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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:04:23 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: Kyoki

Boy, I should slap some tits on myself, wear some leather, and call myself a domme. Obviously I'd be respected by everyone if I'm a domme. Right?

... Right? D:



If it works any better for you than it has for me, you let me know. 

I'm seriously beginning to think that we need to start a quota system for cheeky malesubs on these boards.  Peon, Politesub and Otters were here first, so you're going to have to take a number.  When we have a vacancy, we'll call you.

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:13:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
If you earn the leather, you bet.





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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:14:37 PM   
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Actually, if that happens to me, I find it helpful. I can put them on IGNORE/BLOCK right from the start.

Heh heh heh.

You have....... mail!


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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:18:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Loki45

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
If you earn the leather, you bet.





Loki, Lady Pact has earned her leathers, as have several other femdoms on these boards.  If you honestly don't know what that means, you could ask, instead of posting a dorky icon that makes it look as though you don't believe it takes work to earn them.


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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:25:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix


If it works any better for you than it has for me, you let me know. 

I'm seriously beginning to think that we need to start a quota system for cheeky malesubs on these boards.  Peon, Politesub and Otters were here first, so you're going to have to take a number.  When we have a vacancy, we'll call you.


Takes number.  13.  That can't be good. :(

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:28:10 PM   
Loki45


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
Loki, Lady Pact has earned her leathers, as have several other femdoms on these boards.  If you honestly don't know what that means, you could ask, instead of posting a dorky icon that makes it look as though you don't believe it takes work to earn them.


I think we'll just leave at "what you believe is not what I believe."

How's that?


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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:36:53 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: Loki45
I think we'll just leave at "what you believe is not what I believe."

How's that?

This thread is about disrespect to female dominants.  Women (and men) who earn leathers also tend to earn a certain amount of respect... though apparently not from you.  If you consider it a public service to be a good example of what StoneFox was talking about in her OP, I assure you that dominant women on this site are already familiar with disrespectful men.

< Message edited by RedMagic1 -- 6/30/2009 1:37:24 PM >

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:39:33 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It's all good, Red.  Luke warm joke at best.

Do you think it would have gone over better if I would have said he had to earn the tits instead?


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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:41:03 PM   
Loki45


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Loki45
I think we'll just leave at "what you believe is not what I believe."

How's that?

This thread is about disrespect to female dominants.  Women (and men) who earn leathers also tend to earn a certain amount of respect... though apparently not from you.  If you consider it a public service to be a good example of what StoneFox was talking about in her OP, I assure you that dominant women on this site are already familiar with disrespectful men.


I amuses me to see what you perceive as disrespect. It reminds me of the fiasco with Miss California being blasted as intolerant for stating her beliefs.

So, my beliefs are a disrespect to yours, hmmm? Interesting. Amusing, and interesting.


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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:44:35 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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I wanted to bring this up in a way intended for discussion...and that's the topic of disrespect towards DOMINANTS on this website, especially as it regards elements of our profiles and journals.
just because your profile states you are a dominant does not mean you are immune from snark mail. Submissives receive quite a bit as well.

Delete and move on.



My two cents if I may ladys,I am feeling chatty today..I agree with you holly,Just because your profile states you are a domme doesn't mean you are immune from hate mail it also doesn't mean that you are a domme either..Do you know how many are scammed by women on CM, why of course you do..Thats why so many subs are warry if not down right pissed..RESPECT is earned by many conversations and earning of trust on both sides of the whip..Bounty

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 1:57:04 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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ORIGINAL: Kyoki

Boy, I should slap some tits on myself, wear some leather, and call myself a domme. Obviously I'd be respected by everyone if I'm a domme. Right?

... Right? D:



Smacks him around a little bit lol.there is only three way that I know of to earn Leathers, member of the leather society where you actually earn your leathers,you were around in the late 40s old guard or you are a 1% biker like myself or ohhhh yeah you can rush off to buy them some..So I agrre in part leathers doesn't make a domme either..

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 2:21:47 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Considering I'm not that old (from the 40's) and I don't ride, that pretty much leaves the first option, Bounty.  LOL.

As for the actual OP, to be honest, I can't say that I've received many emails that fit the category.  Of course I get the regular crap that most of us get.  MP and clip are always surprised at the number of random emails that I get in a day, but it's very rare that someone says something negative based on My profile or journal.  Which, now that I think about it surprises Me somewhat because I really don't consider My profile to be all that good.  I just don't consider Myself to be that interesting of a topic.


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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 2:28:08 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: frankx

quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix


If it works any better for you than it has for me, you let me know. 

I'm seriously beginning to think that we need to start a quota system for cheeky malesubs on these boards.  Peon, Politesub and Otters were here first, so you're going to have to take a number.  When we have a vacancy, we'll call you.


Takes number.  13.  That can't be good. :(


We'll bump you up a few places in the queue if you promise not to use the eye-rolling icon thingy (that's a technical term, by the way).

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 2:53:56 PM   
lovingpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kyoki

Boy, I should slap some tits on myself, wear some leather, and call myself a domme. Obviously I'd be respected by everyone if I'm a domme. Right?

... Right? D:



If it works any better for you than it has for me, you let me know. 

I'm seriously beginning to think that we need to start a quota system for cheeky malesubs on these boards.  Peon, Politesub and Otters were here first, so you're going to have to take a number.  When we have a vacancy, we'll call you.


Does that mean there are plenty of opening for fluffy, adorable, cheeky fem subs?????? 

lovingpet

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 3:14:46 PM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		As it turns out, it's your lucky day!  We happen to have just one opening for a cheeky dommy femsub, due to the untimely demise of the previous occupant of the position.  Your uniform will consist of, well, not very much at all.  I think we might allow you a g-string in the Collar Me colours of black and blue.  You can start immediately.  The pay is not good, but the fringe benefits are excellent. 

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 3:20:27 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		Yippeeeee!!!!!!!!!  It's the best job offer I've had in well..... forever!  LOL

But do I have to wear the g string?  It will impede with my duties of getting these cheeky subbie boys to kiss my lovely bottom. 

lovingpet

Uhhhhh.... wait a minute!  What happened to the former occupant???

< Message edited by lovingpet -- 6/30/2009 3:21:37 PM >

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 4:11:56 PM   
StoneFox


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Status: offline 		I really got a good laugh out of your 'earn the tits' bit! That was awesome :D

But to be more serious for a second...looking back in the thread, I have to say that it offends me when people think that being a Domme is as easy as kindergartners playing make-believe. The right costume, a slapped-on title, and a nifty-dift CM profile. Oooooh, I'm a TWUE DOMME now!! lol. For me, I started out before I even hit 20 and I always identified as a Dominant Female and though I'm not exactly part of the old guard leather tradition, I have put in the work (so to speak) because it is very hard to be taken seriously as a Dominant when one is young (as I'm sure many others who came into it young can attest to). Many years later, I'm comfortable with the unique kind of Domme I am and I'm certainly no longer wet behind the ears. In my own way...I've 'earned my leathers'. But that's a tangent that I'm going to step off of now :)

I do have to say that a lot of people have expressed very good opinions and even brought up some things I hadn't considered before. Many people expressed their views politely...humorously...and thoughtfully. I really appreciated that. For the few who conducted themselves less well, well...thanks, but no thanks

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 4:22:22 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Uhhhhh.... wait a minute!  What happened to the former occupant???


Yes, I was wondering when you would ask about that.  We'll have to have a little chat sometime.

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 4:32:52 PM   
Starbuck09


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Status: offline 		Fox I wouldn't worry too much about disrespect on this website, annoying as it is doesnt do anything but instantly remove some people from your own search for prospective partners. Personally I think that everyone is entitled to a degree of basic respect that either reinforce with or squander with your personality. Having read your profile and had a leer over your photos I feel safe in saying that you seem perfectly entitled to be treated with the utmost respect, if people don't to fuel their own egos then like I and others have already said it is only their loss.

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RE: Disrespect - 6/30/2009 4:53:26 PM   
Scotty306134


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Status: offline 		Lovingpet.... be very careful lining up in front of  bunch of cheeky subby boys.... You might get poked in the bee hind!

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