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New to (eastern) Washington State - 6/16/2009 12:56:24 PM   
MrSternMaster


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New to the Spokane area, I just moved from Arizona, and am happy to be back. I however dont know anyone in this comunity here. I am an experienced Master, with over 10yrs of experience. I welcome all associations with this life. so feel free to introduce yourself.
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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 6/16/2009 6:14:50 PM   
califsue


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Welcome! Enjoy your journey!

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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 6/18/2009 6:34:09 AM   
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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 6/18/2009 1:16:40 PM   
ChainGoddess


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Hello and welcome. 

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I could give up chocolate but I'm not a quitter.

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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 8/27/2009 6:19:11 PM   
WizardOfDelphi


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Hi there.

It might be worth noting a bit about MrSternMaster's very recent past in Arizona.  His move from Arizona is a result of finally getting kicked out by his ex-submissive here.  He was unemployed for approximately a year because he couldn't find suitable employment and refused to take any "lesser" positions.  During this time he basically preyed on his submissive's good nature and practically forced her to let him move in when he got evicted.  Whcih resulted in her working 2 jobs to pay all the bills while he sat at home.  I also understand that dispite the abundant free time he couldn't manage to find time to play with his ex or basically engage in any BDSM activities with her.  She finally realized she was being used but, still being a very sweet and kind woman, it took a group of her friends threatening MrSternMaster in order to get him to finally leave.

My personal experience with him isn't much better.  The above submissive was my submissive previously and we were in an open relationship.  She was allowed to see other people as long as certain rules were followed.  She met MrSternMaster on-line and he was very interested.  They discussed the situation and he agreed to abide by the rules of our relationship.  That is until he had his hooks into her and then he did everything in his power to break us up so he could have her to himself.  Not exactly honorable or ethical behavior.  She was, ideally, looking for something long-term and more committed than I was willing to offer at the time and she was torn because that's exactly what he was promising her.  Seeing her dilemma I released her so she could try, though given his unethical behavior I had serious concerns which, unfortunately, turned out to be very warranted.  As soon as she was his he effectively isolated her by forbidding her from talking to me or having any friends.

I can see why he can't imagine having any relationship that doesn't' involve this lifestyle.  I mean, what a great place to find a nice woman to be your slave labor and have to do anything for her in return?  What a deal.

I'm actually still quite good friends with the ex, she contacted me as soon as she was free and clear (and essentially no longer forbidden).  She's such a good girl, trying to be obedient even while being taken advantage of.

Anyway, I suggest everyone up there be very cautious of this guy and his ability to act ethically or honestly. 


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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 8/27/2009 6:59:24 PM   
RebornMaster


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Welcome

Interesting Wizard, thanks for sharing...I guess if he doesnt try to defend himself his return will be a short lived one


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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 8/27/2009 7:26:17 PM   
Ialdabaoth


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Remind me to never be on any of your guys' bad sides. ;)

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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 8/27/2009 7:31:00 PM   
peppermint


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We do know those who run the munch in Spokane.  It's a really nice group and we've been to a few events there.  They have a weekly coffee.  That might be the best way to get to know them.  You can find them at this web site.

http://www.s-p-i-k-e.org/

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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 8/27/2009 8:28:41 PM   
peppermint


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I never ever believe what I read on the internet, especially when it concerns a submissive and 2 Doms who wanted her.  Getting one side of a story that has at least 3 sides is worthless.  

< Message edited by peppermint -- 8/27/2009 8:29:29 PM >

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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 8/28/2009 12:26:49 AM   
RebornMaster


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I dont disbelieve everything I read but do take it with a grain of salt. Like you I realize there is more than 1 side to a story which is why I made the comment about his defending himself. I know I would if someone tried to out me like that without justification. 

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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 8/28/2009 8:27:23 AM   
Gleegal67


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As the submissive's good friend, I can honestly attest that this person (Stern) is not what he portrays himself as and my friend hopes that another woman doesn't fall prey to his ways.


Always the gleeful one...who is very protective of her friends :)


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RE: New to (eastern) Washington State - 9/14/2009 12:29:30 AM   
callalilly72


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Thank you to both Wizardofdelphi and gleegal67 for being wonderful friends. What they say is the truth.  I was able to put the past behind me until I ran across this post and truly do not wish anyone to go through what I did the last couple of years. In a couple years when I have paid off the debt I incured for the year he could not find an "appropriate job" while I worked 2 jobs I may have a different perspective. Right now I just feel stupid and used.

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