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RE: Without "them" - 2/16/2006 6:55:03 PM

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Wheeew....Seems like many are weighing in on the compass side of the question.

So in what ways has their guidence helped you?

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RE: Without "them" - 2/19/2006 12:48:33 PM

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Wheeew....Seems like many are weighing in on the compass side of the question.

So in what ways has their guidence helped you?

I have never been healthier. My Dragon makes sure that I see my Doc and that I take all my pills when I am suposed to and such. I would most likely be in the hospital if it wasnt for him.

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RE: Without "them" - 2/19/2006 6:07:58 PM

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My question is this: do most of you feel that without a Master/Mistress or collar that you are "whole" people? Whole meaning you function well in your job, relationships, have hobbies, friends and the like and a Dom/me is more of a compass that you seek to enhance yourself?

or is the opposite the case...you're a mess without the guidence and support that a Dom/me provides?

i'm not a mess without Him, but oh my my my my my - with Him i feel delectible.

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RE: Without "them" - 2/19/2006 7:28:30 PM

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Wheeew....Seems like many are weighing in on the compass side of the question.

So in what ways has their guidence helped you?

i had lost my strength. Now i have it back, tenfold.

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RE: Without "them" - 2/19/2006 7:33:43 PM

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There are times I feel I'm too complete a person, and long for someone else to ease some of it from my shoulders. Of course, that is not going to happen, so I just struggle on through.

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RE: Without "them" - 2/19/2006 8:56:53 PM

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i thought this seems very interesting for a topic. Personally, i am very successful - I have a good job, enjoy many solitary activities, well-rounded, etc. But in relationships, i HAVE struggled - this is what revealed my submissiveness. i was stuck pretending to be the traditional male stereotype and struggled with many failed relationships and have discovered that i think what is truly at the heart of a relationship for me is that i NEED to serve. Seems easy enough to understand, but i'm still searching and discovering my submissiveness...

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RE: Without "them" - 2/20/2006 5:29:51 AM

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I can function and enjoy life without a Master but I always feel like something is missing even if at the time i can not put my finger on what it is thats missing.

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RE: Without "them" - 2/21/2006 4:46:22 PM

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i now understand about yoru cravings that you need from a master

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RE: Without "them" - 2/24/2006 12:43:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

I was reading another thread and it got my head swimming. While I personally prefer a sub that has their act together as an individual BEFORE I become involved with them there seem to be many that so not abide by this same logic.

My question is this: do most of you feel that without a Master/Mistress or collar that you are "whole" people? Whole meaning you function well in your job, relationships, have hobbies, friends and the like and a Dom/me is more of a compass that you seek to enhance yourself?

or is the opposite the case...you're a mess without the guidence and support that a Dom/me provides?

one believes that if one can not take care of one's self, one can not take care of a Master. Yes one can function well without a Master........but certainly does not enjoy life as much as when one is Owned and can serve one's Master.

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