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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 8:43:51 AM   
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I occasionally get them.  More frequently, I get the Ghana emails, but even those are only once or twice a month.  Well, there was the ONE dipshit who insisted that my husband would rather have HIM than me 

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 8:44:40 AM   
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No, I don't really get emails asking if I'm still in my relationship - just emails from my friends here. I do not have up any pics and I state that I am owned, happy about that, and have a friends only profile up for the message boards. I also have no sexual preferences listed on the profile. I figure why give people a view of what my interests are in an area they don't need to know about, especially if I'm not looking.

When I first switched my profile over to state these things I still got messages from men who had emailed me in my previous unowned state. Obviously they decided to contact me again and did not check out the profile updates - fair mistake. After sending them on their way it really doesn't happen any more.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 9:05:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Mine says "friends only" and I get emails saying they want to be my friend, and why don't I send them naked pictures.


I want to be your friend too Des :)


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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 9:14:06 AM   
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Yes, I get them. Found out it really doesn't matter what you put on there you will get emails. I also assume this is part of belonging to a site like this. It really doesnt bother me though, since deleting comes naturally to me. What I do find funny as-all-get-out is when male submissives want me to be their Domme. It is clearly put that i am a submissive. I have enough stuff going on in my life to be concerned about the type of cmails I get, and honestly am glad I do.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 9:47:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

No, we never get that.
Maybe it's because we have a joint profile - meh who knows.
It's funny how we basically get little in the way of scams, spams or stupidness.  I have always wondered if that is because the profile is a couples.
 
the.dark.


  I don't know, the.dark. I have a singles profile and never get mail except from a few people from the boards. I also don't have anything checked in the "Actively Seeking" section, nor do I list any preferences.

I don't know what I did but since I never get messages, I must have done something right. (Think it's the wedding picture with Lumus?) I just have one person who about once a month just sends me his Yahell ID. Nothing else, no hello, just his ID.


Of course, the flip side of this is that I never get the fun ones either.....



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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 10:12:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Mine says "friends only" and I get emails saying they want to be my friend, and why don't I send them naked pictures.


I want to be your friend too Des :)



 Here you go Jeff, a tittie pic just for you.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 10:32:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I get strange emails at least once a week. A few have asked what I meant  by saying in my profile that "I am here for friends only and that does not mean with benefits" so I to explain it to them. I get at least one a week offering themselves as a submissive when my profile clearly states that I am not looking. I've come to the conclusion that my red hair blinds people so much that they cannot read the words on my profile. Or it could be IQ's are a bit lower than I gave them credit for.

~Lashra



Gotta be both.    btw, i LOVE Your red hair.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 11:16:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got an e mail here on cm today that asked if Master and i were still together. I found this very strange because my profile clearly states that i am happlly collared and owned by irishdominny. It is a bit annoying.

Do any of you owned/collared subs/ slaves get e mails like this?

Matt's littleone


Almost everyday and I even refer to our joint profile in mine.

Those doms just don't take instruction well at all.


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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 11:32:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly

Almost everyday and I even refer to our joint profile in mine.

Those doms just don't take instruction well at all.


Who says it's the dominants?  The rare random ones I get are all from submissives looking for me to be their Goddess or Domme.


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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 2:30:55 PM   
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My Favorites are the one where they Beg.... Yes actually BEG to have andi Dominate them.

I usually send the reply.

andi is the sub in this relationship.... block hide. Steel

I mean they have to type the letter right I mean at very least right click paste or Ctrl V is it really that difficult to read the Who's Who of the Profile even if they don't read what we wrote.

Steel

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/17/2009 2:42:14 PM   
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I got a few of strange ones after my story I posted in my journal.(gone now)

some.....asking to be castrated..one asked to be buried alive in a tomb..
another asked if I had remorse when I cut a man's balls off( again mistaking the story for me)....
the tomb one woudl nto say if he wanted a breathign tube and I asked and he said it was none of my business if he used it or not...
also there is a man who likes bugs ,ants,worms on his penis,who wrote...
and he writes and posts a fair bit..it is HIS kink so I won't say strange  ..
 
I also got a ..I feel wierd one in which the man( DOM) called me a ni99er and said I should wash his floors...I am part Kongo so I gusss he saw than but the wierd thing is this
 
HE kept messaging and saying how he could make me disappear if I wanted ..he had a "cell" in his house...and how long could I be hung.??..up and shit.
adn did I like white hoods...and stuff...
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It got worse ..he said he brings street ppl( maybe 25+) in to f88k his slaves..
so ya  I found the block feature.
.I kept thinking though does he have women trapped in that southern state there??in his house...I lost sleep over it..
 
 
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RE: Strange e mail - 6/18/2009 5:08:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

I've come to the conclusion that my red hair blinds people so much that they cannot read the words on my profile.



In all fairness, some of us have been chasing red-heads since Kindergarten -- it becomes a bit of a Pavlovian response -- I'm sure it is annoying, however.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/18/2009 6:51:36 PM   
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The only scam emails I get are those from women in Africa who just know we are meant for each other. 

I have sent a few emails to women whose profiles catch my interest and indicate that they are interested in friends.  I clearly state that I am current exploring a relationship with my lady and am not interested in anything more than friendship.  I don't think I've received any responses.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/18/2009 9:30:04 PM   
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I have joined, and left, Collarme three or four times because of the stupid emails. My last profile got to be so negative, that I took it down for a bit. I don't like being negative. So, this time I just said that I don't answer emails unless they wow me. I still get them, but they go unanswered.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/19/2009 8:38:02 PM   
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I love the ones that "TELL" me to read their profiles and get back with them, the last one i respond with Don't Think So Because You Didn't Read Mine! which got a fucking cunt response! which was answered with report, block, delete!

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/21/2009 10:47:01 AM   
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The biggest culprit in this is that many people do not update their profiles and that's what some are banking on, that your profile might be an old one and you might be available. 

However, having given some of them the benefit of the doubt here, there are those that ignore and hope to distract...they seek drama. *sigh*  If this is the case, you may have to write small words in your reply to them because the dears may not be able to read big ones.  Type slow.  They read slow.

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/21/2009 10:49:33 AM   
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Perhaps CM needs to create an instant response that says "Thank you very much for your inquiry but it is clear you didn't read my profile."

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RE: Strange e mail - 6/21/2009 10:52:54 AM   
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The ones I get vary from "are you still together" to "He is all wrong for you, youd be better off with me."

They dont read, and even if they did, it wouldn't matter, they dont care.


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RE: Strange e mail - 6/22/2009 4:00:41 PM   
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I got one from someone crazy who said for me to suck his cock and called me the N word (I'm a woman of color if that makes no sense to you) when Sir said I could reply back to him and then block him, I did so, only to have him create a NEW name and harass me with the same email....go figure.




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RE: Strange e mail - 6/23/2009 9:56:00 PM   
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Whoa, is your profile a re-write in response to this? Sorry you feel you have to defend yourself on your own profile, it's supposed to be a good thing, and nobody else can know you now.

Just write it once, enjoy your profile and trash the e-mails... unanswered. Don't give the vampires the pleasure of your attention, don't change yourself over this. This is Your space.




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