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Where on the site to learn? - 6/19/2009 9:10:23 PM   
christoy


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Status: offline 		I am trying very conscientously to learn how to please my master... am loooking for any helpful information. He requested I come here and I want to surprise him :-) Thanks
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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/19/2009 10:10:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		What do you want to learn? What areas does he suggest you need help with? What kind of surprise are you talking about? I get the feeling it isn't homemade apple pie and ice cream.

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/19/2009 10:12:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well I will tell you all there is to know but first I need you to get a Garden Hose, A Chicken, and a Blender with a Frape Setting.

I will be waiting out back in the clown costume and the Anal Beads ... Don't worry they are for me not for you. However the Saddle and Bit are for you and I hope you have a Strong Back.

Do not make direct Eye contact with me and call me Master Ethel.

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/19/2009 10:27:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Steel...........errr Master Ethel, I want to thank you most sincerely for the vivid images you have cemented into my brain with your descriptive words

OP: The best way to learn to please your master is to sit down and ask him what pleases him. Does he like his coffee a certain way? Does he wish you to dress a certain way? Does he have a preferred routine he likes to follow in the morning and/or evening that you need to learn? Only he can answer things like that. Ask him if there are things he wants you to learn to do for him. Ask questions here on specific things and take time to read threads already going of interest to you.

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/19/2009 10:34:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		It puts the lotion on it's skin and then it puts the lotion in the basket.

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/19/2009 11:21:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		dammit, Steel... I may have to put that movie in now........

(one of the best movie scenes EVAH!!)


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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/19/2009 11:30:40 PM   
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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 3:41:18 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: christoy

I am trying very conscientously to learn how to please my master... am loooking for any helpful information. He requested I come here and I want to surprise him :-) Thanks



The bare essential is that you understand one another. In order to do this you both need to be self-aware.

My advice would be to spend more time with one another talking about your lives past and present and your dreams and anxieties. I'd bear in mind that people who aren't self-aware will not be unable to communicate meaningful desires.

I find that asking someone to write a journal isn't conducive to understanding that person because they're conscious of what they feel you want to hear.

Try something simple such as looking at a picture of a rose and both discuss what you see. You will begin to get an idea of how you both think and therefore what you both need. For example some people will describe the rose in great detail; other people will see the detail as secondary and will begin to talk about the bigger picture such as the smell of the rose summer days love and other spin offs. Even from this simple act you'll begin to understand whether or not you like fact and detail and this will suggest you will like rules and to know where you stand or whether you like possibilities and prefer to have life open ended which will suggest you will need the room to breathe.

In terms of learning on this site - I would use it as a place to discuss your ideas whatever the subject. Sometimes you'll find that the concepts you have worked out in your mind are limited when you begin to discuss them with others and at other times you'll find your ideas are built on solid foundations. I'm not saying that you shouldn't take on board the ideas of others - we all do that in one form or another - but remember you're an individual with your own needs and ideas.

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 4:29:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: christoy

I am trying very conscientously to learn how to please my master... am loooking for any helpful information. He requested I come here and I want to surprise him :-) Thanks



does he like suprises?  Master doesn't.
 
how about quizzes?  if he doesn't mind being quizzed, you could then ask him, specific questions as to his likes and dislikes and jot down the answers for future reference.  you could use the "Ask a submissive/slave" or "Ask a Master" sections of this site for question ideas for your quiz.
 
best of luck to you!

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 4:33:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		You really should ask him what he likes. You could spend hours perfecting the perfect foot massage only to find that he hates to have his feet touched. Find out, at a minimum, what direction he wants you to focus on....pleasing physically, mentally, socially, etc.



< Message edited by Aileen1968 -- 6/20/2009 4:34:00 AM >

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 8:12:12 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		Read dirty books and watch a lot of porn
read cookbooks and do yoga
make yourself as sexy as you can
tell Him exactly what you like Him to do to you...not that He actually has to do this of course but it helps if He knows your own dirty thoughts on things

oh and ask Him what He likes

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 8:14:33 AM   
Racquelle


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Status: offline 		"I want you to learn to please me.  Go to the internet and figure out how."

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 8:18:25 AM   
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I am trying very conscientously to learn how to please my master..


Tell him you're going to find yourself a master that teaches, and you'll see him later.. maybe

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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 7:44:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Good evening!
Lots of people here have given you some really good answers but I do think the bottom line is TALKING. Could he give you a few specific topics? Habits? I mean, to help you narrow it down?? There's so many things to learn from casual to high protocol to domestic to extreme...Maybe he can give you or you guys can discuss one topic a month or two and then go from there. Seems as if he was a little too vague.
Bottom line on serving-and this is from MY Daddy-"You will learn what I want you to learn, and how I want you to serve ME." That means I do not have to worry about props, crosses, ropes, etc. But I do have to know about massages, cooking for a diabetic, spankings, and managing finances (insurances, IRA's, etc) If there are any other topics he wants me to look into then I will but he will always tell me or I ask "Master may I please research xxxxx?" Hope that helps, good luck!
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RE: Where on the site to learn? - 6/20/2009 9:15:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

It puts the lotion on it's skin and then it puts the lotion in the basket.

Steel
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