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Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 2:44:42 AM   
Goddess2002


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Just wondering really how prevalent full toilet slavery is among those engaging in BDSM? I notice almost every thread about it ultimately carries a few jokes...what I gather is that it's generally viewed as an embarrassement and not many people, even if they were into it on some level, wouldn't admit it. Is TS really as unpopular as I'm thinking?
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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 3:11:29 AM   
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Hmmm, well it squicks me out, but then that's just me..... *smiles*  However i do know one guy who comes to the munch i run every now and again who loves it. 

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 6:04:14 AM   
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It's what I give the nickname of a "niche fetish" - people seem to really be into it or they really are not.  Others I lump into that same category are crossdressing or knife play.  They are common enough that most people know of them yet it seems that a minority of people practice them and they are hard limits for many.  (Please understand, "niche fetish" is my own definition and I don't expect others to accept it.)

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 10:46:31 AM   
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Goddess2002 i often fantasise and dream about it but have never actually done it totally. i did have a total of 5 women in my life (58 years old now) actually did pee some into my mouth and one even made me drink her mother's pee out of a bottle but never had any Mistress enptying her entire load in my mouth. i also have licked and sucked the same women's brown hole but the closest i have ever come to actually having them sit on my mouth and using me that way was with one Mistress many years ago when she ordered me to lick her clean after she had been to the toilet. It excites me a lot and often i stroke myself reading stories where men are used as human toilet but i have never really done it.

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 1:00:41 PM   
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It is something i could never do in any way shape or form. It happens to be one of my hard limits. From reading the fpurms it is clear that some people really love it, and look forward to doing it every day. I guess it is a case of "your kink is not my kink"

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 1:20:50 PM   
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Any topic known to man is something, someone can make a joke about.  Some things are just more fun and provide a bit more material for the comedian type.  There are people into this and people very not into it, its the luck of the draw around here on who responds and with what response they have.  I haven't really found that those that are into it, afraid to stand up and say so! lol  That's why we have at about two threads a week on it! lol

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 1:21:56 PM   
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It is far more common than people realize because it is a "shamefull" kink.  It is one of those things like dominants submitting in private, it isn't polite conversation.

I will say that it is a kink that I was surprised to find among my own and it is one I look forward to exploring more in public.  Sadly, none of my past serious partners were into it so it isn't something that I have really been able to explore.  Some if it I am sure is hot fantasy but the reality of a few parts of it may be too much for me to actually go there.

I am actually looking forward to teaching at E Fest West, an enema and medical play convention that will I am sure have some stuff alongside this.  It is far more common and open amoung gay men and women than among hets.  I must say thought, BoyMeat, a well known presenter who owns one of my rose canes, LOVES this stuff and I got to see an amazing class he did on piss play in San Francisco.

Okay, I am out of THAT closet...anyone else?

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 1:23:57 PM   
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I think another reason it is such a private kink is that the meaning is SO personal, seeing someone you love accepting something SO rejected is awe inspiring between the two participants but watching it is rather ugly and disgusting because the emotional meaning isn't clear to outsiders.

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 2:59:59 PM   
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Many more BDSM folks are into it than say openly on their profile, I've found. In fact I've often found even very openly kinky people usually keep one or two kinks private, especially "gross" ones like this.

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I think another reason it is such a private kink is that the meaning is SO personal, seeing someone you love accepting something SO rejected is awe inspiring between the two participants but watching it is rather ugly and disgusting because the emotional meaning isn't clear to outsiders.


Very true.

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 3:32:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Okay, I am out of THAT closet...anyone else?


So, how was life in Narnia?

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 3:45:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Okay, I am out of THAT closet...anyone else?


So, how was life in Narnia?


Well it certainly FELT like a fairytale!

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 4:46:25 PM   
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I haven't heard a lot of it in RL.  There's too many people whose squick factor is so loud that others feel uncomfortable voicing their interest, I guess.  I don't know if I could physically do it, but I'd give it a try for the right person.  That would be one hell of a person though.

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 7:43:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

Many more BDSM folks are into it than say openly on their profile, I've found. In fact I've often found even very openly kinky people usually keep one or two kinks private, especially "gross" ones like this.

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I think another reason it is such a private kink is that the meaning is SO personal, seeing someone you love accepting something SO rejected is awe inspiring between the two participants but watching it is rather ugly and disgusting because the emotional meaning isn't clear to outsiders.


Very true.


Yeah that would be ditto for Daddy and i. To Us it is the MOST intimate thing in the world.


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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/11/2009 9:12:54 PM   
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I am huge toilet slavery fan. I have done golden showers several times and tried brown shower a couple of times. what i have found is there's more slaves interested in full toilet training than mistresses who enjoy that. another problem is the high cost that mistresses who provide the service charge. I am still looking for a real life relationship with a girl who would enjoy using me as her toilet :)

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/12/2009 3:06:09 AM   
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quote:

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I think another reason it is such a private kink is that the meaning is SO personal, seeing someone you love accepting something SO rejected is awe inspiring between the two participants but watching it is rather ugly and disgusting because the emotional meaning isn't clear to outsiders.


YES...this is so true...I admit I have a squeamishness factor with the reality of it...but the emotional intimacy of giving/receiving something that could be considered the foulest physical element of a human being blows my mind.

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/15/2009 4:17:41 PM   
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Speaking from the Dom's perspective, I suspect that for most its the willingness of the sub/slave to move past the squick to accept what her/his D/M requires that has value but I suspect it is more complex. (Yes I assume some D/M's are pure sadist but I doubt that's a significant minority). Some subs just want to prove somethign to their D/M but perhaps some truly need to be put into that situation, need to be degraded/humiliated/abused. I'd really love to hear some subs/slaves reactions.

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/15/2009 10:14:27 PM   
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quote:

I'd really love to hear some subs/slaves reactions.

Okies, sub reaction here. *Ewwww, squick, hard limit. *
Golden showers are not my thing, but doable. Drinking piss or anything involving scat? Ummm... not for me, thanks.
For those into such things, rock on. It's simply not one of my own kinks and not somewhere I'm willing to go.
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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/15/2009 10:40:37 PM   
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quote:

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I think another reason it is such a private kink is that the meaning is SO personal, seeing someone you love accepting something SO rejected is awe inspiring between the two participants but watching it is rather ugly and disgusting because the emotional meaning isn't clear to outsiders.


i agree completely, that it is a very peronal thing between the two people involved. i have never done that, however i think it is totally up to the participants. i am not willing to say that i would never go that far. A lot of outsiders, as you say, would find it distasteful, if they do not fully understand the meaning or expression of feeling behind the act.  i do think about that from time to time, though, i must admit :) 

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/16/2009 2:36:16 AM   
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Is giving or receiving an enema considered scat-play?
It is an embarrassing type of thing to do and there is definitely poo and smells to contend with...but as far as i know a lot of people are taking enemas for health reasons and personal hygene as much as pleasure...I even saw it done on a mainstream t.v. program about dieting.
Also a lot of people are into golden showers as far as i know...and i also saw a bloke drink his own piss on a normal t.v. program about looking better; drinking his own urine would improve his complexion apparently...the lady who taught him had been drinking her own piddle for years so she said.

I personally am not to keen on the idea of having to ingest the matter but i have no problem doing other depraved stuff with it.
(edited to add: Actually i do have problems doing other depraved stuff with it, but that is exactly why it is such an embarrassingly dirty turn on)

Has anybody here ever heard of a game called freckles?

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RE: Yet another toilet question - 6/16/2009 7:16:14 AM   
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It does seem to be generally unpopular but, within the people involved in TS, it can also be very popular....

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ORIGINAL: Goddess2002

Just wondering really how prevalent full toilet slavery is among those engaging in BDSM? I notice almost every thread about it ultimately carries a few jokes...what I gather is that it's generally viewed as an embarrassement and not many people, even if they were into it on some level, wouldn't admit it. Is TS really as unpopular as I'm thinking?


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