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Sarahsubmits -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:22:16 PM)

I don't think it is like that really.

I took a look at this thread again and I figured that some air should be cleared.

First off, some of the things that Sarah said I said, were taken a little out of context - though I did use the line about Euclid and Triangles pretty much verbatim.

Second off, I did not flounce out of here in a huff so much as realize that I was not going to convince anyone who didn't already agree with me of anything. I also wasn't going to get convinced of the other side. It really just seemed to be a pissing contest and I didn't like how it was making anyone look. A good friend of mine pointed this out to me in somewhat harsh words.

Third off, you should be wary about what you have learned about the legal system here. If you really want to look into what was being argued, look at the actual opinion. Just read that. The supreme court had the power interpret the constitution and they really did interpret judicial review for themselves. That is exactly what happened. Since this happened at the close of the Adams administration, and it has remained an unchallenged cornerstone of our system ever since, it is kind of silly to argue about it. It is the way it is.

Fourth off, the real "debate" can not be resolved because the two sides are starting from different axioms. One side fervently believes that part of personal responsibility is a responsibility to not harm or take advantage of others. There can be endless debate about what constitutes harm. There can be endless debate about what constitutes taking advantage. Those are the specifics. The general idea still holds, provided that at least one thing is harm and at least one thing is taking advantage. The last statement is actually set theory.

The other side feels that since all responsibility starts and ends with one person, such notions are meaningless.

Logical proofs will not obtain for either side if the two sides do not use the same axioms.

Attempts at utilitarian arguments were similarly useless because the things that were considered "useful" were different.

Fifth off, for those who reject the social responsibility arguments... for those of us who were raised with them as a cornerstone of our basic morality, it is incredibly disconcerting to hear these things rejected. It is like someone suggesting babies are the "other white meat." It's obvious we piss you off just as much. However, this is not some silly statement of "what feels right." It is a coherent belief system shared by most of Western Civilization - despite all of the possible variations.

Sixth off, of course I think that the moral argument is the correct one. If you believe in morality, then you also must believe that some things are immoral. These words too can be endlessly debated. As a point of set theory though. At least one thing must be immoral if you believe that morality can exist.







QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:23:50 PM)

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variation30 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:24:05 PM)

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econd off, I did not flounce out of here in a huff so much as realize that I was not going to convince anyone who didn't already agree with me of anything. I also wasn't going to get convinced of the other side. It really just seemed to be a pissing contest and I didn't like how it was making anyone look. A good friend of mine pointed this out to me in somewhat harsh word
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ORIGINAL: Sarahsubmits

I don't think it is like that really.

I took a look at this thread again and I figured that some air should be cleared.

First off, some of the things that Sarah said I said, were taken a little out of context - though I did use the line about Euclid and Triangles pretty much verbatim.

Second off, I did not flounce out of here in a huff so much as realize that I was not going to convince anyone who didn't already agree with me of anything. I also wasn't going to get convinced of the other side. It really just seemed to be a pissing contest and I didn't like how it was making anyone look. A good friend of mine pointed this out to me in somewhat harsh words.

Third off, you should be wary about what you have learned about the legal system here. If you really want to look into what was being argued, look at the actual opinion. Just read that. The supreme court had the power interpret the constitution and they really did interpret judicial review for themselves. That is exactly what happened. Since this happened at the close of the Adams administration, and it has remained an unchallenged cornerstone of our system ever since, it is kind of silly to argue about it. It is the way it is.

Fourth off, the real "debate" can not be resolved because the two sides are starting from different axioms. One side fervently believes that part of personal responsibility is a responsibility to not harm or take advantage of others. There can be endless debate about what constitutes harm. There can be endless debate about what constitutes taking advantage. Those are the specifics. The general idea still holds, provided that at least one thing is harm and at least one thing is taking advantage. The last statement is actually set theory.

The other side feels that since all responsibility starts and ends with one person, such notions are meaningless.

Logical proofs will not obtain for either side if the two sides do not use the same axioms.

Attempts at utilitarian arguments were similarly useless because the things that were considered "useful" were different.

Fifth off, for those who reject the social responsibility arguments... for those of us who were raised with them as a cornerstone of our basic morality, it is incredibly disconcerting to hear these things rejected. It is like someone suggesting babies are the "other white meat." It's obvious we piss you off just as much. However, this is not some silly statement of "what feels right." It is a coherent belief system shared by most of Western Civilization - despite all of the possible variations.

Sixth off, of course I think that the moral argument is the correct one. If you believe in morality, then you also must believe that some things are immoral. These words too can be endlessly debated. As a point of set theory though. At least one thing must be immoral if you believe that morality can exist


wait a second, who wrote this?




variation30 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:25:13 PM)

 
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ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

That was sent to me by QE


well...you just got busted.




QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:26:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: variation30

 
quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

That was sent to me by QE


well...you just got busted.



God Damn it no,

She is on my machine at my place.




variation30 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:27:01 PM)

protip: if you're going to create a smurf account to have the appearance that someone else actually agrees to your views...try to keep track of which profile you are posting with.




variation30 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:28:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

That was sent to me by QE


well...you just got busted.



God Damn it no,

She is on my machine at my place.


why would she have to post a message you sent her if she is at your place.




QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:28:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: variation30

protip: if you're going to create a smurf account to have the appearance that someone else actually agrees to your views...try to keep track of which profile you are posting with.


NO she is sitting right here. and I am pissed at her




variation30 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:31:48 PM)

I'm imagining something like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-B0ad62tlAQ




QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:32:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

That was sent to me by QE


well...you just got busted.



God Damn it no,

She is on my machine at my place.


why would she have to post a message you sent her if she is at your place.



This is utterly stupid, and now we both look like idiots.
I typed that up, in word, and she really liked it and decided to put it up straight away. She logged in as her of course.




QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:35:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: variation30

I'm imagining something like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-B0ad62tlAQ


Funny I'll bet you are.




variation30 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:37:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

This is utterly stupid, and now we both look like idiots.
I typed that up, in word, and she really liked it and decided to put it up straight away. She logged in as her of course.



no, only you look like an idiot.




ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:38:26 PM)

Jesus christ, this train wreck just can't get any funnier than this! I can't remember the last time I laughed so fucking hard!!! [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]




pie45 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:38:56 PM)

A person could be right, though, saying that they 'need' this type or that type of experience to feel as if they've experienced their day or night dream, or lived their wildest fantasy. If that is thier goal, then so what? I can agree with you based on the extreme of which you speak of, but I believe there is a whole lot of space between 'need' and 'addiction'.




QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:39:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

This is utterly stupid, and now we both look like idiots.
I typed that up, in word, and she really liked it and decided to put it up straight away. She logged in as her of course.



no, only you look like an idiot.



Dude, I know you think you have the biggest aha moment of your life, but you don't




QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:40:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda

Jesus christ, this train wreck just can't get any funnier than this! I can't remember the last time I laughed so fucking hard!!! [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]


You have no idea. No one is going to believe either of us. God this sucks.




Aileen1968 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:42:50 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

This is utterly stupid, and now we both look like idiots.
I typed that up, in word, and she really liked it and decided to put it up straight away. She logged in as her of course.



no, only you look like an idiot.



Hahaha. This is great.




variation30 -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:43:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

This is utterly stupid, and now we both look like idiots.
I typed that up, in word, and she really liked it and decided to put it up straight away. She logged in as her of course.



no, only you look like an idiot.



Dude, I know you think you have the biggest aha moment of your life, but you don't


no, the biggest aha moment I've ever had was when I first read the opening chapters of Mises' Human Action.

this was, however, a pretty big haha moment.




QuixoticErrant -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:44:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


quote:

ORIGINAL: variation30

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant

This is utterly stupid, and now we both look like idiots.
I typed that up, in word, and she really liked it and decided to put it up straight away. She logged in as her of course.



no, only you look like an idiot.



Hahaha. This is great.


you are so not kidding. I would laugh at it myself if it didn't make us both look like utter fools.




ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: On addiction and D/s (7/2/2009 9:45:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: QuixoticErrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda

Jesus christ, this train wreck just can't get any funnier than this! I can't remember the last time I laughed so fucking hard!!! [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]


You have no idea. No one is going to believe either of us. God this sucks.


Well, you've got to admit, it doesn't look really good. And i don't mean to rub your nose in it, but man - I'm sure there's also a part of you that's got to admit it's funnier than hell! Sorry, but I just can't help laughing my ass off!




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