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unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 6:32:24 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		there is no really one great way to avoide them. They can cause chaos ruin you money wise cause all kinds of stress and health problems  Now lest clarify what i mean by unhealthy people. I am talking about people that cause emotional or physical damage. 

  Example a

I learn about bdsm from a web site i have read and know how to dom very well

Example b

I have been with 300 bdsm people and can server very well know all the protocals 

Example c

Serve me now you slut  

granted there are a lot more  for example doms that start to cut you off from family or friends  or sub and doms that compulsively lie a lot     really look at someones past  jobs family friends  be fore you venture down the road of collar me now  can save you a lot of hurt and worry later

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 6:43:36 AM   
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I tend to just walk away and ignore toxic people. I simply don't allow them in my life...just walk away.

There's only one toxic person in my life who I can't just walk away from and in that situation I just do my best to avoid her as much as possible and I take a lot of looong walks, trips away, biting of my tongue and deep breaths of counting to 10.

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 6:48:51 AM   
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Normally I don't respond in a serious tone, but here I think there is.......ACHOO.......

Never mind.

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 7:33:58 AM   
SmokingGun82


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Status: offline 		As usual, I can't tell if you're trying to say something incredibly obvious or give coded directions to a spaceship only you talk to.

But yes, unhealthy people are unhealthy.


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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 7:36:30 AM   
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doms that start to cut you off from family or friends
of all the examples you gave, this is the one with the biggest red flag, imho. One who attempts to isolate is generally an abuser

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 7:57:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		There are a lot of unhealthy people in all walks of life. The only sure fire way to avoid them all is to become a hermit and live in complete isolation.

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 9:17:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

there is no really one great way to avoide them. They can cause chaos ruin you money wise cause all kinds of stress and health problems  Now lest clarify what i mean by unhealthy people. I am talking about people that cause emotional or physical damage. 

Example a

I learn about bdsm from a web site i have read and know how to dom very well

Example b

I have been with 300 bdsm people and can server very well know all the protocals 

Example c

Serve me now you slut  

granted there are a lot more  for example doms that start to cut you off from family or friends  or sub and doms that compulsively lie a lot     really look at someones past  jobs family friends  be fore you venture down the road of collar me now  can save you a lot of hurt and worry later

this was a short from 
latexbaby


Red flag..Red flag for the text marked in Red... I'll need you to send me the applicable codex to translate what the rest is about and some clue if you are doing Klingon in some abbreviated form of English or do I need Spock to help?


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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 9:22:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Life is full of unhealthy people. Probably more unhealthy then healthy. People who point fingers at others instead of looking at their own mistakes and what they have learned is a very strong statement of an unhealthy person.

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 9:31:54 AM   
Kalista07


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Status: offline 		i learned a very tough lesson a very long time ago.... You don't attract what You want, You attract what You are.....Therefore if You are a sick ass person...guess what... You are going to attract sick ass people...If You are healthy...You are going to attract healthy people.
Just my experience,
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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 9:45:09 AM   
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As someone once commented: "If you don't get what you want, be thankful you don't get what you deserve!"

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 10:39:47 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

FR

As someone once commented: "If you don't get what you want, be thankful you don't get what you deserve!"
thats a keeper!


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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 11:03:21 AM   
Kalista07


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

FR

As someone once commented: "If you don't get what you want, be thankful you don't get what you deserve!"

oooh Yes Sir..You are sooo right about that. i have a friend who's famous words to me were, "deserves got nothing to do with it." Indeed He was right. i have remained forever grateful that i don't get exactly what i 'deserve'.

Kali


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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 11:37:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Latex...I seriously think you need professional help

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 11:41:59 AM   
Kalista07


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I seriously adore You...This is the second day in a row when Your posts made me laugh and realize You have such a style that You can tell anyone anything without it coming out offensively..
Kali


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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 12:17:20 PM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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I think LATEX is saying HOW DO YOU WEED OUT UNHEALTHY PPL?"
or telling how he did and inviting similar posts??

but I dont know unless he clarifys..then I can answer..
HELLO are you there..?/

GQ

< Message edited by GYPZYQUEEN -- 6/13/2009 12:19:23 PM >

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 1:13:40 PM   
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Not you, GQ...

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 4:46:29 PM   
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quote:

save you a lot of hurt and worry later


I wantsit now! Now! Now!

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 5:10:00 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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( why don t they do what they say say what they mean you know one thing leads to another  )   I just think some people have selective reading glassasses on yep  but you know who cares   its just people opionions  yep  take that and twitter it

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 8:33:40 PM   
BarnacleBill


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Status: offline 		Twitter? is that a new torture device? put the unhealthy away from you as there is a lot of healthy people to have fun with okay.
Dont let them stress you or bother you, its so not worth your troubles!

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RE: unhealthy people - 6/13/2009 9:10:10 PM   
Micromanager


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Status: offline 		'Never get involved with someone who has more problems than you do'.
One of the precepts I live by. Along with 'Never eat anything bigger than your head', it has served me well over the years.

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