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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/12/2009 6:48:34 AM

antipode

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She has HEP B and I (HE) have HEP C and neither one of us want the other HEP.

I hope they get very HEPpy. And you go get tested (which is a good idea to do, periodically - I get the HEP shots because I spend time in fuzzy countries, but anybody who has multiple partners, especially if they were ever promiscuous, should. at the very minimum have their antobodies checked.)

Good luck. Consider yourself lucky.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/12/2009 7:11:35 AM

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I am so very sorry you have been hurt. Let me point out that you DO have answers for what happened. You now know the man you trusted was never worthy of your trust. Even though this hurts you so bad now you have learned a great lesson that will serve you in the future. However, Ms Hep B has not learned a thing form this expierence and Mr Hep C will most likely move on when someone else catches his fancy.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/12/2009 9:17:59 AM

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one word sums up his fate

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/12/2009 8:50:28 PM

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good for you..sounds like your starting the first steps to enjoy life [and yourself] again...Huntertn

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/13/2009 1:57:44 AM

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Fuzzy meepy hugs from me :) I am sorry that you had to go through that -giving your heart to someone who doesn't necessarily appreciate it, can be harrowing and can make you doubt yourself. Just remember, you are worth more than that rubbishy treatment, and this experience will hopefully show you how strong you can be; and what you will and will not tolerate in the future.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/13/2009 11:15:46 PM

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Just remember we are only given what we can handle. You will handle this and move onto a better place. If it happened now it would have happened somewhere in the future. On the upside-at least he was honest with you and told you that things had changed. You did not have to find out horribly by mistake one night.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/14/2009 2:54:44 PM

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You've heard the expression "What goes around comes around" ?
I know it doesn't make you feel better now, and my heart goes out to you, but...he'll get his someday.

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/15/2009 6:23:15 AM

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been there for sure all i can say there are a lot better out there this I know. Right now the t hing that works best is keep busy
it is similar to death almost your stages will be the same and when you do find some one you will be a little jaded so you have to take slow with a new partner which is good there are a lot of bad doms and subs out there just as good ones. when you have just went through this is when preditors start comming around. do a cleansing ( I will try to love again but i know the first cut is the deepest baby i know but when it comes to loving me he s worst) love that song oh a nd listen to loud rock music

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/19/2009 4:21:57 PM

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thank you kitastophe33, i got tested this week for HEP B & C,, thank god they were both NEGATIVE!!!

now all i have to deal with her HER coming into the chat room with HIS collar in her nick...................

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/19/2009 5:27:44 PM

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He Said .......when he asked me I minded if a woman "friend" could rent a room from him. I decided to trust in Love and Respect and said i didnt mind, it would be a positive for our situation.
He Said.. "there's nothing there, she's stayed here before"
He Said... "there's no chance of her and i having a relationship because She has HEP B and I (HE) have HEP C and neither one of us want the other HEP.
A week after she moved in,,,
HE SAID.. "things are different now"

and i got dumped, a broken heart, and no answers............ thanks.

(I sense a connundrum here).

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RE: He Said . . . . - 6/19/2009 5:29:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

He doesn't realize what a marvelous womam you are.

He doesn't realize what faith and trust are all about.

He doesn't realize life and love extends beyond 5 inches.

He doesn't realize that phucktards always, always get their punishment.