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PeonForHer -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/23/2009 3:44:01 PM)
Bed. Now!

Venatrix -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/23/2009 3:46:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 I am even a British tart and floozie Peon. [;)] Hmmm. All of a sudden I'm having fantasies of international naked male tart-and-floozie wrestling (Politesub, I'm afraid you'll have to set the coffee down for this one).

PeonForHer -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/23/2009 3:46:43 PM)
Gawd. Wish I could do a better Michael Caine: "You know your problem, girl? You dahn't wear enuff make-up!"

Politesub53 -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/23/2009 3:51:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 I am even a British tart and floozie Peon. [;)] Hmmm. All of a sudden I'm having fantasies of international naked male tart-and-floozie wrestling (Politesub, I'm afraid you'll have to set the coffee down for this one). Hard limit Im afraid.....You will have to be a little patient and hurt me later. [8D]

Politesub53 -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/23/2009 3:52:59 PM)
I have had some Folgers in Texas....... Yuk

Venatrix -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/23/2009 4:04:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 I have had some Folgers in Texas....... Yuk So, are you trying to tell me that you're not the tart and floozie I thought you were?

Politesub53 -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/23/2009 4:06:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 I have had some Folgers in Texas....... Yuk So, are you trying to tell me that you're not the tart and floozie I thought you were? Sad to say, I`m worse.....Lol

Andalusite -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/24/2009 7:10:26 PM)
Nah, you're a sweet tart! [;)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/24/2009 8:58:46 PM)
GASP!! BANTER!!!

LadyPact -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 12:05:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer How many times do I have to tell you? You can't be a poofter unless you're gay. Wearing women's clothes doesn't make you gay. It's time you accepted the truth about yourself - that you're a heterosexual, Otters. I'm sorry, but there it is. Hey now. We won't be having any of that. You are ruining one of My favorite fantasies.

DemonKia -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 2:03:00 AM)
[sm=rofl.gif] Takes one to know one, right, Peon? [;)] quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer ...Frankly, I think men who parade around their naked bodies for all to see are just tarts and floozies. No style and no morals.

PeonForHer -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 2:32:30 AM)
Thank you, DK. I was beginning to wonder if anyone would ever pick up on that [;)]

DemonKia -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 6:04:12 AM)
Ah, Peon, I can hardly see your name here that I don't think of all that luscious bare skin & impish grin . . . . . [:D]

Venatrix -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 6:11:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DemonKia Ah, Peon, I can hardly see your name here that I don't think of all that luscious bare skin & impish grin . . . . . [:D] Kia, I don't think that's a grin in the photo. I think it's the crack of his arse.

PeonForHer -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 9:16:38 AM)
Oh FGS, V. That had me in fits! [:D]

Politesub53 -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 12:54:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Andalusite Nah, you're a sweet tart! [;)] Blushes furiously....

EvilKitty -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (6/25/2009 11:16:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CdnExplorer Something that just struck me is that part of the problem here might be the language we use, in combination with the perceived "oversupply" of male subs and some effect from the whole pro-domme culture. The way male submission is represented makes a femdom relationship sound like an impossible fantasy. We're sold the idea that men pay for women to do things to them, and who want nothing to do with them beyond that. No intimacy...nothing. The reality of course is that bdsm is incredibly intimate, and for most people getting that intimacy requires some relationship building. When a new guy comes into the mix he gets asked, "What will you do for me?". I don't know about you, but taken by itself that sounds very transactional. My impression is that usually the question really means something along the lines of "What is interesting about you?". Put that together with the misconceptions about what a male sub is and what his social options are and it isn't a surprise that right out of the gate the two are failing to communicate. "I'll let you spank me" might just be a ham fisted way of saying he wants to have that intimacy with someone who really wants to do it with him, and not just because he paid for it in some way. Maybe I give people too much credit, but I think there really are a lot of guys who are supposedly wankers that really just think they aren't allowed or to be anything more than a worthless piece of ass. Heck if I have any ideas about how to start changing that though. Thank you, that is VERY well put! It can be difficult to ask those types of questions without them sounding overly mercenary. This helps!

angeldmort -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (7/7/2009 10:48:02 AM)
I'm sure it will be viewed as silly and a mark of a noob, but I just needed to say thank you... I have SO many questions, and SO many things I worry about, and the answers are all here somewhere. I spent the last few weeks thinking 'Gawd, am I not Dominant, but just a total mean and hostile bitch?" because it feelsl ike I'm constantly saying 'no' to these constant emails that say about that - "I want a mistress who will do this and this and this to me" but not a word about why I should do those things... I end up feeling like being here had somehow declared me a whore who doesn't get paid, expected to provide something to all these twits, as if I'd promised them something, and all without expecting anything in return. Feeling "mercenary" for considering it that way. It seemed to be in direct opposition to what I'd thought I understood the dynamic to be, and so many of them are throwing the word "real" around - "a REAL Domme." My first response of 'your opinion doesn't define me' seems almost petulant when I have to repeat it so often to those who've been "in the lifestyle for many years". Now I feel much more myself - it's just the same old game, with a slight twist. I must stop letting myself worry about this - it's not new, just dressed a little different than I'm used to. I could get so very enamored of you folks; you are such fonts of information and insight. I'm sure its selfish - reassurance and reinforcement of one's own vews is always gratifying, but it makes a lot of difference, and I wanted to thank you directly, instead of just thinking it over and over as I read the boards. Now I must go stuff my face, and remind myself "I am not a hostile bitch" a few hundred times before I head to work. I really have to get a working laptop going so I can read from work - too many empty hours I could be filling with useful viewpoints in prep for the onslaught to come.

chamberqueen -> RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me (7/7/2009 2:39:29 PM)
LOL - poor angeldmort. I did start to turn into a big time bitch when one male sub's idea of how to get me to spank him was to continuously write things like, "I'll be you can't leave a handprint" right after complimenting me on my sex change operation. (I was kind enough to write to him to explain why he was getting blocked before I did it in the hopes that he would never again be so stupid with another woman. Didn't work. He gave himself a new screen name and came back for more.)

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