight, though, my sex life would have gone a lot more smoothly had I been 6'4'' instead of 5'4''.



Speaking from experience I have rarely found it a problem though I have been told to my face: "sorry mate too short" by a woman 2 inches taller than me at 5'9. But then you have options: 1) "why don't we have a chat anyway see how it goes and you may change your mind - nothing to lose" 2) "any chance I can put you in a vice and squash you a bit so you come down to 5'7?" 3) "Oh well I'm only speaking to you because I prefer your mate and you know how it is with us blokes - we never go straight for the one we're really after". I went for option 1......and at the end of conversation....."sorry mate - you haven't grown 5 inches in the last half an hour".

From what I know of women I'd say 3 things over-ride height.

One: confidence.

Two: grooming. Walking to work in a nice suit and expensive aftershave will guarantee you looks from women - regardless of height.

Three: wanting to experience life and doing it with a smile on your face while brushing off the knocks. 

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RE: Height - 6/27/2009 4:36:19 AM   
MistressRouge


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Status: offline 		My Fiance Switch is 6 foot 6, and I am 5 foot 9.

I have dated guys shorter in the past, I rather see the person not the inches

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RE: Height - 6/27/2009 9:06:17 AM   
wysiwygitsme


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Status: offline 		Truly doesn't matter.

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RE: Height - 6/27/2009 9:08:26 AM   
HumiliatePorky


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Status: offline 		While I am 5'5, I prefer guys that are tall, but that doesn't make it mandatory. I am quite openminded

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RE: Height - 6/27/2009 11:41:56 PM   
unopuppy


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Status: offline 		It doesn't matter to me as a 6 foot female thats 6 foot 4 in heels why narrow the field that much? I am completely comfortable with my height and with being taller than someone. After all my dom is 5 foot 3.

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RE: Height - 6/28/2009 4:35:01 AM   
pompeii


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Status: offline 		I had asked the same question ... with over 200 responses ... with the same results you're getting.
... Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) ...

No matter how many times you ask, women, overwhelmingly, will still prefer men who are taller than they are.

Just as men will still prefer woman who have womanly assets (which, by definition, are different than what men have).

It's what makes us men and women. Even here.

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RE: Height - 6/28/2009 4:52:22 AM   
MsFlutter


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

Walking to work in a nice suit and expensive aftershave will guarantee you looks from women - regardless of height.


NG - you speak truth. More than once, my head has snapped around when I've detected a nice male fragrance on the wind.
 
And more than once, I've said to the wearer 'excuse me - had to say you've just made my day because you smell yummy!"

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RE: Height - 6/28/2009 4:58:03 AM   
MRandme


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Status: offline 		Yes, i like a man who overpowers me with His physical presence... that does not mean just height but build and demeanor too. He doesn't HAVE to be tall if His presence is strong enough.

After all, when i am on my knees, pretty much all of them are taller than me!

peace

g
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