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RE: Loyalty - 6/18/2009 5:36:36 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		I shall take Lookie in hand, V, and teach him the rudiments of gentlemanly finesse.  I was about to advise him: while Lady Hib does indeed have a magnificent pair of warheads, it was inelegant to make that point publicly on this board. 

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RE: Loyalty - 6/18/2009 6:26:37 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

So, how's that savoir faire working for you?


I absolutely love it when you speak Australian.

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RE: Loyalty - 6/18/2009 7:05:44 PM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		Best of British luck to you, PforH.  Let me know how you get on.

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RE: Loyalty - 6/18/2009 8:46:19 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Lookie's commented on the hooters before---for some reason  he just keeps forgetting them...

eta----this is hib on cali's account---whoops!

< Message edited by CalifChick -- 6/18/2009 8:48:42 PM >

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RE: Loyalty - 6/18/2009 8:52:18 PM   
bootlckr57


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Status: offline 		Sunnyb40:  Come on, you can’t be THAT clueless! Didn’t you ask Her?

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 1:48:44 PM   
sonnyb40


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Status: offline 		I seen a Pro Domme 2- times in a 2- yr period. Though I had kept in contact via email with her. Our scedules have not coincided lately, so I emailed another Pro Domme for info. She asked who I have seen the most recent, so I told her. She emailed the one And asked her for a refferral of me. Needless to say  the Pro I had seen was upset that I would ask another Domme to email and ask for a refferral.

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 1:54:31 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Wow... you aren't even talking about a personal relationship here.  You really don't owe anyone anything in a professional setting.  Not in my opinion.  I mean in general respect and such, but unless it is a personal relationship, you don't owe much of anything except maybe payment for services rendered.

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 2:09:11 PM   
sonnyb40


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Status: offline 		No   I was called classless. However I do feel bad.  

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 2:14:18 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Classless when asked for a referal from a pro dominant from the pro dominant you saw before?  I am not a pro and I don't know all things, but I wouldn't put too much into what she said.  Just move on.  Maybe she was angry that you were paying someone else and thought it classless to let her know that.  I don't know.  Sounds silly to me.  When you pay... you are free to pay whoever it is you want to pay to give you services. 

< Message edited by Lockit -- 6/19/2009 2:16:02 PM >

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 2:16:30 PM   
Br0kenAngel


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Status: offline 		If you are in a committed relationship, BE committed. If you are seeking play only, be up front and honest. If your Dom/Domme is only in it for play as well, just make sure that that is understood and enjoy yourself, safely. 

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 2:23:04 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		You aren't even a regular client, not if it's been twice in two years. If she doesn't give referrals, but doesn't tell clients that, then how were you to know? The person who is classless here is her.

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 2:49:32 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Agreed.  Sounds more like she's miffed because you're going to be spending your hard earned cash somewhere else and her time investment (the continued email exchange) didn't pay off.  If you're going to be someone else's client, the time she spent responding to your emails didn't cultivate business and therefore may be seen as wasted in her view.

Business transactions with a pro are not the same as relationship dynamics.  You don't owe a pro loyalty any more than she owes it to you.  Just the same as if you chose to see another hair dresser or car mechanic. 


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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 3:11:10 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I am imagining some of the hairdressers I know, throwing a screaming meemee fit over that thought!!!

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 3:47:41 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Lookie's commented on hooters before---for some reason  he just keeps forgetting them...

eta----this is hib on cali's account---whoops!


They are truly spectacular things.

< Message edited by LookieNoNookie -- 6/19/2009 3:48:13 PM >

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 4:15:10 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		I was thinking, Lookie - you know how women really go for the sensitive and poetic type with smouldering nostrils and chiselled eyebrows (or whatever the phuck it is)?  Well, you could start a thread with a poem dedicated to Lady Hib's tumblers.  She'd be really appreciative.  Her cool heart would melt and she'd fall in love with you because of your beautiful soul.  Front and centre with that quill pen!

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 5:08:49 PM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		Hmmm.  Poetry?  Let's see, what rhymes with boobs?  Tubes, lubes, cubes, pubes.  Then for boobies, you have rubies.  Tits you can do a lot more with: bits, shits, sits, its, it's, ditz, fits, gits (British English, there), hits, kits, mitts, nits (the bugs), pits, quits, Ritz, slits, spits, snits (as in getting in a snit), wits, zits (American English for spots).  "Hooters" I don't think you can do much with at all.  Maybe "neuters"?

So, Lookie, have at it.  We await your creative outpourings on Lady Hib's glamoury mammaries.

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 6:22:32 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I don't make the grade with Lookie, maybe you should work on it, Peon... or y'all could have a contest!

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 6:25:47 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Damn.  One day I'll work out how to embarrass you, Lady Hib! 

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 6:27:21 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Oh darling one... I grew up being ridiculed and mocked. I lost the ability to be embarassed by other people around age six!

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RE: Loyalty - 6/19/2009 6:27:38 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Excellent help with those rhymes for "tits" V.  But can you help with rhymes for "Gazonkas"?

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