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dreamerdreaming -> RE: N/needs (6/17/2009 8:38:17 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Alphascendant
Other than food, water, clothing, and shelter from the weather, a person has no other needs. Anything past those objects are purely psychological preferences. If a person let's themself be controlled by those preferences, they are not in control of their own self. For the submissives that are looking to satisfy a dominant's needs, that's rubbish. Unless you are providing that person with food, water, clothing and shelter from the weather, you are not satisfying any needs at all. You are only looking for somebody to partake in the enjoyment of your own convoluted preferences to quench your own desires.
The dominant satisfies the submissive's preferences because of a desire to be with that person, a desire that is psychological. The more dominant and disciplined a person becomes, the less that person gives in to those desired preferences, eventually rendering the submissive useless. The balance between dominance and submission? If the dominant desires nothing, the submissive would have to desire everything in order to balance. In reality, that doesn't seem possible, as the person that desires everything generally has no use for the person that desires nothing, from whom there is nothing to gain. When a man gains control over his own preferences, the pussy loses all it's power.
The entire post above, is a crock of shit. Normally I might say one or two things in a post is crap. But this one is pure, 100% bullshit.
OP, you can't seriously believe that you don't need anything else besides food, water, clothing and shelter. If that were true, you wouldn't have posted this thread.
In it, you are reaching out worldwide, to a bunch of strangers for some kind of validation. You are hoping for some kind of meeting of the minds here. For someone to agree with you, and/or for the ego boost and the sense of community that can be had here. Or, you just wanted to rant to a group of people who you consider pathetic, so you can feel superior. Either way, you posted in an attempt to get your psychological needs met.
Asher beat me to it, with Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Cool! I'm glad I'm not the only one who is quick to cite it. At bottom of the pyramid are the most basic needs, a few of which you mention. But there are so many more! Once the needs on the bottom are filled, we are able to turn our attention to meeting the needs in the next level. And so on, until we reach the top. With all of our most basic physical needs being properly addressed, we are able to turn our attention to the kinds of things that our life here on earth is really about: love and friendship, affection, physical and emotional intimacy, family, community, spirituality, creativity, learning and discovery, service to others, self-esteem and self-respect, and the respect and esteem of others...
The focus of my ownership of my darling slave Boy, is our mutual fulfillment and self-actualization, or self-realization. Becoming more and more our authentic selves, with each passing day. The goal is to pay attention and take care of each other's needs, in such a way as that we can be very true to ourselves. In this way, we have productive, deeply emotionally satisfying lives. We experience joy, and fulfillment. We learn and grow. We bring our existence here on earth to its fruition. We evolve together, becoming more and more ourselves, with each passing day.
I wish this true joy, I wish this true beauty, for everyone. In my service I do try to help people and animals get their basic needs met, so that they can turn their attention to addressing their higher needs. It is deeply pleasing to me, whether feeding the wild birds, walking the dogs at the pound, playing guitar and singing with the old folks at the old folks' home....Or mentoring my young men, women and children. By letting me help them, they are helping me live the life I was born for. Its a beatiful world, and a beautiful life, for my slave Boy and I.
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