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beargonewild -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 2:52:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: vasha

sub, slave, pet, bottom, or other: how exactally do you all define yourselves?  regardless of how anyone else may do so... yes, even your Dom or Domme.  why? 



I am all of the above and much more.




AngelGeena -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 2:57:36 PM)

like bearylicious.....[;)]




girlygurl -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 3:02:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

As long as I am his, I am me.
 
the.dark.


I couldn't have said it any better. [:)]




sweetsub1957 -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 3:12:27 PM)

First of all, I'm proud to belong to Him.  I am His owned & collared submissive, His friend and lover, His ponygirl and sometimes His mare in heat.  lol  I'm comfortable with & call myself all the above, but mostly I'm just me.  He calls me "MY babypony" and His "sweetie" & and I'm fine with those too. 
[sm=hearts.gif]   
BTW vasha, is that secondary picture on your profile a black panther?  It's beautiful




pyroaquatic -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 3:21:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: vasha

this idea, or one like it, im sure has been asked.  still,  i am curious... so here goes-

sub, slave, pet, bottom, or other: how exactally do you all define yourselves?  regardless of how anyone else may do so... yes, even your Dom or Domme.  why? 

i know how my owner defines me... and i dont agree.  mostly for my own reason,  wich i may get into later, but ild like to know yours. please. and espcially ild like to know if your personal self definition differs from that of your owners of you,  and why.  

Thankyou very much,
~Vasha


Right now I belong to myself. I am a christopher and and I define myself as such. Of course, even if I eventually find an owner or an owner finds me I will still retain my inner christopher-ness. I will only accept having this inner nature of mine enhanced. I have to work on having myself happy and taken care of, and my focus... well... it is shot but it is something I am working on.




LaTigresse -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 3:22:34 PM)

What I am is defined entirely by who you ask. To some sister, daughter, mother, pain in the ass, bitch, etc etc etc.

My personality has always been a dominant one. I would wither and die inside trying to serve another, I know, I've tried it.

I am fairly intelligent, have good common sense and a very low tollerance for bullshit. I am often a loner and prefer the company of 4 legged furries to that of most people.

I am many things. I haven't a slave so do not feel I can say I am a mistress, master, whatever. Time will tell if that should be the case again.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 3:35:57 PM)

I am a human being.

I am a woman.

A daughter, a sister, a niece, a cousin, and a mother.

Once a slave, now an owner.

I am lots of other important things, but I won't bore you with a long list.

What does your owner define you as, that you don't agree with- and why?




slavekal -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 4:55:57 PM)

I am a submissive male to dominant women.  And a cuckold.  Why?  Who knows?  I think I am wired this way.  I have had these feelings all my life.




Starbuck09 -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 6:30:54 PM)

I am amazing.




pixidustpet -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 6:59:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247
He might throw something in there about being his precious little girl and a big-time picklehead, but that's probably not something you care about, lol


prop, i think that is one of the most adorable things i have ever seen.  [:)]

TheEngineer would say i'm his slave, his little girl, his naughty girl, his wife, his lady....

i just say i'm his.

kitten




playfulotter -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 8:16:24 PM)

I am submissive, bottom, Daddy's little girl, slave-like at times, a good pet (mostly a puppy girl)...woof woof! (not necessarily in this order everyday as this depends on his desires....)  As far as your second question goes about  "why"?  That is just how I am....wow that would be hard to answer......Yikes!




pyroaquatic -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 8:24:16 PM)

We are such hopeful romantics.




brandi1379 -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 10:07:58 PM)

I am Sir's pet, his kitten, i am submissive by nature, i know this now after a long search for who i really was. Why u ask? I must be wired this way, who knows, who really cares why, as long i please my Sir and make him happy. 




ashp23 -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/24/2009 10:56:54 PM)

I am a submissive, a slave, a pet, and once apon a time, Daddys little girl, but to me, this is just me and who I am....

Why you ask? I suppose I was wired this way from childhood. I feel the need to serve and the need to make him happy.




belindat -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/25/2009 1:57:00 AM)

I was born a male. I wish to remain a male. My lady wishes me to be as female as possible. Becuase I love and trust her she does what she wishes to me.

In the end I'm very happy being what she has made me becuase it makes her happy.






MRandme -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/25/2009 5:43:33 AM)

i am a submissive person by nature... i get great happiness from making other people happy.

Master brings out my submissiveness to such a degree that -- for Him -- i am a slave. Being owned by Him makes me feel safe and secure, comfortable. i don't know that i could be a slave to another Man, i think there is something in the chemistry and dynamic that we have that makes it possible.

Labels are only valid if the person applies them to themselves. One person's slave is another's sub and vice-versa.

peace,

g




porcelaine -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/26/2009 9:00:17 AM)

i'm a gem. multifaceted with many sides, each as sparkling as the other. think tiffany here. [;)]

i consider myself a woman who elects to yield. i'm capable of leading as a dominant or serving as a slave. the role chosen is largely dependent on the dynamics of the relationship. if i had to attach a label to myself i would say i'm a compilation instead. i find the others far too limiting in scope and depth.

porcelaine




OwnedbyShayne -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/26/2009 4:20:26 PM)

I'm a slave for my Daddy and that defines who I am as a person. I love doing anything and everything to make Him happy, and in doing so I've learnt that I'm extremely submissive which is the definition of a slave. I'm the type of person that constantly needs a new challenge to better myself, and always trying to please my Daddy is what helps me acheive that goal. :)




AlchemicMelody -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/26/2009 6:03:55 PM)

I label myself as a submissive. But then again, I dislike labels so I am really just 'me'. :)




oceanwinds -> RE: what are you? and more importantly, why (6/26/2009 6:36:33 PM)

I am a bad hair day today[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image]

I am complex. I am every changing. I am precious. I am giving and caring by nature, and sometimes too much. I am wonderful, so Sir says. I am a thinker. I am loyal. I am patient with others.

Labels that people have put on me:
Submissive
Hippie
Witch
Teacher
Lecturer
Mentor
Psychic
Psycho

I answer to all of them.

I am spirit exploring my potentials in many areas call life.

I am forgiving

I am hopeful

I am grateful
I am I.

oceanwynds

Opps forgot to say why i am this way. I am this way because I am I, and nobody else. I am the total of all my experiences and more, which makes me who i am.




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