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A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 10:12:41 AM   
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How important is the age diference between a mistress and her admirer?

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 10:31:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		How important do you want it to be? There is 25 yrs between me and my girl (she is older) and 15 between me and my boy (he is younger).

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 10:54:06 AM   
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How important is the age diference between a mistress and her admirer?

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Hi Westside,
Well, I am 48 and my pup is 18. I didnt plan on having such a young submissive, but it just so happens I was extremely happy with the way he carried himself and the maturity level he has. It is hard sometimes, because he isnt old enough to go into the adult clubs or events. But I wouldnt trade him for the world. You may want to consider the age requirements of most events before you decide on one who is under the drinking age. I dont drink, so it is no big deal to me. Hope this helps you. Good luck :)

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 10:54:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Doesn´t bother me. Mistress is 5 years younger than me but her soul is at least 15 years older than mine. :)
Also her experience, both life and bdsm casts a shadow over mine so I look up to her in both sense.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 11:03:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Your age is how long you've been on this Earth. No more and no less. As long as you're both adults, I don't see how it matters how old you are.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 12:35:36 PM   
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How important is the age diference between a mistress and her admirer?

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I don't think it's important at all, unless either partner is more attracted to people older, younger or the same as they are. There is a 28 year difference between myself and my boy. He prefers younger women, I prefer older men, so we are both happy in our choices.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 1:16:59 PM   
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How important is the age diference between a mistress and her admirer?

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That varies from person to person immensely. Most i would say prefer somewhere around their own age. While others prefer much younger or much older.

The bottom line its all up to taste.

How important it is? well some 60yo people have the mentality of a 20 yo and vice versa. physical limitations of getting older aside it is how well 2 people connect with one another in the end.

However anytime i get a very young female that has interest, i always remind them several times that i will be 80 when they are 50 for instance and point it out that they would have to love running an elderly day care center to go forward with a large age gap. things to consider.



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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 5:08:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Age needn't be a factor. If you sense your Owner in a form, would be a pity you passed them up over something as trivial as mortal earthen age.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 6:00:01 PM   
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How important is the age diference between a mistress and her admirer?


Geeze, I guess I am going to be odd person out here.
I know, it surprises ya'all right?

Anyway, I don't know if it may have something to do with my being with
another woman and having a submissive nature, but I prefer someone at least with-in a five year age range of myself either way, although I prefer it to be in the upper five years older. Maybe it is because I have a 22 year old son. Maybe because of the knowledge of going up during the same years and have that common bond.
Chit, I don't know for sure but that is my preference, although I believe there are always exceptions.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 6:16:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think that makes you the odd person out. Most people have age preferences; I do too. But that doesn't mean I think my age preferences are right for everyone else--and I'm sure you don't think so, either. If the OP admires a mistress who is substantially younger than he is, I don't believe there is anything wrong with that, as long as they are consenting adults.

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Geeze, I guess I am going to be odd person out here.
I know, it surprises ya'all right?

Anyway, I don't know if it may have something to do with my being with
another woman and having a submissive nature, but I prefer someone at least with-in a five year age range of myself either way, although I prefer it to be in the upper five years older. Maybe it is because I have a 22 year old son. Maybe because of the knowledge of going up during the same years and have that common bond.
Chit, I don't know for sure but that is my preference, although I believe there are always exceptions.


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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 6:53:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		My house-boy is 52, my partner is 59, and my current lover is 46.

I'd say I care about as much about age as I do for eye color, race, religion, etc. It makes of a part of their being, but it's not WHO they are defined as.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 8:54:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Master is 57. i just turned 40. If age had frightened me off when we were first conversing, i would have missed out on the most wonderful gift of my life.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 9:26:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Given my age (63), it would be quite unlikely that i would find a Mistress of nearly equal age or older! <smile>

Having said that, however, i concur with many of the posts here in that age is less a factor than how the minds work together. But i think that i might have some difficulty with a Mistress who is less than 30 -- primarily from cultural differences based upon ones background, tastes, and experiences.

To echo another thread, it is always appropriate for one to state their age preferences. i have no difficulty with those for whom age or age range is an issue. One must be content with their choices to be successful in what they seek.

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/13/2006 10:56:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's a wonderfully brought up point msub4Domme! I agree that people should openly state if they have preferences, or not for that matter. Just as my partner can often get turned down for his older age, I can get turned down for my younger age. I usually will not let out that number unless asked.

Age-ism affects the young and the old! Hahahaaaa

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/14/2006 7:58:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		good points -- thanks you all.

You've given me much to think about.

West

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/16/2006 11:19:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Age itself, I think, does not matter so much as what others think of this age difference. So the question you should be asking is how much will others know and how much do you care?

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/16/2006 12:18:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Age only matters as much as the two people in the relationship say it matters.

For myslef, in fantasy land Dominant women are several years younger or older than me while submissive women are my age or younger. In reality I have dated women of all ages, the most notablewas in the service when I dated a woman 20 years my senior (she was asian and I suspected she was older but missed the amoount).

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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/16/2006 1:33:51 PM   
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How important is the age diference between a mistress and her admirer?

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My admirers can be any age they like.. I can't stop them from admiring

My sub is 12 yrs younger than me. At first, I tried passing him off. Trying to find someone more his age. Etc.

I guess I thought it would be a bigger issue. But really its not.

He's the sweetest, kindest, most devoted boy in the whole wide world. Ain't nothing making me give that up.


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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/16/2006 1:36:39 PM   
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How important is the age diference between a mistress and her admirer?

Westside


As important as She wants it to be.


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RE: A younger mistress? - 2/16/2006 6:33:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		The age difference doesn't matter to me, but I wouldn't have a sub older than 55 or so.. It's simply a security/ aesthetic / mental thing.

If the sub were Black, he couldn't be more than 10-15 years older than me, otherwise I'd start thinkng of my father...
Need I say 'eeww'?

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