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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/14/2009 8:06:43 AM

sblady

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

I let him in....what more does he want?

Love it!!

To the OP:
My Sir and I don't live together, so I don't see Him on a daily basis. I greet Him with a big ole hug and plenty of kisses. I know how He'd like me to dress, which will vary if we're going out right away or staying in. I always ask if He'd like an adult beverage or coffee while I'm taking His jacket, or whatever (depending on the time of the year).

If your Dom doesn't come right out and say "I want you to do thus and so", you probably have no reason to worry.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/14/2009 9:11:23 AM

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Here is an issue where my weaknesses as a slave really come to light. My lady has never given me any rules/protocols on this, so I am deliberately lazy and casual about greetings. If she wants me to do/wear/say something, she can tell me.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/14/2009 10:15:23 AM

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Hello BlackRoseDeath:

I don't think there is a "best way", there is only what will work for each individual. You might look up the book "Languages of Love".

For myself, what I prize more than anything is sincerity. So what thrills me with Carol is any sincere gesture which says, somehow, "I love you" and/or "I belong to you". Both together in the same gesture is perfect. That might be as simple and direct as a hug or it might be something elaborate. But it wouldn't be the amount of production that went into it so much as the sincerity with which it was delivered.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/14/2009 2:16:25 PM

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My ex- wasn't my Master but he was my husband and I tended to greet him at the door with a smile, a hug, and a kiss. Oft times, I had a beverage for him as well and dinner in the works and hopefully the house in some reasonable sort of order.
Davan

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/14/2009 2:21:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: agirl
I'm usually distracted, hear him open the door and dash to the kitchen to finish his coffee with semi-disguised panic...lol

LOLOLOL... god, you're as bad a sub as I am a dom.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/14/2009 3:27:29 PM

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Do i lose my 'real slave tm' award if i say woo-hoo!! to agirl and sirsholly? Cause damn, i'd swear you were both in the house with me this morning. 3 kids to dress and feed while making His breakfast as well? Yeah, i've served Him the 3 year olds cereal before...

At least i can remember to unlock the door before He gets home.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/14/2009 11:23:02 PM

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This is one thread where I'm actually going to argue with the mentality that there are no worthwhile suggestions aside from her ascertaining them from her D-type. I'd personally like to think that my role as a D-type will not come at the expense of being able to be pleasantly surprised by my sub/slave because of the notion that every possible positive event must be run through me beforehand.

It's one thing to have a good understanding of what your D-type would not appreciate and using that as a means by which to eliminate definite no-nos, but otherwise it's just a thread asking for nifty ideas. The entire point is to invite ideas we might not have thought of ourselves. The sub's knowledge of her D-type will do the work of deciding which ones flicker a brighter 'light-bulb effect' than others.

So...with that said, I'd suggest finding some of the things he enjoys winding down the most with (even, as someone suggested, that may be you in saran wrap) and have them in hand and readily avaiable for him the moment he opens the door.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/15/2009 4:12:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: BlackRoseDeath

Hello my name is BlackRoseDeath
My Question is today
"What is the best way to greet your dom or domme at the door?"
What I am trying to ask:
How do you greet him or her? What do you wear? What are you first words to him or her?
Do you wear only your collar when you see them? And Etc...
I know it is a stupid question...but I would love some new idea on how to greet my lord

i would greet Him in whichever manner He had told me to. i would also ask Him daily how He would like me to greet him, what He wants me to wear, which position to assume, and anything else He may wish. When i greet Him, i would ask how He would like me to serve Him.

k.

< Message edited by KateyCaine -- 6/15/2009 4:14:09 AM >

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/15/2009 9:49:11 AM

maia09

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackRoseDeath

He never told me anything
That is why I asked what another subs/slave do
My Master didn't tell me alot thing to please him really
I feel as I'm not doing a good job in serving him...

Well it's certainly understandable that you'd feel like you're not doing a good job. How on earth can you if He doesn't let you know what He wants? i'd strongly recommend asking Him and not seeking this kind of advice from other Dominants or submissives, as that can be quite confusing after awhile. It can create your own idea of what you believe your Master wants rather than knowing what He wants because He's told you. i think anticipating ways to please Him is a wonderful characteristic, but i doubt He expects you to read His Mind.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/15/2009 2:32:50 PM

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I unlock the door for Master i am usually on the computer when he comes in which is right by my front door. My body has to be prepared the way he has told me. If we are going out i wear regular clothes but no panties or bra. If we are staying in i have to wear my robe with nothing underneath it. I usually say hi Master and give him a big hug and kiss which he returns. It has been several days since i have seen him it is a really big hug and i hold on for a bit.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/15/2009 3:20:48 PM

GabrielleSlave

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i get so excited when i hear Him coming in the outer door and run to open the main front door for Him and launch myself at Him with hugs and kisses, then let Him come in lol! When He has put down anything He is carrying He goes into the front room, or the kitchen and i will take off His shoes and massage His feet. i will usually put the kettle on in the daytime, or get Him His favourite drink if it is evening.

He seems pretty cool with that *smiles*, but before launching yourself at your Master in the same way, i would take a moment to consider what it is that He would prefer lol! Everyone is different afterall...

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/23/2009 9:20:18 AM

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Naked. :)

If I'm home, I'm naked. I meet him as close to the door as I can get and take anything he's holding out of his hands.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/23/2009 4:30:06 PM

LadyHexx

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Is he into GOR at all? That could be something nice..

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/23/2009 9:33:21 PM

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With a collar, cuffs, and nothing else.

I remember when I was in a good relationship I would meet my Dom like that all the time- when it was about time for him to be home from work, I would curl up by the door with a good book, and generally be joined by our two bengal kittens. His turning the lock was always enough time to stash the book behind some shoes and kneel. So when he got home and opened the door, he would have all three of his pets looking adoringly up at him.

I was never told to, but he was always happy to see me.

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/24/2009 8:24:54 PM

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Seems to me that you are making a big deal out of something that isn't one to Him. If He hasn't specified how to greet Him, it may be that it just doesn't matter to Him that much. There might be ways He prefers over others, but unless He tells you what He wants, you will have to come up with something makes you both happy.

i see my Master once a week or so. When i see Him for the first time that day, i kneel and greet Him in the way He has specified. After that, no protocol has been set. He comes and goes and when He needs to. If i hear Him come in the door, i drop what i am doing and go meet Him, with a smile. i might ask if He wants a drink, or a question about His work.

Now the thing is, most Dominants and Masters are pretty good at telling their s-types if they are NOT doing what they should or are slacking off.

Relax and just do what comes naturally to you.

peace,

g

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RE: Ideas On How To Great Your Master At The Door - 6/24/2009 10:50:59 PM

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If you haven't already, then ask him. Tell him you need some guidance on what pleases him the most.

I know some people who like to have their sub or slave meet them at the door in a particular outfit, kneeling. Some like the 50s housewife stuff - dinner on the table, a kiss, hanging up his clothes, etc.

I am partial to being massaged when I come in the door. Of course, it never hurts to have a sub say "Sir, I'm wet in the front, lubed in the back, and I have Altoids in my mouth." ;)

- Jesse

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