LaTigresse
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Using fast reply........ All I can say to the various passionate posts is "Oh good grief!!" I've never understood why people that do stellar things in the entertainment business are more akin to god than those that do stellar things in other fields. I've never understood why it is acceptable to say less than flattering things about a freaky person when they are alive, but BAM, they die, probably helped along by their own vices, and they become saintlike. It is too bad that the music/entertainment industry lost a genius. It really is. However, the reality is that his vices were destroying him and his talent for years. It is a fact. He was no saint. If anything a good example for NOT putting children on that path. His life was tragically fucked up. I am not sure he ever had a chance at a happy life. How sad it is that we benefited from his loss of a happy life. Because THAT is what it really is. He sacrificed his life, a chance at peace and joy, to give us an eternity of landmark musical breakthroughs, even if we do not like his music specifically. So, given that truth, is the sainthood we project upon them based upon our own deep seated guilt? Or is it something much more shallow? An envy of the opportunity he had and threw away? An envy of his material wealth while we sit in our homes that will never be like his mansions? I don't know. I don't get our obsession with fame and famous people. Our deep visceral reactions, both for and against. Personally, I can admire the positive things about a person while realistically acknowledging their human faults. No different than when I do look in the mirror at myself. Though I see their good traits more than I see my own. I AM more critical of myself. I hold myself to high standards, push myself to be better. Maybe that is some of the negative also. We see the opportunity people like this celebrity have and throw away. We see the blatant waste and like to think we would be less selfish and do more with that power and wealth. Some of us would, many of us would not. The complex nature of our feelings for celebrities is intriguing. I have met a few and not one is better or worse than the best or worst non celebrity I've known. Only more out of touch with reality as most of us live it. Then again, I've met A LOT of non celebrities that are pretty out of touch with reality also. I don't really care one way or another how anyone perceives, or voices that perception, of another. Then again, I have a truely warped sense of humour and a total disregard for the whole "death thing" If y'all thought Aileen's joke was bad, I won't even tell you the Lego joke I got from a long time MJ fan yesterday morning. For everyone that has their boxers/panties wadded, keep in mind, different people deal with loss and grief in very different ways. Humour is one. Just because a person is not behaving in a way that is YOUR way, acceptable to you based upon your coping, does not make their way wrong. If you feel better hopping upon a pedestal and looking down your nose, have a party. Whether you like it or not, it doesn't shine a flattering light on you either. Personally, I just kinda hang out somewhere in the middle. Sad, but not the end of the world. It is what it is. Like grandpa always said, before he died, "LeeAnn, one thing is for sure, none of us are going to get out of this alive." Or something similar, depending on how many double shooters he'd had while we were philosophising. Y'all just really need to chill. Life is going to go on, until we all die.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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