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RumpusParable -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 6:59:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stella41b

Anything over and above that is drama.


Or just straight up trolling, from viewing their other recent posts.




purepleasure -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 7:01:38 PM)

naahhhh.  not worth it.




ShaharThorne -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 7:19:56 PM)

1. Black henna ink will cause burns on your skin. See a derma-doc for treatment.

2. This guy is using a bastardized form of a good religion to make you vulnerable. He is what gives the Paganistic followers a bad name. Even the Goddess is telling me to run from this man. He reminds me of a cult leader to me. Branch Davidan, anyone?

3. Your health is paramount in your life and yet you are willing to subject yourself to any and all diseases he could be carrying. He wants to have access to other women, probably without using condoms for protection. Last I checked in the spiritual realm, there is no ward or spell for STDs.




monaslave -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 7:55:24 PM)

gods as aphrodithe,odin,hermes..  thats what hes listening to..   I have not experienced hes using them incorrectly or wrongly.. asking me to do practises with aphrodithe in meds..  one day I was feeling ill because of natural sickness and he claimed it could be or was because of I hadnt been obedient enough or done enough..i asked him about it and he said the godess could do it that way,i asked why he said why do you think,because theyre linked,because this is spiritual. I never bought that! I know godess not to interfere that way. and I couldnt help thinking of the amazones as well and their godess and they were not obedient at least,and I thought crap.
Godess tells you to run? what does she say?
it looks like he meant theoretically?




monaslave -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 7:56:44 PM)

it was not black henna it was indian ink colors,like you give school kids for them to draw with. not even what  Icall ink. so such things use to fade away when you wash hands. so I dont get it!
I dont know if hes done or is doing anything.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 8:22:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne

1. Black henna ink will cause burns on your skin. See a derma-doc for treatment.

2. This guy is using a bastardized form of a good religion to make you vulnerable. He is what gives the Paganistic followers a bad name. Even the Goddess is telling me to run from this man. He reminds me of a cult leader to me. Branch Davidan, anyone?

3. Your health is paramount in your life and yet you are willing to subject yourself to any and all diseases he could be carrying. He wants to have access to other women, probably without using condoms for protection. Last I checked in the spiritual realm, there is no ward or spell for STDs.


What she said.




DemonKia -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 8:49:56 PM)

Well, sounds like you got your answer . . . . .

& I've learned something new: all those other people who get sexually transmitted infections (STIs) must plan to do so . . . . .

[8D] & [8|]

Or at least that's what he says / implies . . . . . .

Oh. & most of the swingers clubs I'm aware of require safer sex practices, which to me sounds like planning on avoiding STIs . . . . . . .

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

I dont know,but I dont got the impression hes wiccan, but I know hes talked about how you get out in the grey areas and cant stay in the white area if somethings gotta happen, and that the goal justifes the means,which I didnt agree with, I know he listens to norse gods,thats what I know,and some greek as well. So it must be something,he is doing,at least.
I have asked him further.. he says hes not thought to give me some deseases,and surely I knew about that..then he say,but you are my slave,and if he got a desease,of the worse character,then I would share it,that I shall know. then he says he know what hes doing and doesnt get exposed. and talks about nothing more beautiful than a slave that knows whom she belongs to,and asking to share it, or accept to get it because she knows that she belongs to her Master,that its something shes chosen, but says its theoretical and that he doesnt plan to get a desease, and never been to bed with somebody he doesnt know are clean,and because he make demands. he says hes not a swinger club type.thats what he said short said. i told him he couldnt say like that about deseases then he says its merely theoretichally.




DavanKael -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 8:50:34 PM)

Okay, so I made it through the first page of replies. 
Come on; you're in a freakin' relationship and you didn't talk about the important details before committing hook, line, and sinker. 
You know, identifying as a submissive or a slave is not an excuse for refusing to behave as a grown-up. 
  Davan




QuixoticErrant -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 8:51:12 PM)

OK, straight up, you need to walk and tell the bastard to go to hell.




DavanKael -> RE: what shall I do with this? (6/22/2009 8:56:52 PM)

Okay, another thought now that I've read a few more replies: 
Diseases are, to varying degrees easy to quite difficult to catch. 
Usually the ones that will kill you are pretty hard to catch. 
Last I looked, somewhere between 85-90% of people were estimated to have, have had, or will have HPV at some point in their lives. 
Sex has risks.  The more people you add, the more you bring risk to your life. 
And, in note to your swinger comment (And, I'm not a swinger), not all swingers just run around putting their concavities or convexities in proximity with any ole thing indescriminantly. 
Plus, the idea of him romanticizing giving you an std to make you more his is just sick (I knew a female whose husband has hiv and she actively tried to get it for quite some time: she's a dumbass too). 
Now, I don't sit on high, I've taken risks in my life but, back to that bieng a grown-up thing, if the risks are unacceptable, get out.  Educate yourself about std's ('Cause I can tell just form what you've said in this thread that you really don't have a clue about prevalence, modes of transmissibility, etc.), and, seriously, take responsibility for your choices. 
  Davan




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