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He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 5:36:27 PM   
capacity


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Status: offline 		He Said .......when he asked me I minded if  a woman "friend" could rent a room from him.  I decided to trust in Love and Respect and said i didnt mind, it would be a positive for our situation. 
He Said.. "there's nothing there, she's stayed here before"
He Said... "there's no chance of her and i having a relationship because She has HEP B and I (HE) have HEP C and neither one of us want the other HEP.   
A week after she moved in,,,
HE SAID.. "things are different now"

and i got dumped, a broken heart, and no answers............  thanks.
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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 5:42:52 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry to hear that you've gone through such a difficult thing.  I hope that you find yourself in circumstances that are better than every in the near future.  When one door closes another one opens....

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 5:49:59 PM   
PyrotheClown


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Status: offline 		Wow, that's fucked up, if it's any consolation(Altho I'm sure your torn up emotionally right now)..
at least your not with an asshole any more.

I mean wow, I don't know a thing about you, but that is fucked up what he did, and you did not deserve that in any way.



Just get smashed with some friends and talk the most crap about him you can, you'll feel alot better afterwards 8D

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 6:02:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you. Yes it was like getting hit with a Mack Truck. Ill just keep breathing and try to move forward. Thank you so much for the comment.  And I'd like a mocha vodka valium latte please!!

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 6:04:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		thank you for the wisdom.  I just keep breathing. And that new door that's gonna open, i pray its on a bigger more expensive house in a better neighborhood.   heh!

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 6:10:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: capacity

  And I'd like a mocha vodka valium latte please!!


I hear that to the tune of Lady Marmalade.

Wishing you well +

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 6:25:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		He doesn't realize what a marvelous womam you are.
 
He doesn't realize what faith and trust are all about.
 
He doesn't realize life and love extends beyond 5 inches.
 
He doesn't realize that phucktards always, always get their punishment.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 6:28:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		CatdeMedici,, phucktard!!! what an awesome word!! i love it and will use it!  And i like the way you think, thanks!

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 8:08:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is a bad thing right now, but eventually you will say that this was the best thing that happened to you. 
Then hopefully some bad thing will happen to him.  It usually does.
 
Best Wishes,
 
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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 8:14:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: capacity

He Said .......when he asked me I minded if  a woman "friend" could rent a room from him.  I decided to trust in Love and Respect and said i didnt mind, it would be a positive for our situation. 
He Said.. "there's nothing there, she's stayed here before"
He Said... "there's no chance of her and i having a relationship because She has HEP B and I (HE) have HEP C and neither one of us want the other HEP.   
A week after she moved in,,,
HE SAID.. "things are different now"

and i got dumped, a broken heart, and no answers............  thanks.

i'm so sorry he had the audacity to even ask you to go along with an arrangement like that..... i hope You feel better soon....


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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 8:28:28 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		I have had similar stuff... I moved on and guess what? I found someone 100xs more compatible and better for me... I KNOW YOU WILL TOO!!!! Keep the faith... You'll be ok baby...

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 9:03:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ouch. I'm sorry you're hurting. If he cares that little about being truthful and loving with you, then clearly you are better off with out him. From the sounds of it, even if he did gie you answers, they'd be mostly BS anyway.

No one else has mentioned this, so I'm gonna go ahead and throw it out there (unpleasant as it is).. If she is hep B+ you might wanna get tested (unless you've had the set of 3 vaccines.) Who knows what sort of relationship they had and when it started. I'm sorry you have to worry about that issue, but you have to take care of yourself...


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ORIGINAL: capacity

He Said .......when he asked me I minded if  a woman "friend" could rent a room from him.  I decided to trust in Love and Respect and said i didnt mind, it would be a positive for our situation. 
He Said.. "there's nothing there, she's stayed here before"
He Said... "there's no chance of her and i having a relationship because She has HEP B and I (HE) have HEP C and neither one of us want the other HEP.   
A week after she moved in,,,
HE SAID.. "things are different now"

and i got dumped, a broken heart, and no answers............  thanks.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/10/2009 9:11:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		BEcause you're a woman,
you'll pick yourself up and start again
stronger and wiser.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/11/2009 7:39:47 AM   
oceanwinds


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Status: offline 		Gentle hugs to you first. One thing to keep in mind as you are moving forward in your life, this too shall pass. You will discover just how strong a person you are and what a wonderful gift he gave you, letting you go. Maybe not now, but down the road you will.

Just keep walking forward, even if it is one hour at a time. Remember to hug yourself frequently and give yourself a lot of pep talks.

Blessings
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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/11/2009 8:51:42 AM   
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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/11/2009 10:41:45 AM   
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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/11/2009 10:43:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry you are having a tough go of it. Leave them both to it, they sound like they were meant for each other.

And when you get the bigger door in a nicer neighborhood, invite them for cocktails and laugh.

happiness
velvet

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/11/2009 3:15:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow..ain't that a kick in the head. I'm sorry you are going through this.

quote:

He doesn't realize that phucktards always, always get their punishment.

I hope you are right about this. I really do.

MoGa

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/11/2009 3:29:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am really sorry to hear that. You deserve a lot better than that.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/12/2009 6:05:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		 Everyone,thank you so much for you words of wisdom and caring support.  I spent four days totally numb and in shock then two days crying.   Ive evened out now, and moving forward.    I had a few "lattes" ...lol  and have decided to feel grateful it happened now instead of over a year's worth of emotional investment.   I remind myself that Im an extradinary woman of heart with quite the spankable ass..   and that a phucktard always gets their punishment!     THANKS AGAIN!!!  HUGS ALL AROUND!

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