IrishMist
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IrishMist: what you have to understand is that for a vast majority of prospective employers who would ask for information about what web sites you use, if they asked you, and then you told them, of the mere existence of your account here on Collar Me, they would automatically exclude you from further consideration for employment. Even though we kinksters consider BDSM play, or even interest in BDSM play, to be normal, for a large segment of the population, BDSM is a mental illness and people who engage in such activities should be avoided whenever possible. That may not be a cultural value or medical assessment that you agree with, but the anal retentive people who are asking for your list of web sites as a condition of consideration for employment are not interested in your thoughts on the matter. They only want people who will conform to their idea of proper sexual behavior, which largely means missionary position only between married couples. *snicker* I have worked for various federal, state and local agencies, both here and in Texas for over 20 years now...not once have I tried to hide who I am, or what I am...they know that I have an account here, they know that my late husband and I used to beat the shit out of each other, they know all there is to know about me, my family, and those who I have interacted with in the past. Quite honestly...as long as I do the job I was hired to do...they don't give a flying fuck what kind of websites I visit, or what kind of activities I partake in...unless I am waving a gun at civilians and causing general mayhem People are so terrified at the thought of someone KNOWING about them...geesh, get over it already...nine times out of ten, that one person you are trying so hard to hide from...already knows more about you than you do.
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